• The Four F's: FDS Strategies to Survive and Thrive
    May 30 2026

    What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest.

    "Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence

    Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video on helping hungry ghosts



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    1 hr
  • The Not-Dating Female Strategy
    May 12 2026

    Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.

    We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyone

    Let us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com


    Love you queens!

    Scrotes die mad

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    52 mins
  • A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?
    May 1 2026

    Let us know!
    contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

    love u, see you next week

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    2 mins
  • The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah
    Apr 21 2026

    FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.

    If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

    Scrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies

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    55 mins
  • Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'
    Apr 4 2026

    Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!

    Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

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    58 mins
  • My Kink is Shaming
    Mar 21 2026

    In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?

    Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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    59 mins
  • Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings
    Mar 14 2026

    Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.

    Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic

    Join the conversation by commenting on Spotify

    Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡

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    1 hr
  • Let's Talk About Sex!
    Feb 20 2026

    Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.

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    53 mins