In our series on the Emotional Operating System (EOS), we move from the "Fire" of the Anxious style to the "Ice" of the Dismissive-Avoidant style. If you or your ex tend to shut down, disappear, or become hyper-independent after a breakup, this episode is for you. We deconstruct the code that views vulnerability as a threat and independence as the only path to safety. Learn how to identify "deactivating strategies" and how to use the Thought Download to move from a system shutdown to a state of healthy, secure processing.

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