What happens when the church stays silent about pornography, sexual brokenness, shame, and identity struggles?

In this powerful Covenant Eyes Podcast episode recorded live at NRB 2026 in Nashville, Rob Stoddard sits down with Garry Ingraham, pastor and founder of Love and Truth Network, to discuss pornography addiction, same-sex attraction, healing from trauma, spiritual warfare, and how churches can become safe places for restoration.

Garry shares his deeply personal testimony of early exposure to pornography, years of struggle, leaving the faith, entering the LGBT lifestyle, and ultimately finding freedom and healing through Jesus Christ and authentic Christian community.

This conversation also tackles:
• Porn addiction in the church
• Why pastors feel unequipped
• Sexual brokenness among men and women
• Healing childhood wounds
• Shame, secrecy, and accountability
• Creating safe churches for recovery
• Protecting teens from pornography
• Covenant Eyes and accountability tools
• Biblical truth AND compassion

If you or someone you know is struggling with pornography, shame, unwanted sexual behavior, or identity confusion, this episode offers hope, healing, and practical encouragement.

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Time-Stamped Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
00:33 Garry Ingraham’s Story Begins
01:24 Early Exposure to Pornography
01:43 Leaving the Church & Entering LGBT Lifestyle
02:43 Returning to Christ
04:02 Healing Through Christian Community
05:34 Why Love and Truth Network Was Started
07:17 Why Churches Avoid Sexuality Conversations
09:13 The Church’s Silence on Pornography
10:42 Creating Safe Churches for Healing
12:10 Inner Healing & Spiritual Warfare
15:05 Protecting Teens from Pornography
16:21 Where to Connect with Love and Truth Network

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard sit down with marriage ministry leaders Brad and Heidi Mitchell to discuss one of the most overlooked yet powerful habits in marriage: praying together. While many couples pray individually, surprisingly few regularly pray as husband and wife—and the impact can be profound when they do.

Drawing from their new devotional resource and decades of marriage ministry experience, Brad and Heidi share why prayer helps couples navigate conflict, make decisions, weather difficult transitions, and stay connected to both God and each other. They explain how bringing challenges before God changes the dynamic of marriage by shifting couples from opposition to partnership and helping them pursue God's will together.

The conversation also explores common marriage struggles, including communication breakdowns, forgiveness, major life transitions, digital distractions, and sexual integrity. Through practical advice and biblical wisdom, Brad and Heidi offer encouragement to couples who want to strengthen their relationship and build a Christ-centered marriage that can withstand life's challenges.

Whether you're newly married, navigating a difficult season, or simply looking to grow closer as a couple, this episode serves as a reminder that healthy marriages are built intentionally—and that prayer may be one of the most powerful tools God has given us to strengthen them.

Episode Topics Discussed

• Why so few couples pray together regularly
• The power of prayer in strengthening marriage
• How prayer helps resolve conflict and improve communication
• Keeping Christ at the center of your relationship
• Common marriage struggles and how to navigate them
• Major life transitions and their impact on marriage
• The importance of forgiveness and extending grace
• Sexual integrity, accountability, and finding hope after failure
• Technology, social media, and digital distractions in marriage
• Practical ways couples can reconnect and communicate better

Resources Mentioned

Build Your Marriage
Praying Together devotional by Brad & Heidi Mitchell
Covenant Eyes accountability and monitoring tools

Timestamps

00:00 – Why So Few Couples Pray Together
00:23 – Meet Brad & Heidi Mitchell
00:47 – Building a Marriage Ministry from Personal Struggles
01:32 – The Inspiration Behind Their New Prayer Devotional
03:51 – The Shocking Statistics About Couples Who Pray Together
04:37 – Marriage Topics Couples Should Be Praying About
05:41 – Keeping Christ at the Center of Marriage
06:50 – How Prayer Changes Conflict and Decision Making
08:08 – Common Challenges Couples Face Today
09:42 – Forgiveness, Healing, and Moving Forward Together
10:30 – Finding Hope After Sexual Betrayal and Broken Trust
13:39 – Temptation, Thoughts, and Spiritual Growth
14:40 – Their Goal of Visiting 80 Countries by Age 80
17:44 – Technology, Social Media, and Marriage Challenges
19:04 – Rebuilding Connection Through Eye Contact and Communication
19:41 – Practical Boundaries for Phones and Screen Time
21:20 – Communicating Needs Without Blame
21:42– Marriage, Perseverance, and Putting Christ First
22:20 – Resources for Couples and Final Encouragement

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A generation raised on constant stimulation is struggling with anxiety, delayed development, and an inability to disconnect—and many parents don’t realize how early those patterns begin. In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter and Theo Boyd sit down with retired pediatric physical therapist Ginny Cruz to discuss how excessive screen exposure is impacting children’s brains, emotional regulation, communication, and development.

Drawing from over four decades of experience in pediatric therapy and early intervention, Ginny explains why face-to-face interaction, boredom, physical play, and family connection are essential for healthy childhood development. She also shares practical encouragement for parents who want to reduce screen dependence without guilt or overwhelm.

This conversation offers hope for families who want to create healthier rhythms at home and reminds listeners that children were designed to grow through real-world relationships, not endless digital stimulation.

Episode Topics Discussed
• How excessive screen exposure impacts early childhood development
• Why anxiety and decision-making struggles are increasing in children
• The connection between technology and delayed speech development
• Face-to-face interaction and why it matters for brain development
• What children are missing when they spend too much time on devices
• Fine motor skill delays and overstimulation in young kids
• Why boredom, creativity, and play are essential for healthy growth
• Practical ways parents can reduce screen dependence at home
• How parental screen habits also impact children
• Understanding “virtual autism” and overstimulation symptoms

Resources Mentioned
The New Mom’s Guide to Help and Hope for Babies First Year by Ginny Cruz
Tummy Time Prayers Facebook Group
Ginny Cruz Website

Timestamps
00:00 – How Excessive Screen Time Impacts Child Development
00:31 – Welcome to Ginny- Her Background in Pediatric Therapy
01:36 – Developmental Delays and Screen Exposure After Covid
03:23 – The New Mom’s Guide to Help and Hope for Babies First Year
05:05 – Research on Anxiety, Screens, and Cognitive Development
09:09 – Reigning in the Risk of Early Exposure to Digital Stimulation
10:58 – Why Face-to-Face Interaction Matters for Development
13:54 – Fine Motor Skills, Focus, and Real World Learning
15:28 – Tools to Use in Place of Screens
18:58 – Can Brain Pathways Be Rewired?
22:23 – How Parents’ Own Screen Habits Affect Their Children
25:36 – Why Offline Connection Matters More Than Ever
28:22 – Boredom, Creativity, and Hearing From God
31:22 – Building Confidence Through Real World Experiences
33:05 – Reclaiming Family Connection and Simplicity
36:50 – Understanding “Virtual Autism” and Overstimulation
40:34 – When Parents Should Seek Early Intervention
42:31 – Resources, Encouragement, and Final Thoughts

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A hidden struggle can exist behind outward success, and for many men, achievement becomes the mask that keeps deeper battles buried. In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard sit down with entrepreneur, coach, and speaker Frank Rich to discuss identity, personal growth, and the deeper issues driving destructive habits.

Frank shares his journey from high performance success to helping men rebuild their lives through faith, purpose, discipline, and identity transformation. Together, they unpack the connection between mental health, isolation, anxiety, personal development, and unwanted behaviors, while offering hope for men who feel trapped behind shame or performance-based living.

This conversation challenges listeners to pursue holistic growth rather than surface-level behavior management and reminds them that true freedom starts with transformation from the inside out.

Episode Topics Discussed

• Why outward success can hide internal struggles
• The connection between identity and lasting freedom
• Faith, fitness, family, finance, and personal growth
• How anxiety, depression, and loneliness fuel destructive habits
• Why holistic healing matters for long-term change
• Rebuilding confidence, discipline, and purpose
• The role of neuroscience and psychology in behavior patterns
• Why community and accountability are essential for growth
• Helping men move from shame into transformation
• How purpose-driven living changes decision making

Resources Mentioned

The Rebuilt Man – Coaching and resources for men
Super Human Life Podcast – Hosted by Frank Rich
Covenant Eyes – Tools and accountability resources for digital integrity

Timestamps

00:00 – Faith, Fitness, Finance, Family & Freedom
00:16 – Welcome Back Frank Rich
00:32 – The Rebuilt Man and Helping High Achieving Men
02:00 – Success, Identity Transformation, and Holistic Growth
05:59 – The Connection Between Destructive Habits and Mental Health
07:36 – Identity Transformation Through Doing Hard Things 14:41 – The Super Human Life Podcast 19:35 – When Willpower Fails, Identity Wins
23:40 – Why Men Need Community and Accountability 27:35 – Focusing on the Future, Not the Past 30:51 – Final Thoughts and Where to Connect with Frank Rich

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, a powerful challenge is laid out: what if the real crisis facing men today isn’t just behavior—but identity? Theo McMonagle is joined by John Heinen and Devin Schadt of The Catholic Gentleman to unpack the deeper roots of masculinity, shame, and purpose in a culture that has lost its way.

Together, they explore how the breakdown of authentic masculinity has led to isolation, confusion, and destructive habits—and why reclaiming identity as sons, husbands, and fathers is essential for healing. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and years of ministry, John and Devin point to a countercultural truth: real strength is found not in control or dominance, but in sacrifice, responsibility, and self-giving love.

This conversation dives into the role of shame, the importance of brotherhood, and the necessity of spiritual discipline in forming men who can lead with courage and integrity. They also address cultural extremes—from passivity to domination—and offer a grounded, faith-filled vision of masculinity rooted in relationship, purpose, and truth.

Whether you’re navigating your own struggles, leading a family, or seeking clarity on what it means to be a man in today’s world, this episode offers both conviction and hope: transformation begins when you embrace your identity and allow God to work through your life.

Episode Topics Discussed

• The crisis of masculinity and loss of identity
• Why shame keeps men stuck and isolated
• The difference between passivity and domination
• Reclaiming masculinity through responsibility and virtue
• The role of brotherhood and accountability
• Why prayer and discipline are essential for growth
• Cultural confusion around relationships and marriage
• The impact of fatherlessness on young men
• Learning to embrace sacrifice, not avoid it
• How authentic masculinity is rooted in self-giving love

Resources Mentioned

The Catholic Gentleman
Fathers of Saint Joseph
The Meaning and Mystery of Man by Devin Schadt

Timestamps

06:26 – The Root of Lust & Disordered Desire
11:36 – How Shame Impacts Men’s Lives
17:50 – Embracing Littleness & True Strength
18:46 – Forming Men Who Take Responsibility
21:39 – Brotherhood, Prayer & Spiritual Growth
24:55 – Discipline, Habits & Self-Mastery
29:53 – Cultural Confusion Around Masculinity
33:36 – Marriage, Fear & Misconceptions
34:43 – The Power of Relationships & Purpose
38:54 – Love, Sacrifice & the Meaning of the Cross
44:55 – How Division Distorts Masculinity and Femininity 47:13 – Marriage as a Mirror: Identity, Growth, and Self-Awareness 51:29 – Fatherhood: What Sons and Daughters Need
59:31 – Final Encouragement & Living with Purpose

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Ashley Jameson of Pure Desire to talk about one of the most overlooked conversations in the church today—how these struggles are impacting women, marriages, and entire congregations. While many still view this as a men’s issue, the reality is far more complex and far more widespread.

Ashley shares from years of experience walking alongside individuals and churches, highlighting both the challenges and the hope she has seen firsthand. From powerful stories of freedom to the ongoing gaps in resources, she explains why this is one of the greatest discipleship opportunities facing the church right now. When people feel safe enough to bring their stories into the light, real healing can begin.

The conversation also explores the unique challenges women face, including shame, betrayal, trauma, and confusion around identity and worth. Ashley offers practical insight for churches, leaders, and individuals who want to take the next step—reminding listeners that healing is not instant, but it is possible with the right support, community, and commitment to the process.

Episode Topics Discussed

• Ashley Davidson’s role at Pure Desire and ministry background
• The vision and impact of Pure Desire’s counseling and group programs
• Her book Girl Talk and resources for moms and daughters
• The growing need for continued care beyond initial recovery
• Why this issue is a major discipleship opportunity for the church
• Current statistics and the gap in church resources
• How small churches can implement support systems
• The importance of testimonies and creating safe spaces
• Challenges women face, including shame, betrayal, and insecurity
• Why repeated struggles often point to deeper work that needs to be done
• The realities facing younger generations today
• Trauma, betrayal, and how it impacts the mind, body, and relationships
• Signs of unresolved trauma and unhealthy relational patterns
• How churches can better support individuals and spouses
• Encouragement for those feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or alone

Resources Mentioned

Pure Desire Ministries – https://puredesire.org
Pure Desire Online Groups and Church Partnerships- https://puredesire.org/groups
Girl Talk by Ashley Jameson- https://puredesire.org/shop/girl-talk

Timestamps

00:00 – Why This Conversation Matters
00:32 – Introduction to Ashley Davidson
00:37 – Pure Desire’s Impact and Ministry Overview
03:15 – Girl Talk and New Resource Development
06:44 – How to Connect with Pure Desire
07:28 – The Reality in Churches Today
11:30 – Supporting Small Churches and Leaders
14:10 – Addressing Hidden Struggles in the Church
16:39 – Unique Challenges Women Face
19:38 – The Younger Generation and Growing Needs
23:06 – Trauma, Betrayal, and Its Impact
25:59 – Signs of Unresolved Trauma
28:31 – How Churches Can Better Support Spouses
31:32 – Final Encouragement: You Are Not Alone

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"Most marriages don't fall apart overnight, they unravel through small compromises over time."

In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena and author of multiple books focused on equipping men to lead with strength, integrity, and purpose. Jim shares practical, hard-earned wisdom on how men can build guardrails to protect their marriages and avoid the small compromises that often lead to devastating consequences.

Drawing from decades of marriage and ministry experience, Jim unpacks the importance of boundaries, emotional connection, and intentional leadership in relationships. He explains that strong marriages don’t happen by accident—they are built through daily choices, disciplined habits, and a commitment to honor your spouse both privately and publicly.

The conversation also dives into deeply personal moments from Jim’s own marriage, including lessons learned through failure, repentance, and growth. Listeners will walk away with actionable insight, biblical encouragement, and a renewed understanding of what it means to build a marriage that lasts.

Episode Topics Discussed

• The mission behind Men in the Arena and calling men into action
• Why marriages need guardrails to stay strong
• Common relational pitfalls that lead to broken trust
• The importance of emotional connection in marriage
• Healthy ways to interact with the opposite sex
• Why certain compliments and conversations can cross boundaries
• The biblical meaning of “cleaving” and pursuing your spouse
• Building a marriage marked by intentional pursuit and connection
• The power of how you speak about your spouse to others
• How “framing” your spouse shapes how others see them
• Repentance, growth, and restoring trust within marriage
• Guardrails for singles and preparing for future relationships
• Living above reproach and protecting your integrity

Resources Mentioned

Men in the Arena – https://meninthearena.org
Pre-order Jim Ramos’ latest book- https://www.amazon.com/Men-in-the-Arena-Podcast/dp/B08K5BVH21
Men in the Arena Podcast – https://podcast.meninthearena.org/

Timestamps

00:00 – Why Guardrails Matter in Marriage
00:20 – Welcome and Introduction to Jim Ramos
00:34 – The Mission of Men in the Arena
01:24 – The Heart Behind the New Book
03:24 – Guardrails in Everyday Interactions
05:52 – Staying Emotionally Connected to Your Spouse
06:42 – The Meaning of “Cleave” in Marriage
10:46 – The Power of Speaking Well About Your Spouse
11:33 – Confession, Growth, and Restoring Trust
16:37 – A Word for Women and Shared Responsibility
17:46 – Guardrails for Singles
19:13 – Living Above Reproach and Protecting Integrity
22:27 – Where to Find the Book and Get Connected

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"If we want to see real transformation, we have to stop talking about behavior and start talking about the heart, the brain, and the trauma behind it."

In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter and the team welcome Hannah Ashwell, a therapist from the United Kingdom specializing in trauma psychology and modern behavioral addictions. Hannah brings clinical insight and pastoral sensitivity to a topic many churches still struggle to address openly.

Hannah shares about her upcoming book Quit Porn, written to make complex psychological and spiritual concepts accessible to everyday readers. Drawing from her work as a therapist and her own life journey, she explains why recovery often requires both personal responsibility and compassionate support. Rather than focusing only on behavior change, the conversation explores deeper issues like shame, trauma, and the importance of honest conversation.

The discussion also highlights the role of the church in addressing this growing issue. Hannah emphasizes that silence allows struggles to deepen, while open conversations can bring hope and healing. From the impact on relationships and mental health to the importance of pastoral support and professional counseling, this episode encourages churches and individuals alike to step into the conversation with wisdom and courage.

Episode Topics Discussed

• Why pornography is often misunderstood as only a men’s issue
• The growing societal impact on relationships, families, and mental health
• Hannah’s background in trauma psychology and addiction counseling
• The inspiration behind her book Quit Porn
• Modern addictions beyond drugs and alcohol
• Why shame keeps people trapped in silence
• The difference between guilt and shame in recovery
• The role of trauma, opportunity, and digital access in behavioral struggles
• Why churches struggle to address the issue openly
• The importance of conversation, accountability, and community support
• How pastors can support people without carrying the entire burden alone
• When professional therapy becomes an important part of healing

Resources Mentioned

Hannah Ashwell Wellness: https://www.facebook.com/HannahAshwellWellness/
Quit Porn – https://www.quit-porn.com/
Quit Porn by Hannah Ashwell – Print edition available in the UK, audiobook and ebook releasing soon

Timestamps

00:00 – The Hidden Impact of Pornography on Society
00:35 – Meet Hannah Ashwell
01:26 – Writing the Book Quit Porn to Making Resources Accessible to Everyone
03:01 – Hannah’s Personal Journey and Motivation
04:49 – Why the Church Struggles to Address This Issue
07:11 – How Pornography Impacts Relationships and Society
09:00 – Helping Church Leaders Understand the Issue
10:46 – Addressing Pornography in the US vs. the UK 11:37 – Why Shame Keeps People Silent
13:39 – The Difference Between Guilt and Shame
15:46 – Addressing the Roots of Shame
17:41 – How Churches Can Support People in Recovery
19:47 – Where to Find Hannah’s Resources
20:43 – Final Advice for Churches and Individuals
21:41 – The Core Message of Quit Porn

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