In this episode of The Body Grievers® Club, Brianna interviews TikTok creator and author Allora Dannon, who describes herself as a plus-size "accidental late bloomer spokesperson." Allora explains how she reframed "late bloomer" to mean not dating or experiencing physical intimacy until her thirties, and she shares how growing up as the oldest of ten in a supportive religious family still left her feeling embarrassed, isolated, and "left behind" as her sisters married while she received little romantic attention.

Together, Bri and Allora discuss the cultural whiplash around sex and inexperience, the impact of fatphobia on dating, the desire to be wanted without tying worth to men's attraction, and how platitudes about dating can be more harmful than validation.

TIMESTAMPS:

01:27 Meet the Guest: 'Accidental Late Bloomer' Allora Dannon

04:13 Her Background: Big Family, Faith, and Feeling 'Too Much'

10:25 Wanting to Be Desired Isn't a Moral Failing

13:16 Modern Dating Is Brutal: Apps, Anxiety, and Outdated Advice

21:12 Season of Bravery: Dating Apps, Rules, and Asking People Out

33:13 First Relationship After Late Blooming: Beautiful Firsts & Red Flags

36:14 A 'Season of Bravery': Dating Apps, One-Month Rule & Meeting Her Fiancé

40:31 Do It Scared, Not Traumatized: Nervous System, Anxiety Meds & Expanding Attraction

46:26 Intimacy as Healing: Sleeping Naked, Loving Your Shape & Protecting Your Progress

51:16 Ode to the Apron Belly: Body Dysmorphia, Moving Goalposts & Finding Neutrality

56:47 Closing Advice & Community: The Memoir Plug, Where to Start Healing, and Where to Find Her

EPISODE RESOURCES:

"Who Is She? A Late Bloomer's Survival Guide" by Allora Dannon

"Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love" by Lily Womble

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In this episode of The Body GrieversⓇ Club, Bri sits down with Kimmie Singh, a registered dietitian specializing in PCOS and eating disorders, to discuss the complex journey of body liberation. They explore the societal assumptions faced by fat dietitians, the challenges of navigating professional spaces, and the stigmas around PCOS and body image. Kim breaks down her unique approach to nutrition, which emphasizes body liberation and destigmatizing food and body size. They delve into the importance of self-care, the limitations of behavior change alone, and the nuanced role of medications like GLP-1 in managing PCOS. The conversation also touches on their personal friendship dynamics, the diversity in movement preferences, and the importance of creating supportive and non-judgmental spaces for clients. Whether you're managing PCOS, grappling with body acceptance, or just looking to learn more about holistic and compassionate health care, this episode is packed with insights and practical advice.

01:59 The Role of a Non-Traditional Dietician

03:52 Personal Stories and Professional Challenges

07:07 Understanding PCOS: Personal Journey

15:07 Common Misconceptions and Myths about PCOS

22:20 Weight Neutral Management for PCOS

28:44 Healing Relationship with Movement

31:23 Gentle Encouragement vs. Pressure

39:03 Explaining PCOS in Simple Terms

42:06 Behavior Change and Medication

48:11 Final Thoughts and Resources

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