Since 1837, Elizabeth Poett’s family has owned and ranched 14,000 acres of land on the Santa Barbara Central Coast. Elizabeth was raised on Rancho San Julian, one of the oldest cattle ranches in California, and she continues to maintain the land as a 7th-generation cattle rancher.

You may know Elizabeth from the Ranch to Table show on HBO Max and the Magnolia Network or from her cookbook, The Ranch Table. In this conversation, we chat about recipes, Sunday traditions, and hosting, but we also dive into the realities of ranch living. Spoiler: it’s not always as glamorous or as exciting as television shows may make us believe. Elizabeth and I speak about stewardship, community, the lack of work/life boundaries, and how every day on the ranch is different. We also discuss the popular “trad wife” trend and how Instagram isn’t always reality.

This conversation is a beautiful reminder that a meaningful life often takes a lot of hard work, dedication, and a whole village of support.

Connect with Elizabeth:
Website: https://theranchtable.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethpoett/
The Ranch Table Cookbook: https://amzn.to/4xdKe8B
Substack: https://elizabethpoett.substack.com/

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In this solo episode of The Bets Life Podcast, I’m discussing something that I’ve been personally struggling with for a long time: the indecision surrounding starting a family. What if you’re not sure if you want kids? What if you’ve never felt certain about being a mom? What if you feel like your fertility window is quickly shrinking? What if you’ve been waiting for that “aha” moment, but it hasn’t arrived?

This episode is all about being in the “messy middle” and being “on the fence.” Not fully in, not fully out. Just…trying to figure it out.

I share what it’s been like to be asked, “When are you having kids?” constantly, the fear of choosing the wrong path, and why more and more women are finding themselves in limbo over the motherhood decision.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused, or even a little guilty for not having a clear answer, then this episode is for you.

In this episode, I talk about:

• What it actually feels like to be a “fence sitter” about having kids
• The pressure I feel in my 30s to become a mom or make a decision either way
• Misconceptions about women who don’t have children
• The reality that both paths can be fulfilling and also challenging
• The fact that grief may come with any life path not taken

Resources:

https://www.elle.com/life-love/a63309605/motherhood-decision-essay-2025/

https://therumpus.net/2011/04/21/dear-sugar-the-rumpus-advice-column-71-the-ghost-ship-that-didnt-carry-us/

https://www.vox.com/first-person/22370250/should-i-have-kids-a-baby-decide-start-family-parenthood-kids-childfree

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/27/us/politics/us-birthrate-decline-women.html

https://www.facebook.com/leanincommunity/posts/an-average-of-1-in-4-women-leave-the-workforce-during-their-first-year-of-mother/1157854729708854/

Baby Decision book: https://amzn.to/4s6Fyy8

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On this episode of The Bets Life Podcast, I’m joined by CEO and founder of ACP Management, Alice Hampton. From running global communications strategies for major beauty brands to walking away to start her own business, Alice opens up about the burnout, IVF struggles, and life pivots that led her (fortuitously) to founding a thriving talent management company. With a powerful roster including Kat Stickler, Madison Humphrey, and Anine Bing, Alice supports “her girls” with a dash of loving “momager” energy.

We dive into the reality behind managing top creators, why mental health always comes first, and how Alice has built a business rooted in trust, boundaries, and long-term vision. This conversation is honest, empowering, and a reminder that sometimes when you stop trying to control the journey, life is able to unfold exactly as it should.

In this episode:

• Alice’s global career in beauty and what burnout really looked like
• Infertility, pregnancy loss, and navigating deep personal heartbreak
• Amicable divorce and staying friends with your ex-husband
• Building a boutique agency centered on relationships instead of transactions
• Understanding the importance of taking a step back and taking breaks
• The truth behind influencer careers and constant online pressure
• Why “overnight success” is a myth and what actually builds longevity
• Setting boundaries, protecting your energy, and choosing peace
• How gratitude, perspective, and philanthropy shape her life

Connect with Alice:

Website: https://acp-management.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alicehampton/

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