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The Audaci-Tea

The Audaci-Tea

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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa and Sovereign: two fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.

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Episodes
  • Things Men Say When They Secretly Hate Women

    Things Men Say When They Secretly Hate Women
    May 25 2026
    In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign tackle a question many women are increasingly asking in modern dating and relationships: How do you find out if a man actually respects women? Together, they break down the subtle behaviors, coded language, and red flags that often reveal underlying misogynistic beliefs long before they become obvious. From dating apps and first dates to long term relationships, they unpack the difference between performative progressivism and genuine respect, and why many women are learning to pay closer attention to actions instead of words. They explore how misogynistic attitudes often hide behind seemingly harmless phrases, why some men adapt their language to avoid being exposed, and how conversations around gender, relationships, and autonomy can reveal much more than people realize. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to a viral video highlighting the growing affordability crisis in America, discuss Elsie Hewitt opening up after her split from Pete Davidson, and react to a video of men standing in line for fast food because "no women will cook for them." Later, they open the mailbag to hear from a 21 year old listener questioning whether healthy and equal relationships actually exist after dating an Andrew Tate supporter. 🎧 This episode breaks down the difference between genuine respect and hidden misogyny, and why asking the right questions can save women from a lot of future pain. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: • How misogyny can hide behind subtle language and behaviors • Dating red flags and questions women should ask early • Performative allyship vs genuine respect for women • Cultural narratives around masculinity and relationships • Equality, emotional intelligence, and healthy partnerships • Why women are raising their standards ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: “You’ll Own Nothing And Be Happy” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You%27ll_own_nothing_and_be_happy Gas Prices Surge https://www.reuters.com/business/energy/high-gas-prices-spur-americans-improvise-bus-rides-toy-cars-2026-05-19/ Elsie Hewitt 'on my own' after birth of daughter with Pete Davidson https://www.usatoday.com/videos/entertainment/celebrities/2026/05/18/elsie-hewitt-on-my-own-after-pete-davidson-breakup-baby/90139962007/ 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: This fake "being healed" trend is about to take off! Get ready for it ladies!!! https://youtu.be/8vnTUKj_RGg 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon and become a Tea VIP for perks like: • Early access to every episode (and the show notes!) • Ad-free listening or viewing • Our weekly bonus unhinged and uncensored Crumpets after show • Priority mailbag + topic submissions, and voting power on future topics • Access to our private women only community, and chat channels just for you 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:41 We Can't Afford Anything Anymore 11:18 Pete Davidson and Elsie Hewitt Split 19:59 Men Can't Cook For Themselves? 28:51 How To Tell If A Man Respects Women 37:08 Cultural Narratives About Women 46:48 Women's Roles In Relationships 50:00 Questions To Ask Men 01:03:05 Healthy vs Misogynistic Mindsets 01:13:29 How He Talks About Others 01:25:46 Mailbag: Do Good Men Exist? 01:45:18 Poll Results 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For business, press or advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
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    1 hr and 48 mins
  • Did Feminism Really Ruin Society?

    Did Feminism Really Ruin Society?
    May 18 2026
    In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take on one of the internet’s favorite anti feminist talking points: “Did feminism ruin society?” Together, they break down why the answer is no, and how feminism is often blamed for problems it did not create. From rising living costs to changing relationship dynamics, they unpack the real systemic issues shaping modern life and why women gaining autonomy is treated as the problem instead of the solution. They explore the history of women’s rights, the mythologized version of the “perfect” nuclear family, and why men’s frustration with changing gender roles is frequently redirected toward feminism instead of the economic and social systems actually responsible. The conversation also dives into women’s growing independence, dual income households, emotional labor, and why equality benefits society as a whole. This is not about feminism destroying society. It is about patriarchy losing control over women. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign recap Mother’s Day and the frustrations many mothers expressed this year, react to New York lawmakers fighting to protect abortion pill access, and discuss the broader attacks on reproductive autonomy. Later, in Tea Or Trash, they debate controversial feminist takes including gatekeeping feminism, terms like “girl boss” and “momtrepreneur,” and whether these labels actually undermine women. 🎧 This episode is a full breakdown of the backlash against feminism and why women’s freedom is not the reason society is struggling. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: • Why feminism is blamed for systemic societal problems • Women’s independence and changing gender dynamics • The myth of the “perfect” traditional family • Emotional labor, dual income households, and economic realities • How patriarchy harms both women and men • Why gender equality improves societies overall ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Some NYS lawmakers push for passage of mifepristone bill https://westfaironline.com/courts/some-nys-lawmakers-push-for-passage-of-mifepristone-bill/ I do... for now. UK Muslims revive temporary marriages https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-22354201 Marriage is meant to last a lifetime. But what if it were only for a temporary? https://www.ums.ac.id/en/news/research/the-snare-of-contract-marriage-in-java Marital Rape and Domestic Violence https://www.thehotline.org/resources/marital-rape-and-domestic-violence/ Automatic military draft registration takes effect in December https://www.cnn.com/2026/04/09/politics/us-military-draft-registration-2026 Gender equality and economic growth https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/gender-equality-and-economic-growth_fb0a0a93-en.html Conflict, aid cuts and equality backlash causing ‘stagnation and regression’ of women’s rights https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2025/sep/15/global-progress-gender-equality-womens-rights-sdg--un Educating girls and women drives employment and reduces poverty https://www.worldbank.org/ext/en/topic/education/girls-education Girls’ education, gender equality, and the role of civil society https://blogs.worldbank.org/en/education/girls-education-gender-equality-and-role-civil-society The response of female labour force participation to the evolution of labour markets and policies supporting the reconciliation of work and family life https://www.researchgate.net/publication/241685091_Drivers_of_female_labour_force_participation_in_the_OECD 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Buy The Ambition Penalty https://a.co/d/0b0VwgU1 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon and become a Tea VIP for perks like: • Early access to every episode (and the show notes!) • Ad-free listening or viewing • Our weekly bonus unhinged and uncensored Crumpets after show • Priority mailbag + topic submissions, and voting power on future topics • Access to our private women only community, and chat channels just for you 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:15 Mother’s Day Roundup 16:01 Erik Bottcher on Abortion Pill Access 22:22 Did Feminism Ruin Society? 30:00 What Actually Ruined Society? 39:12 Why Dual Income Households Became Necessary 47:54 Men...
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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Are Ambitious Women Being Punished? (feat. Stefani O'Connell)

    Are Ambitious Women Being Punished? (feat. Stefani O'Connell)
    May 11 2026
    In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by journalist and author Stefanie O’Connell to ask a question more women are starting to confront head on: Are ambitious women being punished for doing everything “right”? Drawing from her book The Ambition Penalty, Stefanie breaks down how corporate culture encourages women to lean in, speak up, and achieve more, only to penalize them once they do. Together, they unpack the systemic barriers that persist in the workplace, the double standards women are forced to navigate, and why ambition in women is still treated as a threat instead of an asset. Together they explore the reality behind the gender pay gap, the role of capitalism in reinforcing inequality, and how narratives around “fixing women” distract from the systems that are actually broken. The conversation also dives into parenting, “mom guilt,” and why women are expected to carry both professional success and moral responsibility without structural support. This is not about individual choices. It is about a system that punishes women no matter which path they take. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the Supreme Court’s latest emergency voting rights ruling, react to a viral video of a high school girl trapped in an elevator with a group of boys, and break down a clip of a female chess streamer being berated after beating a man. Later, they open the mailbag to hear from a 19 year old listener navigating the tension between her feminist values and her religious identity. 🎧 This episode is a clear-eyed breakdown of the ambition penalty and why success alone will not protect women from systemic bias. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: • The ambition penalty and workplace double standards • Why women are encouraged to succeed and then penalized for it • The gender pay gap and stalled progress • Capitalism, corporate culture, and structural inequality • “Mom guilt,” parenting norms, and invisible labor • Collective change vs individual responsibility ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Supreme Court Voting Rights Ruling https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2026/05/04/supreme-court-voting-rights-act-ruling-louisiana/89879693007/ Spirit Airlines Shutdown https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/spirit-airlines-apologizes-shock-shutdown-thank-sorry-american-people-rcna343714 Abortion Pill Ruling https://www.politico.com/news/2026/05/04/supreme-court-mifepristone-ruling-00904892 Texas Basketball Shooting Case https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/texas-man-charged-murder-fatal-shooting-woman-21-beat-basketball-polic-rcna53369 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Buy The Ambition Penalty https://a.co/d/0b0VwgU1 Follow Stefanie https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoconnell/ 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon and become a Tea VIP for perks like: • Early access to every episode (and the show notes!) • Ad-free listening or viewing • Our weekly bonus unhinged and uncensored Crumpets after show • Priority mailbag + topic submissions, and voting power on future topics • Access to our private women only community, and chat channels just for you 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 03:25 Voting Rights Ruling 12:44 Video Reaction: Girl Stuck In Elevator 16:39 Video Reaction: Chess Freakout 24:02 Welcome Stefanie O’Connell Rodriguez 32:52 What Is The Ambition Penalty? 42:45 Collective Action vs Individualism 47:49 The Impact of Capitalism 54:05 Reimagining Work Culture 01:09:50 Wellbeing and Diversification 01:11:17 Empowering Women’s Choices 01:18:59 Community Support and Resilience 01:25:38 Mailbag: Feminist or Catholic? 01:37:36 Poll Results 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
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    1 hr and 44 mins
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