Episodes

  • S2 ep 3: Why Things Become Eroticized?

    S2 ep 3: Why Things Become Eroticized?
    Jun 6 2026
    In this episode of "Taboo: Fetish or Kink!", Kay Love explores the intriguing question: why do certain objects or body parts become eroticized? She delves into the psychology and cultural impacts behind these interests, citing associative learning, symbolic meaning, aesthetic focus, identity exploration, and cultural imprinting as some of the factors that shape our desires. Once these interests have been established, discussing them with a partner becomes a crucial step. Kayla provides a step-by-step guide for approaching these sensitive conversations, emphasizing the importance of focusing on feelings, explaining personal meanings, respecting consent, and promoting open dialogue. Finally, she discusses the societal dynamics that distinguish "normal" from "taboo," stressing that these perceptions are heavily influenced by cultural double standards, media representation, power dynamics, historical baggage, and community visibility. She uses case studies, such as the acceptance of heels, tattoos, and piercings into mainstream culture, to illustrate her points. Kayla ends the episode by reminding her listeners to always prioritize curiosity over judgment, communication over assumptions, consent over pressure, context over stereotypes, and humanity over stigma.
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    6 mins
  • Kink of the Week: Sensory Play — Because the Brain Loves Drama

    Kink of the Week: Sensory Play — Because the Brain Loves Drama
    Jun 6 2026
    In this episode of Taboo: Fetish or Kink, the discussion revolves around Sensory Play which stimulates the senses through textures, temperatures, and contrasts. The exploration of Sensory Play reveals why it can be erotic for some individuals due to heightened sensory sensitivity, associative learning, the longing for contrast and anticipation, emotional regulation, and symbolic meanings attached to certain sensations. Understanding and expressing sensory preferences opens up conversations about consent and sets boundaries in intimate scenarios. The podcast also delves into the societal perception of Sensory play, chiefly its irregular representation in mainstream outlets and the misunderstanding due to historical prejudices. This episode aims to promote open conversations about sensory preferences and to normalize what is often stigmatized, emphasizing that sensory responses significantly shape our emotional world.
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    6 mins
  • S2 ep2: Deeper Dive into BDSM

    S2 ep2: Deeper Dive into BDSM
    Jun 3 2026
    In this episode of Taboo: Fetish or Kink, hosted by Kay Love, the primary topic is the cultural visibility and prominence of BDSM in conversations around kink. Kay Love discusses why BDSM is so often used as a starting point in these discussions due to its visibility in popular culture, research focus, community education, and embedded consent models. Throughout her conversation, she emphasizes the role of bounderies, power exchange, and negotiation in BDSM, indicating that these elements serve as solid foundations for exploring other areas of kink. The discussion also revolves around the concepts of 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' and 'Risk-Aware Consensual Kink,' highlighting the essential role of open communication and ongoing consent in ethical kink. The episode underscores how understanding BDSM can be beneficial, even if listeners do not plan to explore this particular kink, as the principles learned can be applied to other kink categories and even everyday relationships.
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    4 mins
  • Season 2: Safe Sex or have the hex ep1

    Season 2: Safe Sex or have the hex ep1
    May 28 2026
    In this episode of Taboo: Fetish or Kink, Kay Love emphasizes the importance of practicing safe sex not only as a smart and responsible choice but also as a way to foster healthier and more respectful relationships. She covers key elements of safe sex, emphasizing the need for consent, the use of condoms to prevent STIs and unintended pregnancies, regular STI testing, and open conversation about boundaries, protection, and health history. Kay Love also underscores the various contraception options available, stressing that safe sex isn't just a precaution, but a shared responsibility that reflects care for oneself and one’s partners, while also contributing to healthier communities. The podcast concludes with a call to listeners to protect their health and introduce safe sex practices in their intimate relationships, regardless of their age or experience level.
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    3 mins
  • Episode 18: A & B cups matter, ask my flat chested friend

    Episode 18: A & B cups matter, ask my flat chested friend
    Feb 27 2026
    In this episode of "Taboo: Fetish or Kink!" hosted by Kay Love, the focus is on the fetish and affinity for small breasts or flat chests. Often overlooked by mainstream media and pornography, which tend to emphasize larger breasts, flat chests have a dedicated following and vibrant presence in the world of kinks. From a range of aesthetics and styles encompassing petite frames to athletic bodies, this particular fetish is expressed and celebrated diversely. Kay Love also explains the psychosocial dynamics behind this fetish, referencing it as a sexual equivalent of cheering for the underdog, which gives it a unique charm. Combined with a dash of humiliation in playful banter, the small breast fetish is described as both practical and dedicated despite societal norms promoting larger breasts. Much like preferring indie bands over mainstream pop stars, appreciation for smaller chests comes off as niche yet intensely loyal. Therefore, fans of this fetish are viewed as underdogs who champion the overlooked, making the fetish a unique and compelling subject of conversation.
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    5 mins
  • Episode 17: Bad breath for all

    Episode 17: Bad breath for all
    Feb 15 2026
    In this episode of 'Taboo: Fetish or Kink', Kay Love takes listeners on a journey to understand a very niche fetish: attraction to bad breath or halitosis. She explains olfactophilia, the arousal of smells, particularly those produced by humans. The episode delves into different preferences within the fetish, explaining that some are attracted to the morning or food-based scents, while others prefer heavy, biological smells. Kay Love also discusses the elements of intensity, intimacy, power dynamics, and thrill involved in this fetish. Highlighting the importance of communication, boundaries and respect for overall hygiene, she clarifies the difference between 'natural' odours and problematic medical conditions. The episode wraps up leaving the listeners pondering about the diversity of human desire and the powerful connect with unique features beyond societal norms of 'perfection'.
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    5 mins
  • Episode 16: Swipe, Tap, Explore: Kink Tech in 2026

    Episode 16: Swipe, Tap, Explore: Kink Tech in 2026
    Jan 23 2026
    The latest episode of Taboo: Fetish or Kink, hosted by Kay Love, examines kink-friendly mobile apps that are changing the way non-traditional communities connect in 2026. The episode reviews prominent platforms such as Feeld, FetLife, Pure, and Flirtini, each with their unique features that support safety, consensual exploration, and non-judgmental spaces. Lesser-known, niche apps like Switched, Recon, and KinkD are also highlighted, serving highly specific communities with unique needs. For education and self-discovery, SpankPls and BeMoreKinky are discussed as tools for communication, self-assessment, and learning. The podcast concludes by acknowledging the importance of these platforms in promoting safety and consent, and how they represent societal acceptance of alternate lifestyles. The following episode teases a discussion of AI-assisted intimacy coaching.
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    4 mins
  • Episode 15: Freckles

    Episode 15: Freckles
    Jan 11 2026
    In the podcast episode, Taboo: Fetish or Kink, host Kay Love explores the intriguing world of freckle fetishes, a well-documented but little-known attraction within the world of kinks and fetishes. She discusses the various factors that contribute to this unique fetish, from the random, constellation-like patterns that freckles form to the beautiful contrast they create against pale or fair skin. Websites containing freckle-related photography and discussion forums are mentioned to help listeners familiarize themselves with the fetish or further satisfy their curiosity. Kay Love establishes that while this attraction may sound unusual to some, it is a legitimate and established fascination and interest for those who have it, drawn comparisons to other attractive features like dimples or tattoos. She successfully highlights the importance of understanding and accepting the different preferences and attractions that people may have.
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    4 mins