If you’re dating after 40 and keep feeling drawn to emotionally unavailable guys even though what you want is calm, secure love, this episode will help you understand why.

In the first episode of Season 5, we’re talking about something many women experience but rarely question: why healthy love can feel flat or even uncomfortable when your nervous system has been shaped by intensity, uncertainty, or chasing.

For a lot of women, what’s been labeled “chemistry” is actually adrenaline. And when connection feels calm, steady, or emotionally safe, it can be dismissed too quickly as boredom or a lack of attraction. In this episode, I break down how those patterns form, why they repeat, and what begins to shift when you stop chasing love and start choosing it.

We also explore the quieter identity shift that happens when you stop dating from hope, fear, or longing and begin trusting yourself. This isn’t about forcing yourself to like someone you don’t like. It’s about understanding why your body responds the way it does, and how that response can change over time.

• Why that intense pull toward someone can feel so convincing and what it’s actually signaling
  
• What’s really happening when calm connection feels unfamiliar
  
• The subtle difference between chasing someone and choosing a relationship
  
• How adrenaline gets mistaken for chemistry
  
• The identity shift that quietly changes who you’re drawn to

If your heart knows what it wants but your body hasn’t caught up yet, the Magnetic Love Bundle can help bridge that gap. Grab it here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/magneticlove

🎧 Listen to the full episode of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys and begin the shift from chasing to choosing.

Remember love is closer than you think.

If you’re a single woman over 40 who’s tired of choosing emotionally unavailable guys, doubting yourself, or wondering why dating feels so exhausting, this episode gives you the roadmap you’ve been missing. In this season finale, you’ll learn the 3-step method designed to help you emotionally reset, trust yourself again, and finally attract the kind of healthy, deeply connected love you’ve been longing for.

Season 4 has been all about emotional healing, because healing is what creates clarity, confidence, and the ability to choose men who can actually show up for you. In today’s wrap-up, you’ll see how each part of this season fits together and how these pieces form a proven dating method that helps women over 40 break old patterns and step into the love they truly deserve.

Whether you're feeling stuck, burnt out, or secretly afraid it might be “too late,” this episode shows you why it isn’t and gives you the steps to move forward with intention, self-trust, and hope.

• The #1 reason emotional healing is non-negotiable for finding real love after 40
• The 3-step Method that helps you stop choosing unavailable guys
• Why “perfect on paper” relationships fall apart and how to avoid repeating that pattern
• The mindset shift that instantly saves you time, energy, and heartbreak in dating after 40
  

If you’re ready to understand why your dating patterns have repeated and how to finally break free, this finale episode will give you clarity, direction, and hope.

👉 Click now and listen to the Season 4 finale your path to lasting love begins right here.

If you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re unpacking the one pattern that kept me single for years and delayed meeting my husband until I was 44: self-doubt.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

• Why self-doubt is not a personality flaw, it’s a learned pattern
• The surprising connection between childhood conditioning and dating chaos
• The exact framework I used to break free
• A simple daily heart-expansion exercise that melts self-doubt and builds confidence
• The moment I finally stopped believing I was broken—and how everything changed
  

If you’ve ever gone back and forth on a decision… argued with yourself before a date… doubted every intuitive nudge… or felt like it’s too hard to start trusting yourself, this episode gives you a grounded path out of the mental maze.

You’ll learn how to reconnect with the most powerful guidance system you have: your heart + intuition.

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