Marriage is personal—but opinions are public.

In this episode of Still Married, Still Sane, we unpack what it means to protect your marriage in a world that constantly has something to say. From social media commentary to family expectations and cultural pressure, we talk about how outside voices can seep into even the strongest relationships—and how to keep them from doing damage.

We explore boundaries, communication, and the work it takes to stay grounded as a couple while everything around you feels loud. If you’ve ever felt torn between honoring your relationship and managing public expectations, this conversation is for you.

The internet went wild over comments about kids, money, and “gold-digger” mentalities—and we had questions. In this episode, we break down the cultural assumptions behind transactional thinking, provider narratives, and what we really owe to our children. Then we pivot to a real, honest conversation about intimacy—how it’s built, what shapes it, and why connection in families, friendships, and romantic relationships requires real work. Uncomfortable at times, reflective always, this episode challenges us to rethink how we define connection and safety.

Burnout doesn’t just show up at work—it follows you home. In this episode, we get real about what it looks like to be emotionally and physically exhausted at the same time—while still showing up as partners, parents, and professionals.

We talk about how burnout shows up in our marriage, how it impacts communication, and the quiet ways exhaustion can create distance even when love is still very much present. This isn’t a “fix it” episode—it’s a conversation about noticing the signs, giving each other grace, and figuring out how to keep trying when both people are running on empty.

If you’ve ever thought, “I love you… I’m just tired,” this one’s for you.