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Start With The Close In Mind

Start With The Close In Mind

By: Dorian Lam
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Start with the Close in Mind is a podcast dedicated to uncovering the key strategies and mindsets that lead to successful outcomes—not just in real estate, but in business and life. Hosted by Dorian Lam, a seasoned real estate professional and managing principal of a real estate closing & title company, the podcast explores how focusing on the end goal from the very beginning can drive better decisions, mitigate risks, and create winning results. Whether in real estate transactions, business negotiations, or personal ventures, the principles of strategic planning, preparation, and execution rDorian Lam Economics Leadership Management & Leadership
Episodes
  • S2-EP11: Opening Is Easy. Staying Relevant Is Hard
    Jul 1 2026

    What becomes more difficult as a business matures?

    Most people focus on getting started. They think about opening a business, launching a concept, or getting the first customers through the door. Those are important milestones, but they are only the beginning.

    In this episode, I sit down with Terence Tubridy, founder and CEO of IGC Hospitality, to discuss what it takes to build businesses that remain relevant over long periods of time.

    Terence has helped create and operate hospitality concepts across New York, including Park Avenue Tavern, Refinery Rooftop, Parker & Quinn, and The Rockaway Hotel. Our conversation focuses on what happens after the opening, when markets shift, customer expectations change, and operators have to continue adapting.

    Topics discussed include:

    • Building hospitality businesses that last

    • The relationship between hospitality and real estate

    • Why understanding people matters more than trends

    • The importance of landlord relationships

    • Long-term operating strategy versus short-term success

    • The role of patience in building durable businesses

    One observation stood out throughout the conversation. Opening a business and sustaining a business require different skills. The factors that help create momentum early are not always the same factors that create longevity.

    That applies to hospitality, real estate, and business generally.

    What are you doing today that will still make sense for your business ten years from now?


    #StartWithTheCloseInMind #DefenderOfTheDeal #BusinessExecution #Hospitality #CommercialRealEstate #Leadership

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    27 mins
  • S2-EP10: What Lenders Are Really Looking For Right Now
    Jun 18 2026

    What are lenders actually looking for in today's market?

    In this episode, I sit down with Matt Sabanek of Ariel Property Advisors to discuss what is getting financed, what is struggling to get financed, and how lenders are evaluating deals in the current environment.

    A lot of people assume financing is simply about finding the right lender. What Matt explains is that the market has become much more selective. Lenders are paying closer attention to sponsor quality, documentation, operational history, and how risk is being presented.

    The conversation also explores the differences between free market and rent stabilized assets, how lenders are approaching affordable housing, and why some deals continue to attract strong financing options while others struggle.

    A few key topics from the conversation:

    • What successful financings have in common today

    • Why lenders are more focused on sponsor quality than before

    • How paperwork and documentation impact outcomes

    • The reality of financing rent stabilized properties

    • What is changing in the affordable housing space

    • Why advisors need to be involved earlier in the process

    One point that stood out was that financing challenges rarely appear overnight. Most of them can be traced back to decisions, assumptions, or missing information that existed much earlier in the process.

    The earlier you understand how lenders are evaluating risk, the more options you tend to have.

    What are you waiting too long to address before bringing a deal to market?


    #StartWithTheCloseInMind #DefenderOfTheDeal #CommercialRealEstate #RealEstateFinance #CapitalMarkets

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    22 mins
  • S2-EP9: Why Real Relationships Drive the Best Deals
    Jun 1 2026

    What actually creates the best business opportunities?In this episode, I sit down with Joe Apfelbaum, founder of Ajax Union and EVAI, to discuss relationship-driven business development, LinkedIn strategy, AI, and the role authenticity still plays in building long-term business relationships.Joe shared how his business evolved from traditional SEO and digital marketing into a much more relationship-focused approach once he realized that the strongest opportunities consistently came through trust, not traffic.The conversation focuses less on tactics and more on how people actually build meaningful relationships in business today.A few areas we discuss:• Why transactional networking usually fails over time• How LinkedIn should actually be used• The difference between visibility and trust• Why consistency and follow through matter• How AI should support relationships instead of replacing them• Why real relationships still outperform automationOne point from the conversation that stood out was, “The point of LinkedIn is not to be on LinkedIn. The point is to build real relationships.”The tools around communication continue to change, but the fundamentals behind trust and relationship-building have not changed very much.The people who consistently generate opportunities are usually the people who stay present, follow up, and invest in relationships without forcing immediate outcomes.What relationships are you approaching too transactionally?#StartWithTheCloseInMind #DefenderOfTheDeal #RelationshipCapital #BusinessDevelopment #LinkedInStrategy

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    26 mins
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