Were the doctors you know always this weird?

This week on Social Rounds, Tony, Frances Mei, and Ryan take a trip back to childhood and revisit the nerdy obsessions, social disasters, and formative experiences that shaped them long before medicine entered the picture.

From comic book collecting in the 1990s to Pokémon encyclopedic knowledge, musical theater fandom, bug collections, dictionaries at recess, and the painful realities of being the odd kid out, the conversation explores what it means to grow up different—and why that difference can become a strength later in life.

They also discuss people-pleasing, popularity, identity, internet criticism, and why some adults spend decades trying to recover from middle school while others simply learn to embrace being weird.

Plus: Ryan launches a campaign to become Social Rounds' "third chair," Frances Mei reveals her lifelong Pokémon expertise, Tony defends musical theater, and Colin's mustache unexpectedly becomes a topic of public discourse.

In this episode:

• Growing up nerdy in the 90s and 2000s
• Comic books, Pokémon, and musical theater
• Childhood loneliness and social rejection
• People-pleasing vs. individuality
• Why unpopular kids often become unconventional adults
• The psychology of fitting in
• Internet criticism and resilience
• The ongoing saga of Cartography Geoff
• Colin's controversial mustache

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Ryan Montoya: @ryan_montoya_art

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

What happens when a surgeon says yes to a random yoga retreat in Mexico and meets the person who will change his life?

In this special (and surprisingly wholesome) episode of Social Rounds, Tony and Frances Mei are joined by Tony's wife, Katie Chin-Quee, a former nurse practitioner turned archaeologist, to share the story of how they met, fell in love, navigated long-distance dating, and built a life together.

From chance encounters and late-night phone calls to board exams, grand gestures, and a second date in the Bahamas, this episode explores what it takes to build a lasting partnership in medicine and beyond.

Along the way, the trio discusses:

• Dating during medical careers
• Long-distance relationships
• Situationships vs. commitment
• Friendship boundaries and relationships
• Why grand gestures still matter
• Marriage, partnership, and putting each other first
• Life after medicine

Whether you're a physician, healthcare professional, or simply someone who loves a good love story, this episode offers an honest look at relationships, vulnerability, and choosing each other.

Social Rounds is the podcast where Frances Mei Hardin and Tony Chin-Quee give their unsolicited opinions on medicine, culture, relationships, and whatever else they happen to find interesting.

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Guest: Katie Chin-Quee

Connect with Katie: @indiana.joan

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

A graduating medical student publishes an essay called Medicine Without Merit, arguing that DEI initiatives have undermined fairness, lowered standards, and discriminated against white men in medicine.

Tony and Frances Mei dive into the article, unpacking its claims about merit, admissions, standardized testing, diversity, and representation in healthcare. Along the way, they explore why conversations about "meritocracy" in medicine are often more complicated than they first appear—and what gets missed when individual achievement is separated from larger systems and structures.

They also discuss educational privilege, physician workforce diversity, patient trust, professional accountability, and the difference between experiencing discrimination and understanding it.

Plus: Geoff the cartographer returns as an unexpected source of podcast drama, Instagram etiquette becomes a philosophical debate, and Frances Mei explains why unanswered comments can create alternate realities.

In this episode:

• The "Medicine Without Merit" controversy
• DEI and medical school admissions
• Standardized testing and educational privilege
• Diversity, trust, and patient outcomes
• Meritocracy in medicine
• Professional accountability
• Geoff's growing cult following
• The psychology of being left on read

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

This week on Social Rounds, Tony and Frances Mei slow things down for a more reflective episode.

After weeks of guests, chaos, travel, and controversy, they get back to basics — talking about Europe, ghosts in Rome, getting robbed in England, leaving the UK for Canada, and the question at the center of the episode:

Was medicine really all bad?

From funny patient encounters and late-night residency memories to heartbreaking moments with cancer patients and families, Tony and Frances Mei reflect on the humanity that still stayed with them long after leaving clinical medicine.

This episode is about the moments that made the work meaningful — even inside a broken system.

Topics include:

• Traveling through Rome, Paris & Copenhagen
• Why Frances Mei thinks the Colosseum should be haunted
• Tony’s family home getting robbed in England
• Leaving medicine without invalidating the good parts
• Patient relationships that still matter years later
• Love, grief, family, and dignity in healthcare
• Why medicine can be meaningful and unsustainable at the same time

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

A fourth-year medical student goes viral for offensive videos targeting women’s health, and the internet exploded. In this episode of Social Rounds, Tony Chin-Quee, Dr. Ryan Montoya, and Dr. Janet McMordie unpack the controversy, the rise of medfluencers, professionalism in medicine, and whether physicians should be held to a higher standard online.

The trio dives into the blurred line between personal branding and professional identity, the dangers of parasocial fame, physician social media culture, and how online behavior can impact trust, hiring, and patient care. Plus: a chaotic round of “Hire or Fire?” featuring doctors posting OR content, real estate side hustles, political rallies, and more.

Topics include:

• The medfluencer era
• Social media professionalism in medicine
• Women’s health and misogyny in healthcare
• Parasocial relationships online
• Physician identity beyond medicine
• Should doctors be “cancelable”?
• Privacy, branding, and internet permanence
• Why some doctors leave medicine entirely

Social Rounds is a podcast from the Hippocratic Collective exploring medicine, culture, internet chaos, and everything in between.

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Ryan Montoya: @ryan_montoya_art

Janet McMordie: @janetmcmordie

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

This week on Social Rounds, Tony and Frances Mei are joined by fan-favorite “Cartographer Geoff” — historian, mapmaker, professional forager, jam-maker, and accidental proof that people can actually enjoy their jobs.

What starts as a conversation about whether children should follow their parents into medicine spirals into a surprisingly deep discussion about maps as instruments of power, colonialism, propaganda, redlining, Victorian cholera outbreaks, and why the Mercator projection might have subtly rewired all our brains. Geoff also explains how he turned a PhD on colonial-era beeswax extraction into a dream career making historical maps for places like the Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Along the way:

• Why almost no physicians want their kids to become doctors
• The hidden emotional bargain of “settling” for prestigious careers
• The terrifying influence of Big Map
• The real story behind John Snow’s cholera map
• Stardew Valley as an aspirational lifestyle blueprint
• Why Frances Mei is emotionally destabilized by someone genuinely liking their work

Also featuring: “Frances Frizzante Mei,” anxiety hobbits, sea monster maps, and the phrase “everything in the world is about maps except maps; maps are about power.”

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Guest: Cartographer Geoff

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

What do the NFL, brain damage, and fart tracking have in common?

More than you’d think.

In this episode of Social Rounds, Frances Mei Hardin and Tony Chin-Quee are joined again by writer and comedian Joel Walkowski to break down two wildly different, but oddly connected, stories: the long-term consequences of head trauma in contact sports, and the surprisingly scientific world of human flatulence.

From new research on chronic traumatic encephalopathy (CTE) to the cultural machine behind football, this conversation dives into the cost of entertainment, masculinity, and systems that produce “broken bodies” for spectacle.

Then, in a sharp left turn: wearable “fart sensors,” digestion data, and what it reveals about the human body—and relationships.

This episode covers:

• New research on brain injury in football and combat sports
• The cultural and class dynamics behind the NFL
• Why harmful systems persist despite known risks
• What CTE actually does to the brain
• The science behind flatulence (yes, really)
• Relationship dynamics: how “comfortable” is too comfortable?

It’s medicine, culture, and chaos—exactly as intended.

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Guest: Joel Walkowski

Connect with Joel: @joelwalkowski

Find his book, Honolulu Blues, available for pre-order now: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Honolulu-Blues/Joel-Walkowski/9781637749043

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective

What happens when burnout, trauma, and “just getting through the week” collide with alcohol culture in medicine?

In this episode of Social Rounds, Frances Mei Hardin and Tony Chin-Quee sit down with writer, comedian, and sobriety facilitator Joel Walkowski to unpack a question most physicians never ask out loud: Do we all need an intervention?

From “forgetting juice” in residency to the normalization of heavy drinking, this conversation dives into how environment shapes behavior—and how easy it is to rationalize habits that might be quietly costing more than they give.

Joel shares a candid look at addiction, recovery, and the psychology behind behavior change, including why high-performing professionals are especially good at talking themselves out of a problem.

This episode covers:

• Why drinking is so normalized in medical training
• The line between “recreational” and problematic use
• How environment accelerates addiction patterns
• The concept of a personal “cost-benefit analysis”
• Why physicians struggle to recognize their own red flags
• Actionable ways to reassess habits without blowing up your life

If you’ve ever thought, “This is just what everyone does”—this one’s for you.

Hosted by:

Tony Chin-Quee: @wheyouat

Frances Mei Hardin: @francesmeimd

Guest: Joel Walkowski

Connect with Joel: @joelwalkowski

Find his book, Honolulu Blues, available for pre-order now: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Honolulu-Blues/Joel-Walkowski/9781637749043

Produced by: The Hippocratic Collective