She Wears the Pants cover art

She Wears the Pants

She Wears the Pants

By: Ashley Deland
Listen for free

About this listen

She Wears the Pants is the podcast for the women building more than businesses—they’re building identities, empires, and legacies. Hosted by globally recognized business advisor, multi-business founder, and start-up investor Ashley Deland, this show lives at the intersection of strategy, structure, and self. Each week, Ashley pulls back the curtain on what it truly takes for women to scale companies that are financially sound, spiritually aligned, energetically sustainable, and structurally unshakeable. This is where high-growth women founders come for boardroom-level strategy, identity evolution, feminine leadership, and the inner work required to hold the success they’re building. Because strategy means nothing if the woman behind it can’t hold it. Continue the Work with Ashley: Step into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Experience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Stay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Copyright 2026 Ashley Deland Economics Leadership Management & Leadership Marketing Marketing & Sales Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Build a Business That Can Hold You
    Apr 21 2026

    Success isn’t just about what you build — it’s about whether what you’ve built can hold the woman you’ve become.

    In today’s solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland dives into the shift that happens after a woman proves she can build — when the question is no longer how to generate revenue, but whether the business itself is designed to support her life, her energy, and her evolution. Before sustainable success, there is alignment. This is the work no one sees, but everyone feels — and it’s the work that determines the level you can hold.

    If you’re a woman navigating growth, expansion, or stepping into a higher level of leadership, this conversation will help you recalibrate your structure, reconnect to your purpose, and lead in a way that supports the life you’re here to live.

    In this episode, Ashley shares how to:

    • Understand how growth without aligned structure quietly leads to pressure, not freedom

    • Recognize when your business no longer reflects the woman you’ve become

    • Identify the difference between building from service versus operating from transaction

    • Apply the practice of “touching the dream” to reconnect with your deeper why

    • Strengthen your capacity to hold success without sacrificing your energy or life

    • Anchor into a leadership identity that evolves your business as you evolve

    By the end, you’ll walk away with a deeper sense of clarity around what your business is meant to support — and who you’re becoming as you lead it. If you’re standing at the edge of your next level, let this be your reminder: the business is meant to expand your life, not quietly contain it.

    Continue the Work with Ashley

    Step into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.

    → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire

    Experience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.

    → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire

    Stay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.

    → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/

    She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

    Show More Show Less
    20 mins
  • Build With Them, Not For Them: The Power of Creating in Public with Kacia Ghetmiri
    Apr 14 2026

    Success doesn’t come from trying to impress everyone.

    It comes from finding your people and building with them in real time.

    In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland sits down with entrepreneur, real estate investor, and EmpowerHER podcast host Kacia Ghetmiri for an honest conversation about building businesses through authenticity, transparency, and community.

    Kacia is known for creating one of the most relatable personal development podcasts for women, reaching more than 11 million downloads by speaking openly about entrepreneurship, identity, and growth in real time. Rather than positioning herself as someone who has everything figured out, she built her platform by inviting women to figure it out alongside her.

    Together, Ashley and Kacia explore what happens when you stop chasing external validation and start building a business that reflects who you actually are.

    From stepping away from a six-figure corporate career at Google to building multiple businesses, scaling a real estate investment portfolio with her husband, and navigating motherhood while evolving as an entrepreneur, Kacia shares the real lessons behind sustainable growth.

    This conversation is for the woman who is building something meaningful and wants to do it without performing, posturing, or pretending to have it all figured out.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • Why finding “your people” is the foundation of a powerful personal brand

    • The strategy and psychology behind building in public

    • How external validation and vanity metrics quietly limit growth

    • The difference between authentic leadership and performative authority

    • Pivoting your business when the version of you who built it begins to evolve

    • Creating wealth and freedom through real estate investing

    Kacia also shares her perspective on motherhood, entrepreneurship, and why honoring the season you’re in is essential for long-term fulfillment.

    If you’ve ever felt the tension between the version of success you built and the one you’re evolving toward, this episode will remind you that growth often requires letting go of the way things used to work.

    Because the most powerful businesses are built by women who are willing to evolve.

    Meet Kacia Ghetmiri

    Kacia Ghetmiri is an entrepreneur, speaker, real estate investor, and host of the top-ranked EmpowerHER Podcast, a community-driven show focused on personal growth, business, and mindset that has reached over 11 million downloads worldwide.

    After leaving a six-figure corporate career at Google, Kacia built multiple businesses helping women launch podcasts, create community-driven brands, and step into entrepreneurship. She now focuses on real estate investing and helping high-income professionals create financial freedom through strategic property investments.

    Her mission is to empower women to build lives and businesses that align with who they truly are.

    Connect with Kacia

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kacia.ghetmiri/

    Podcast: EmpowerHER Podcast

    Continue the Work with Ashley

    Step into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.

    → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire

    Experience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.

    → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire

    Stay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.

    → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/

    She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

    Show More Show Less
    42 mins
  • SXSW Reflections & Lessons From Rooms of Power
    Apr 7 2026

    The room you sit in will always shape the size of the dream you allow yourself to carry.

    In today’s solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland takes you inside her recent experience at South by Southwest in Austin — and more importantly, into the internal shift that followed. This is a conversation about proximity, energy, and the unseen ways environments expand or contract your vision as a founder. Before scale becomes reality, there is a shift in what you believe is possible — and that shift is often shaped by the rooms you choose to enter.

    If you’re a woman navigating growth, stepping into bigger spaces, or feeling the pull toward your next level, this episode will help you recalibrate your environment, your energy, and the way you approach expansion — so you can hold more without shrinking your vision.

    In this episode, Ashley shares how to:

    • Understand how environment shapes vision, standards, and the scale you allow yourself to pursue

    • Recognize when you’ve outgrown the rooms, conversations, and thinking you’ve been operating inside

    • Identify the difference between transactional networking and aligned, long-term relationship building

    • Apply a more expansive lens to your ideas by surrounding yourself with audacity-led thinking

    • Strengthen your capacity to hold both ambition and joy as you build and scale

    • Anchor into a leadership identity that expands possibility instead of unconsciously limiting it

    By the end, you’ll walk away with a deeper awareness of how proximity, energy, and environment influence your leadership — and a renewed sense of what is available to you when you place yourself in rooms that expand your thinking. If you’ve been feeling the edges of your next level, let this be your reminder: sometimes the shift you’re searching for is found in the spaces you choose to step into.

    Continue the Work with Ashley

    Step into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.

    → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire

    Experience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.

    → https://ashleydeland.com/inquire

    Stay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.

    → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/

    She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

    Show More Show Less
    19 mins
No reviews yet