• Family Law Burnout is Real
    Jun 22 2026

    This week, Melissa gets candid about what burnout from Family Law was like for her and how it became the driving force behind trying to do things differently.

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    46 mins
  • Melissa Goes Back to Law School! (Not Really)
    Jun 8 2026

    This week Melissa is in Ottawa attending a conference on Access to Justice and it's been bringing up memories of Law School.

    Melissa gives Cody a crash course on Law School; the intensity, the courses and the friendships made along the way. If Cody was considering Law School before, she may not be now.
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    40 mins
  • What People Misunderstand about Family Law
    May 25 2026

    This week Melissa explains to Cody what most people get wrong about Family Law. Unlike say, Criminal Law, Family Law is not punitive. It's not concerned with dissecting a past incident between strangers but rather figuring out how to transform a deeply personal relationship.

    This becomes even more complicated when there are children involved. Melissa explains how quickly things can go south when you go into a divorce or separation looking for validation.

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    35 mins
  • Can You Have an Ethical Prenup?
    May 11 2026
    This week Melissa changes Cody's mind about whether or not you can have an ethical prenup. Like so many parts of Family Law, the way we approach the prenup is changing. Melissa explains how the prenuptial agreement can become an empowering document meant to evolve with each family as they structure their intentional life together. By inviting both parties into this process, Melissa them structure a future built on mutual love and compassion.
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    41 mins
  • Is It Really Possible to Flat Fee When It Comes To Divorce?
    Apr 27 2026

    This week Melissa and Cody discuss flat fee services and divorce. One Family Law offers flat fee services, but it requires everyone to come to the table prepared.

    They also discuss what happens when information is missing or emotions take over, and how quickly fees can escalate.

    Ultimately flat fees can offer clients predictability during a very uncertain time, but they require work from all parties.

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    40 mins
  • Why Do People Wait to Get Divorced?
    Apr 13 2026
    This week Cody asks Melissa why so many people wait to actually file for divorce. It seems like people are ok with getting a lot of the big life transitions dealt with but when it comes to actually filing the paperwork the process stalls out. Melissa provides some insight into why this is and how this leaves people vulnerable legally.
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    34 mins
  • The Legal Lives of Mormon Wives Part 2
    Mar 30 2026
    Well, the situation between Taylor and Dakota took a turn so Melissa and Cody decide to focus this episode of the pod on Miranda and Chase, and their (seemingly) healthy coparenting relationship. Melissa highlights what she thinks is the key to a successful coparenting relationship and both Cody and Melissa remark on the 'quiet work' of acceptance and how transformative it can be.
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    41 mins
  • The Legal Lives of Mormon Wives Part 1
    Mar 16 2026
    Melissa and Cody binged the first five episodes of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and they want to talk about it! How do you coparent when you can't quit each other? How do you put your child first when you're wading through your own parenting trauma. While it may be too early for the law to intervene for Taylor and Dakota and how they approach their situationship it sounds like it's going to be a key player in the other Wives possible separations.
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    42 mins