In this episode, Bez and Matt get raw and real about the next bold evolution of our community: Our First Play Party. We talk about how this event differs from the Sauce (yep, it’s all-bases), why we believe we’re ready for it, and what our deepest desires are for building a braver, more connected erotic culture together.

We share the ethics at the heart of this container—like staying open to surprise, taking responsibility for your own experience, and remembering that you're always at choice. We also explain the application process, why it matters, and how to move forward whether you’re invited to this one or asked to join us for the next.

If you’ve ever been curious about what it takes to build an intentional sex-positive community from the inside out, this one’s for you.

Bez Stone and Daniel Mollner dive into dance, sexuality, and aging in the Santa Cruz scene. They chat about embracing getting older, normalizing sensuality in dance spaces, and creating supportive, all-ages environments. Plus, a sneak peek at Daniel’s upcoming workshop, The Prom You Wish You Had—where prom night meets grown-up wisdom.

In this fun and heartfelt convo, Bez chats with the radiant Sirena Andrea about the magic of storytelling—especially the erotic kind. They dive into how sharing our personal stories helps us connect, feel seen, and even heal some of our deepest shame.

Sirena talks about her journey from teaching kids to empowering women through the YoniVerse Monologues, and why getting specific and vulnerable makes stories really land. If you’ve ever wanted to feel more confident sharing your turn-ons or just be more real in your relationships, this episode’s for you.