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STEPS Together

STEPS Together

By: Debra Johnson
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The STEPS for Development podcast offers practical support for adults who are nurturing children's growth and development. Hosted by Debra Johnson, MS, OTR/L, pediatric occupational therapist, parent coach, educator and parent. STEPS Together dives into topics including typical development, neurodevelopmental differences, understanding what lies beneath challenging child behaviors, and exploring strategies that work to improve skills, strengthen relationships and empower parents and caregivers who are invested in helping children thrive and succeed.

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Episodes
  • Teaching Flexibility: Helping Kids Who Struggle with Change and Big Feelings
    Jan 29 2026

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    Change is hard — especially for children who thrive on predictability, routine, and a sense of control. If your child has big reactions to small changes, difficulty shifting plans, or intense feelings when things don’t go as expected, you’re not alone.

    In this episode of STEPS Together, we explore flexibility as a developmental skill that grows over time with support, safety, and practice — not pressure. You’ll learn what flexibility really is, why many neurodiverse children struggle with it, and how it connects to emotional regulation, executive functioning, and resilience.

    We’ll talk about:

    • What flexible thinking looks like in daily life
    • Why inflexibility is often linked to anxiety, lagging skills, or nervous system overload
    • Simple, low-pressure ways to help children practice flexibility
    • How modeling flexibility as a caregiver makes a powerful difference
    • Ways to build your own flexibility so you can support your child with confidence

    This episode is filled with relatable examples, practical strategies, and compassionate reframes to help you move from power struggles to partnership.

    If you’ve ever wondered how to help your child handle change, manage big feelings, or become more adaptable over time, this conversation will give you a roadmap grounded in connection and development.

    Remember — flexibility isn’t about compliance. It’s about building the skills to adapt, recover, and thrive.



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    41 mins
  • No Resolutions Required: Three Skills for a Hope-Filled New Year
    Jan 16 2026

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    The start of a new year often comes with pressure—to set goals, make resolutions, and “do better.” But what if that’s not what you actually need?

    In this episode, I’m sharing an honest reflection on the ups and downs of the past month, why I needed to pause, and what helped me reconnect with hope and confidence moving forward. Instead of resolutions, I’ve chosen to focus on three essential skills that support growth in real life: resilience, intention, and courage.

    We’ll explore what each of these skills really means, what they look like in everyday moments—especially when you’re balancing your own needs with the needs of others—and how you can begin building them in simple, sustainable ways. Drawing on insights from Brené Brown and a nervous-system–informed perspective, this conversation is grounded, practical, and compassionate.

    If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or the feeling that you should be doing more—even when you’re already doing so much—this episode is for you. You don’t need a new version of yourself to move forward. You just need the right support and a few skills to carry you through.

    Join me as we take one step at a time—so you can grow your skills, support the child in your life, and move forward with confidence and hope for the future.



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    33 mins
  • Finding Joy in the Chaos: 10 Simple Ways to Find Joy in Everyday Moments
    Dec 26 2025

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    Parenting can feel constant, demanding, and overwhelming—especially when you’re supporting a neurodiverse child. In the midst of routines, meltdowns, therapies, and daily demands, joy can start to feel distant or even unrealistic.

    In this episode of STEPS Together, we shift the focus from “doing more” to noticing, building, and protecting moments of joy that already fit real life. You’ll hear 10 practical, relationship-based ways to experience more joy with your child—without forcing positivity or ignoring challenges.

    We talk about:

    • Why joy doesn’t have to be big, loud, or Pinterest-worthy
    • Celebrating micro-wins and small moments of progress
    • Embedding play, movement, and humor into everyday routines
    • Using shared interests and predictable rituals to deepen connection
    • The importance of your own joy for framing your mindset

    This episode is an invitation to slow down, soften expectations, and reconnect—with yourself and with your child. Because thriving doesn’t come from perfect days; it grows from small, intentional moments of joy, repeated over time.

    ✨ Pick one strategy. Try it this week. Notice what shifts.



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    21 mins
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