• It’s Not About The Relationship Ending, It's The Investment!
    Jan 23 2026

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    Nope, it's not about him, it's the investment!! It's a the waste of time, the things that were accumulated!

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    6 mins
  • Grief, Sitting in Parking Lots
    Jan 20 2026

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    This is what grief looks like. You slowly remove yourself from society. You are zoned out during conversations.

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    19 mins
  • Become the Woman Who's Terrified to Lose Everything, and You'll Choose a Better Partner.
    Jan 11 2026

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    I've been reflecting on this a lot since my mother and Lulu passed away. It has made me think about intimate relationships, leading me to conclude that if a woman is afraid of losing everything, she is more likely to choose a better partner.

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    13 mins
  • He's Mapping Out Your Life
    Jan 8 2026

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    We date with good intentions, believing that it will lead to positive outcomes and a bright future. We often willingly allow him to take the lead. Sometimes this leadership guides us toward something beautiful, but other times it leads us nowhere, resulting in years wasted on a path that was never truly ours.

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    13 mins
  • His Potential versus Right Now
    Jan 6 2026

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    We are always told to look at potential. He's doing great things; he's going somewhere, as our elder would say. He's a good man, Savannah! Well, is that a great thing to do these days?

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    10 mins
  • Never Say “That’s Just Who They Are” and Stay Friends with Them
    Jan 2 2026

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    It’s more important than ever to have better friendships. As I get older, I realize how much I need real friends in my life—friends who genuinely care about the relationship through both the sad times and the happy ones. I want friends who will walk through the fire with me and also dance on the tables when life is good. And honestly, I’m tired of one-sided friendships—the kind where someone talks nonstop about themselves, then goes silent the moment I start to speak. You can tell they’re just waiting for their turn to talk, because their favorite subject has always been themselves.

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    7 mins
  • When Marriage Stalls: Build a Life Outside of Your Marriage and I Did Discuss the Possibility of Meeting Someone
    Dec 31 2025

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    There’s a growing trend today where many marriages resemble close friendships more than marriages. Couples are sleeping in separate bedrooms, but many aren't seeking a divorce. I would argue that it is often the husbands who are leading this trend of not fulfilling their roles as real partners. So, what is a wife to do?

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    16 mins
  • Buying Love: When Overspending Becomes a Fear of Losing a Relationship or Friendship
    Dec 30 2025

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    The best approach in any relationship is to be your authentic self. If someone chooses to end a relationship or friendship, it simply means the connection wasn’t right for you. It’s far worse to realize that someone is staying in your life only because of what you can offer them.

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    10 mins