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Ever sit across from a teen in session, clock ticking, silence screaming… and your nervous system quietly panicking?

Yeah. This episode is for that moment.

In this week’s podcast, we’re naming the thing no one warned you about in grad school: why play therapists feel stuck with teens—and why it’s not because you’re doing it wrong.

Here’s the hard truth (said with love):

👉 Trying harder to get teens to talk about their feelings is often the exact thing keeping them shut down.

If you’ve ever:

• Asked thoughtful, open-ended questions and gotten one-word answers
  
  
  
• Left therapy sessions wondering if you’re missing something obvious
  
  
  
• Questioned your competence because “nothing happened”
  
  
  
• Googled how to get teens to open up at 10 p.m. like an imposter
  
  
  

…pause. Breathe. You’re not failing. And they’re not resistant.

In this podcast episode, we’ll unpack what’s actually happening in the adolescent brain when teens are overwhelmed by trauma, anxiety, depression, or family stress—

and why traditional talk therapy often overloads their nervous system instead of helping it settle.

We’ll talk neuroscience (without making your eyes glaze over), development (in real-world language), and the mindset shift that changes everything:
✨ Stop pushing for verbal processing
✨ Start creating pathways for expression

You’ll learn how purposeful expressive arts—clay, art, music, sand, collage—help teens bypass cognitive overload, access safety, and express what they cannot yet put into words.

Not because they’re immature. But because they’re human and still developing.

This is not about “playing.”

This is about working with adolescent development instead of against it.

If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck, stop blaming yourself, and start seeing teens engage in ways that actually lead to healing—come join the conversation.

Your future sessions will thank you.

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Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

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Happy International Play Therapy Week! 🎉

What is play therapy—and how is it different from simply using games and activities in therapy sessions?

This is a common and critical question for mental health professionals working with children. While games, art, and activities are often part of therapy, play therapy is a distinct, evidence-based clinical approach grounded in child development, theory, and the therapeutic relationship.

In this special International Play Therapy Week conversation, I’m joined by four play therapists who share their personal journeys into play therapy and why they chose this work. Together, we explore not just what play therapy is—but why it matters so deeply for children and families.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• What defines play therapy as a therapeutic modality
  
  
  
• Why play therapy is more than “using games in therapy”
  
  
  
• The three essential components that differentiate play therapy from expressive activities and interventions
  
  
  
• How understanding these differences improves clinical decision-making and therapeutic outcomes for children
  
  
  
• Real-world experiences from play therapists who have seen the power of play therapy in action
  
  
  

Play therapy has become a leading approach for helping children process trauma, regulate emotions, and heal within safe therapeutic relationships. Gaining clarity about what play therapy truly is—and what it is not—supports ethical practice, stronger case conceptualization, and greater confidence in clinical work.

Join us in celebrating International Play Therapy Week by deepening your understanding of play therapy, hearing from fellow play therapists, and reconnecting with the heart of why this work matters.

Join my free Facebook Community Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.

Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

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More Impact. Less Burnout. isn’t a cute slogan. It’s a line in the sand.

Because here’s the truth most play therapists won’t say out loud:

Burnout doesn’t come from caring too much.
It comes from doing this work alone.

In this week’s free livestream episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on why being part of a strategic play therapy community isn’t optional if you want sustainable impact in play therapy.

Not another play therapy training. Not more play therapy activities.

But real-time support, shared wisdom, and a place where your nervous system can finally exhale with people who “get it.”

We’ll talk about:

• Why isolation quietly drains confidence, creativity, and clinical clarity
• How being in the right play therapy community sharpens your impact with clients
• What actually helps play therapists stay grounded when the work gets heavy
• And how Play Therapy Elevation CIRCLE is intentionally designed to reduce burnout while helping you work smarter—not harder

You’ll also get an inside look at what’s inside PTEC during Open Enrollment week—how it works, who it’s for, and why so many play therapists say it’s the missing piece they didn’t know they needed.

If you’ve ever thought:
“I love this work… but I’m tired.”

Join me for this free weekly podcast!

Less hustling. More healing.

For your clients—and for you.

Join my free Facebook Community Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.

Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

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What if better results in play therapy didn’t come from more play therapy activities, more games, or more play therapy training — but from clearer thinking?

In this week’s free livestream episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real secret sauce: case conceptualization.

Because if you don’t know what’s driving the behavior, how do you decide what to do in play therapy sessions without guessing? 👀

We’ll talk about why your play therapy model actually matters (yep—models aren’t just theory flexes), and how using a play therapy model helps you intentionally access the therapeutic powers of play instead of hoping something sticks.

We’re also naming a hard truth:

Going to play therapy training after training without follow-up or application? That’s how overwhelm happens. Integration is where confidence is built. Application is where deep change lives.

And finally—we get real about something most play therapists feel but don’t always say out loud:
👉 You’re not meant to do this work alone.

The therapeutic relationship with clients is central—but so is having a play therapy community for support, resources, idea-sharing, and strategic help using your play therapy model in real cases (not just in theory).

If you’ve ever left a play therapy session thinking, “Was that enough?”
Or wondered, “Am I actually helping?”

Join me for this free weekly podcast and let’s make play therapy feel grounded again.

This week’s episode is for you so you can focus on 👇

Less doing.
More clarity.
Better results. ✨

Join my free Facebook Community Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.

Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

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If you’re a mental health professional, including play therapy, we’ve all heard this said and probably even said it ourselves:

consultation is a clinical and ethical part of providing effective play therapy (and therapy in general).

Truthfully – I have mixed feelings about this statement.

From a clinical and ethical standpoint, consultation is an important part of providing quality mental health services to our clients, including play therapy.

I’m a firm believer in getting support to help me ensure my clients are getting the best counseling experience possible, especially when I’m stuck.

So, why the mixed feelings? I’m glad you asked.

I think sometimes consultation can be poor quality, one more task to an already full schedule, and/or provided in a punitive way that results in play therapists feeling unsupported and burned out.

Thinking about this topic got me wondering what the research says about the benefits of consultation for play therapists, and what makes consultation effective.

That got me exploring the internet to see what I could find.

I found some interesting research articles discussing not only the benefits of consultation for mental health professionals (no-brainer there), and what makes consultation effective.

If you’re curious about how play therapy consultation can be beneficial and not just another box to check for your already busy schedule, join me for this free weekly podcast episode!

I’ll discuss what the research says about making consultation effective based on two studies and why it’s so important to have these elements.

I’ll share my insights for play therapists and how we can use this information to help our young clients and their families heal.

Join me and the conversation!

Citations for articles discussed during this episode:

Beidas, R. S., Edmunds, J. M., Cannuscia, C. C., Gallagher, M., Downey, M. M., and Kendall, P. C. (2013). Therapists’ perspectives on the effective elements of consultation following training. Admin Policy Mental Health, 40(6), 507-517. Doi.10.1007?s10488-013-0475-7

Mui, A. S., Joseph, A., Hakim, E., Cox, E. D., and Greenwald, E. (2022). Peer consultation: An enriching necessity rather than a luxury for psychologists during and beyond the pandemic. Journal of Health Service Psychology, 48, 13-19. doi.10.1007/s42843-021-0005-3

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A New Year Is a Chance to Stop Doing Play Therapy Alone.

A new year begins…
and for many play therapists, your caseloads are already full.

Same questions about what you should be doing in play therapy sessions to “get it right.”

Same feeling of wishing there was someone who truly understood your play therapy work so you could share ideas and support.

If you ended last year feeling tired, isolated, or second-guessing yourself, this week’s free livestream is for you.

January isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about deciding what kind of support you want moving forward.

If you’ve ever wished you had:

• a place to staff play therapy cases without judgment
  
  
  
• colleagues who speak the language of play therapy
  
  
  
• support that helps you stay grounded rather than overwhelmed
  
  
  

You’re not alone — and you don’t have to keep carrying this work by yourself.

In this week’s free livestream, we’ll talk honestly about:

• why isolation is so common for play therapists
  
  
  
• how community supports confidence and sustainability
  
  
  
• what it looks like to practice play therapy with ongoing support
  
  
  

Play therapists are relational by nature.

Our work is strongest when we’re supported, connected, and not doing it all alone.

Come start the year supported.

We’ll save you a seat. 💛

Join my free Facebook Community Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.

Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

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Helping Neurodivergent Kids Thrive in the Playroom: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Jason Grant

Every month inside Play Therapy Academy and the Play Therapy Elevation CIRCLE, I hear the same heart-wide-open question:

“What’s the best way to support neurodivergent kids in play therapy so they can truly thrive?”

And honestly? Same.

It’s a big, beautiful question — and the kind of question that deserves wisdom from someone who’s both deeply trained and living the neurodivergent experience from the inside out.

So this week… we’re doing something special.

Like – holiday-season-surprise special 🤩

✨ I’m bringing on Dr. Robert Jason Grant — the creator of AutPlay® Therapy — for a live conversation you do not want to miss.

Dr. Grant is the real deal: a therapist, supervisor, consultant, and brilliant guide who blends his lived neurodivergent experience with years of specialized training to help children and families access support that’s affirming, grounded, and actually effective.

Together, we’re diving into:

🔹 What exactly is AutPlay?

A friendly, no-jargon intro to the model every play therapist should know.

🔹 How does AutPlay help neurodivergent kids heal + grow?

We’ll talk nervous system support, therapeutic play processes, and why “affirming” isn’t just a buzzword — it’s a necessity.

🔹 How do you include parents in a way that actually works?

Because when parents feel seen, supported, and equipped, everything in the playroom shifts.

If you’ve ever felt unsure about how to adapt your play therapy work for kids with neurodivergence — or you just want to expand your toolbox with a play therapy model rooted in compassion and neuroscience — pull up a chair.

This one’s for you.

Come hang out with us live — bring your coffee, your curiosity, and that one question you’ve been low-key nervous to ask.

This convo is going to make your play therapy heart do a happy little wiggle. 💛

Join my free Facebook Community Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.

Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

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🎁 Pulled from the Vault: An Oldie but Goodie

I’m officially taking a break this holiday season — slowing down, soaking up family time, and sipping something warm by the tree. ✨

But I didn’t want to leave you hanging! So I dug into the vault and pulled out one of the most-loved livestream episodes I’ve ever done. And honestly? It’s still 🔥 relevant today.

Over the last 15+ years of supervising and training play therapists, I’ve noticed one big mistake that keeps showing up again and again…
❌ It’s the reason play therapists start feeling lost in the treatment process — unsure what to do next.
❌ It’s why interventions sometimes feel like they’re just not landing.

Here’s the kicker 👇🏼
The biggest mistake I see play therapists making is not taking the time early on to gather the right information for case conceptualization.
Sounds academic, right? (Cue the grad school flashbacks 😅)

But this one skill is what separates chaotic sessions from clinically confident ones.

In this throwback episode, you’ll learn:
✨ What case conceptualization really means for play therapists (in down-to-earth language).
✨ The goals behind it — and how it keeps you grounded when sessions feel unclear.
✨ Why it’s the secret to consistent, meaningful treatment outcomes.

So while I’m resting and recharging, you can hit play and get re-inspired.

Because this episode? It’s the one that changes how you see your entire play therapy process.

Join my free Facebook Community Play and Expressive Arts Therapy Playground.

Check out my free resources for mental health professionals working with children, adolescents, and families who want to integrate play therapy and expressive arts into their clinical work.

I work with individuals and agencies to develop successful strategies and meet the treatment needs of your child and adolescent clients and their families using play therapy & expressive arts.

Contact me to schedule a free 30-minute video call if you're ready to level up your skills