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Must In-Laws Be Outlaws?

Must In-Laws Be Outlaws?

By: Cathy Riva Bloomgarden
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Ever wondered what could happen if we stopped being right and started being open?

Must In-Laws Be Outlaws? is a playful, honest, and surprisingly heartfelt podcast hosted by a mother-in-law, Lucette Bloomgarden and daughter-in-law, Cathy Riva Bloomgarden, who didn't exactly start out as best friends. In fact, if you met them in the early days, you might have politely wondered how they would ever share a holiday table - let alone a microphone. This podcast is the story of how two women navigated misunderstanding, judgement, hurt feelings and unspoken expectations... and chose a different ending and how you can too. Instead of remaining "outlaws" in each other's lives, they leaned into curiosity, compassion, humor, and radical honesty - and slowly transformed a strained relationship into one rooted in respect, trust and genuine friendship. This podcast is for anyone who has struggled in any kind of a relationship whether with family, in-laws, friends or even themselves.

Each episode blends real-life stories, thoughtful reflection, and laugh-out-loud moments as they explore what it actually takes to soften a guarded heart, find forgiveness, and build meaningful connection - especially with someone you didn't choose but are deeply connected to. From awkward beginnings and emotional landmines to breakthroughs, boundaries, and unexpected joy, nothing is off-limits.

With insight, humor, and lived wisdom from two generations, this podcast offers a refreshing perspective on how relationships can evolve when we listen differently, speak honestly, and choose connection over conflict. Expect warmth, wit, a few hard truths, and plenty of laughter- because healing doesn't have to be heavy, and growth can be joyful.

Come curious. Leave lighter. And discover that sometimes, the most unexpected relationships can become the most meaningful ones.

Find us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/mustinlawsbeoutlaws

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Episodes
  • The Conversation We All Need to Have About Aging Parents

    The Conversation We All Need to Have About Aging Parents
    Jun 24 2026

    What happens when the people who once cared for us begin navigating their own vulnerabilities? In this candid discussion, Lucette, just weeks away from turning 84, shares her perspective on aging, purpose, family, and the future. Together we explore the emotional landscape of growing older and what adult children can learn by asking the questions that matter most.
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    33 mins
  • The Relationship Killer Nobody Talks About

    The Relationship Killer Nobody Talks About
    Jun 17 2026

    In this episode, we investigate the question "Am I defending who I think I am, or am I becoming who I could be?" How fixed mindsets keep us stuck and what happens if we choose growth?

    If you have to spend extended time this summer with a family member who is locked in their view point. This episode is for you. We offer tips to understand how to communicate best with the ones we love, even if they think "That's just who I am" or "They'll never change."

    Take away tips.

    Even if you don't agree, ask questions as to what their viewpoint is. People sometimes just want to be heard.

    Set boundaries before time spent (and do it with humor) "I'm on a no politics diet this summer"

    Create a signal so that those you are traveling with you can help divert attention if a conversation gets too heated.
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    32 mins
  • The Secret to Stronger Relationships? Stop Trying to Win

    The Secret to Stronger Relationships? Stop Trying to Win
    Jun 10 2026

    What can one of the world's most celebrated event planners teach us about relationships?

    This week, legendary event planner David Monn joins Cathy and Lucette to share wisdom gained from producing hundreds of weddings and navigating the emotions that come with bringing families together.

    From weddings to everyday life David reminds us that compromise ins't giving something up- it's choosing something else.

    And... what if being the bigger person isn't losing yourself - but expanding your capacity to love?

    And... weddings are not just about creating a beautiful day - they are about creating the foundation for a beautiful family.

    Together they discuss:

    *Why managing expectations matters.

    *How we are never just "I" - we become part of a much bigger "We".

    *The changing role of modern grooms and their families

    *How inclusion - not perfection- is what people remember.

    David's advice to every bride: Trust that you will be the most important person on your wedding day. Then be the bigger person and make sure everyone feels like they belong.

    Tune in to find out how you can build even more meaningful connections.
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    34 mins
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