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My guest this week is Paige Tamayo, a Lead Zoologist at the Dallas Zoo. Paige and I know each other and used to work together when I was at Dallas. She joined my team in the Middle Wilds right before I moved back to Florida. Having both gone to the same college (although many years apart), we originally bonded over that, however I have loved seeing her career blossom and her start to grow her family.

I reached out to Paige after I saw her post a video on Facebook talking about body image during pregnancy and how more people should be talking about it...and I agree! Our bodies are amazing and grow human beings; however, that doesn't mean that we can't feel a certain way about what is happening (very quickly) to our bodies and how that makes us feel. Sometimes those changes bring up feelings about our bodies from the past. Sometimes they bring up feelings we didn't know we had about our bodies, and learning how to live in this new body, whether during pregnancy or postpartum, is hard and often feels shameful and frustrating.

I'm so appreciative to Paige for sharing her feelings and experiences on this topic! She very candidly shares her struggles with her own body image during pregnancy and she talks about how to support someone who might be struggling during pregnancy. She also shares how she has tried to support her inner dialogue by reminding herself that she's in a hard season right now, but that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

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My guest this week is Clare Belden-Walker, an animal keeper at the Seneca Park Zoo. Clare's great love is primates, and she tells us all about her journey into zookeeping through the world of primate conservation!

Pregnant zookeepers do some amazing things at work while pregnant and Clare shares stories about how she navigated pregnancy at work, doing physical labor almost up until her due date, and then helping to watch videos of their new mother giraffe until she finally went out on leave.

Clare shares stories about being pregnant with severe morning sickness and trying to train new keepers to shift animals while navigating needing to run to the bathroom. She talks about how she adjusted her mindset to just accept being sick, instead of dreading it as a way to cope.

Even more since becoming a mom, Clare loves to observe maternal behavior in primates. She even feels that being able to observe non-human primates "mother" their offspring has helped her in her own motherhood journey. We talk a bit about co-sleeping with our children and really leaning into our instincts when it comes to mothering them, especially early on.

We also talk about Clare's postpartum period and how she advocated for herself to get the time she needed to be able to return to work, which included an additional month of leave as well as a gradual return to work in the form of half days and a reduced schedule.

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My guest this week is Charley Shepherd, a Senior Mammal Care Specialist at the Jacksonville Zoo and Gardens in Jacksonville, FL.

At the time of this interview, Charley was pregnant! She and I talk about the differences between her first and second pregnancy. With both, she had to learn how to navigate restrictions and the guilt that came with knowing she had physical limitations that impacted her team. Sometimes it feels like coworkers, especially those who don't have children or don't want children, have a hard time understanding or are less enthusiastic about accepting the fact that, as a pregnant person, you will be less able to contribute to certain tasks. It's hard to feel like your personal decisions are impacting everyone on your team at work.

We also talk about getting ready to go from one child to two, and what she is nervous and concerned about. Postpartum depression was part of her journey with her first child, and that is something she is worried will come back with the second. With her first, she was dismissed by the first doctor she saw, but was able to advocate for herself to see another doctor who really listened to what she was saying and was able to help her - something which she says she is so thankful for and tells that doctor all the time! Advocating can be hard, especially when you're already in a fragile mental or emotional state!

Finally, we talk about trying to find that elusive work/life balance and Charley shares what has been helpful for her. However, she does admit that being the senior-most person on her team has her struggling sometimes with maintaining that balance!

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