In this powerful episode of Man Talk, Real Talk, Iliad Pirasteh shares his remarkable story of resilience, transformation, and success. Discover how he overcame life’s darkest moments and built a thriving property portfolio and community impact that now inspires men to redefine their futures.

Key Topics

• Iliad’s childhood in Tehran and early influences
• The contrasting paths of career: shop owner vs. university graduate
• The childhood lessons of serving others first and respect
• The pivotal moment in Iran that sparked his ambitions
• The emotional low point in 2014 and its life-changing impact
• His decision to migrate to the UK at age 28
• The power of mindset shift: from scarcity to abundance
• The importance of community, education, and self-investment
• Creating value and giving back: future goals including community projects
• Maintaining a strong marriage through growth and mutual support
• Practical advice for men facing similar struggles

Resources & Links

Illiad Pirasteh

Evergrow Assets – https://www.evergrowassetspropertymanagement.co.uk/

Iliad Pirasteh – https://www.instagram.com/iliadpirasteh?igsh=MWV1ZzFhNXhnd3Q1OQ==

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Des Morant

https://www.instagram.com/desmorantofficial?utm_source=qr&igsh=dXpxMjhiZGUxOXZk

https://www.tiktok.com/@desmondmorant?_r=1&_t=ZN-97Atj2VBVpe

www.youtube.com/@mantalkrealtalk

Email - des@mastermindacademy.co.uk

Final Message from Iliad

"Change your perspective, focus on adding value, and take control of your future. Remember, you are not alone in your journey, and your next breakthrough often begins with a decision to act."

Time Stamp

| 0:00 | Breaking free from financial bondage (existing) |

| 0:37 | Meet Iliad Pirasteh |

| 3:27 | Growing Up in Tehran |

| 5:55 | Two Paths: University or the Market? |

| 9:31 | The Uncle Who Inspired Him |

| 10:36 | Seeds of Ambition |

| 14:42 | Rock Bottom: £8.57 in the Bank |

| 15:46 | A New Life & a Harsh Reality |

| 18:26 | The Conference That Changed Everything |

| 21:26 | Going All In |

| 23:06 | Value Over Money |

| 24:46 | Building a Legacy |

| 27:09 | 16 Years of Marriage |

| 30:30 | Growing Together |

| 32:36 | Quick Fire Round |

| 35:45 | Connect with Iliad |

In this inspiring episode, Patrick Onyido shares his remarkable journey from childhood in Nigeria, overcoming adversity, prison, and challenges, to building a flourishing bakery business in London. His story exemplifies resilience, passion, and the power of mindset in transforming life's obstacles into opportunities.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• How a teacher's mentorship and the "circle of influence" shaped Patrick’s mindset
• The influence of prison experiences on his mental strength and business approach
• The origins and meaning behind Paddy Cakes, and its journey from a dream to a thriving company
• The importance of passion, authenticity, and flavor in creating standout cakes
• Practical advice for men facing adversity: resilience, focus, and staying true to your purpose
• The role of family, roots, and cultural influence in shaping his identity and business
• The significance of visualization and trusting the journey, even in uncertain times
• His message on overcoming stereotypes and redefining what it means to be a successful male baker

Timestamps:

• (00:00) - Introduction to Patrick Onido, the man behind Paddy Cakes
• (02:25) - The "circle of influence" and mindset for success
• (05:23) - Building flavors and creating a journey in baking
• (08:12) - Life lessons from family and early struggles
• (16:17) - The story of Paddy Cakes' inception and vision
• (22:42) - Overcoming stereotypes as a male baker and entrepreneur
• (28:18) - Navigating prison with purpose and mental resilience
• (36:32) - Lessons learned from incarceration and their impact on business
• (42:38) - The influence of mentors and role models in his life
• (57:27) - How adversity shaped his business growth
• (63:08) - The importance of faith, purpose, and staying motivated
• (70:46) - Encouragement to stay confident and relentless
• (77:23) - Quick fire questions: favorites and fun facts
• (83:55) - Connecting with Patrick and his future plans

Connect with Patrick Onyido

• Website
• Instagram | Paddy Cakes

Connect with Des Morant:

• website
• email: des@mastermindacademy.co.uk
• Instagram
• Tik Tok

Final thoughts:

Patrick's story is a testament to the power of mindset, perseverance, and authentic passion. His journey reminds us all that no matter the obstacles, with clarity of purpose and unwavering belief, success is within reach. Men out there facing their own battles – your breakthrough could be just a mindset shift away. Keep pushing, stay true to your purpose, and never underestimate the power of your story.

In this powerful Movember special, Leroy Harley joins Man Talk Real Talk to break open the real state of men’s mental health in the UK. With the government announcing new investment into male-focused mental health services, this episode asks the big question: Will the funding finally reach the men who need it most?

Leroy dives into the stigma, the silence, and the societal pressures that keep men from speaking up. From suicide prevention to support networks, fatherhood, community, and identity — this is the conversation every man needs to hear, and every woman should understand.

If you care about men’s wellbeing, national mental health reform, and the future of male mental health support, this episode is unmissable.

“If you’re a man who wants better for yourself or if you love a man who’s struggling listen to this episode. Man Talk Real Talk is where real men change the narrative.”