Most people think emotional intimacy is about getting closer to someone else. But the real work starts with you. In this episode Ron "Simplified" Myers breaks down what it truly means to know yourself — and why that self knowledge is the foundation of every deeply intimate relationship. Plus a simple daily practice to carry you through the week and into Sunday. Listen. Do the work. And bring it into your marriage on Sunday. Join our Uplifting Life Partners community 👉 facebook.com/groups/simplifieduplifterscommunity Visit 👉 simplifieduplifters.com And most important, remember you are extraordinary.

This week on the Marriage Builder — we bring it all home. On Wednesday we sat with the individual work of self love and what it means to choose yourself. Today we bring that work straight into the marriage. What does it look like when two people who have done their own inner work come together and choose each other — not out of habit, not out of obligation, but on purpose? What does it look like to rebuild the feeling of being chosen inside a marriage that has gotten quiet? Ron "Simplified" Myers walks couples through the real meaning of intentional love — not the grand gestures, not the movie version — but the ten thousand small choices that either build a marriage or quietly dismantle one. This is the episode that Wednesday was leading toward. Come ready to do the work together. marriage, choosing each other, intentional love, intimacy, not being chosen, rebuilding connection, Marriage Mastery Simplified, Ron Simplified Myers, Simplified Uplifters, Marriage Builder

You show up for everyone. Your kids. Your partner. Your job. The people who need you. But when did you last show up for yourself — with that same energy? Most women who feel unchosen in their marriage are the same women who stopped choosing themselves first. Not because they are weak. Because they were taught that their needs were negotiable and everyone else's were not. In this episode, Ron "Simplified" Myers goes straight to the root — the story underneath the exhaustion, the giving, the quiet resentment that builds when a woman disappears herself in the name of love. This one is for the woman who is ready to stop performing love and start receiving it. Starting with herself. In this episode: — Why feeling unchosen in your marriage almost always starts with how you see yourself — The story that says your value lives in what you do for others — and why it is lying to you — One simple daily practice to start choosing yourself without abandoning everyone else — Why becoming a woman who knows her own worth is the most powerful thing you can do for your marriage Join the Simplified Uplifters community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/simplifieduplifterscommunity Ready for the tools that move the needle: https://simplifieduplifters.com

There is a conversation almost every long-term couple has been avoiding. It is the one underneath the everyday conversations. The one about how she stopped asking to be seen — and how he stopped knowing what she needed before she said a word. In Marriage Builder Sunday, Ron "Simplified" Myers turns this week's Self-Love Wednesday lesson into a real conversation a couple can sit down and have together. Not a lecture. Not a fight. A new conversation built on honesty instead of resignation. In this episode Ron covers: — Why the conversations you've been having are not the conversation you need to have — How to open the real conversation without it becoming a fight — The four questions every couple needs to ask each other this week — What he is actually hearing when she expresses a need — and how to hear it differently — How to rebuild the habit of asking and the habit of listening — together You are not broken. Your story is. And stories can change. Get the book: simplifieduplifters.com/intimacy Send Ron a voice note — questions, reflections, breakthroughs: speakpipe.com/simplifieduplifters And most important — remember, you are extraordinary. — Ron "Simplified" Myers Simplified Uplifters™

There is a quiet thing happening in long-term relationships that almost nobody is naming. Women — millions of them — have stopped asking to be seen. Not because they no longer need it. Because somewhere along the way they decided it was easier to stop asking than to keep being disappointed. In this episode of Self-Love Wednesday, Ron "Simplified" Myers names the real reason a woman stops asking — and the self-love work it takes to come back to herself before she can come back to her relationship. In this episode Ron covers: — What "emotional outsourcing" actually is and why women are doing it — The moment a woman stops asking to be seen — and what she replaces it with — Why self-love is not bubble baths and affirmations — it is something much harder — The first honest question to ask yourself before you ask anything of him — What it means to come home to yourself first You are not broken. Your story is. And stories can change. Get the book: simplifieduplifters.com/intimacy Send Ron a voice note — questions, reflections, wins: speakpipe.com/simplifieduplifters And most important — remember, you are extraordinary. — Ron "Simplified" Myers Simplified Uplifters™

You did the inner work on Wednesday. You sat with the question. You wrote the honest answer. Now what? In this episode of Marriage Builder Sunday, Ron "Simplified" Myers takes everything you uncovered about yourself this week and brings it into the marriage. The conversation you have been avoiding is not dangerous because it is too hard. It is dangerous because you have been carrying it alone. This episode gives you the exact three-step framework to have the conversation your marriage has been waiting for — without a script, without an argument, and without making it bigger than it needs to be. In this episode: — Why the conversation you avoid is the one your marriage is waiting for — What comfortable silence is actually costing you both — The difference between an honest moment and an accusation — Three things you need to start the conversation today Wednesday you did the work on you. Today you bring it home. Get the book — How To Create Intimacy, Trust and Unshakeable Love — nine dollars. simplified uplifters dot com forward slash intimacy And most important — remember, you are extraordinary. — Ron "Simplified" Myers | Simplified Uplifters™

You are not asking for too much. You have been asking in silence for so long that you convinced yourself the asking was the problem. In this episode of Self Love Wednesday, Ron "Simplified" Myers gets honest about the story that lives inside women who love hard — the one that says making yourself smaller keeps love safer. The one that has you editing your needs down, going quieter, and wondering why you feel completely alone sitting right next to the person who is supposed to know you best. This is not a conversation about what your partner is doing wrong. This is about the story you have been carrying — probably long before this relationship — and what it is costing you right now. In this episode: — Why feeling unseen in your relationship is a story problem before it is a relationship problem — The moment most women stop asking for what they need — and why — The one question that reveals exactly where your self love work needs to start — Why the distance you feel from him begins with the distance you created from yourself This episode is your inner work before Sunday's Marriage Builder — where we bring everything you uncovered today into the relationship. One question to sit with after this episode: What is the one thing you stopped asking for in this relationship — because you got tired of asking? You don't have to tell anyone the answer yet. Just be honest with yourself. Get the book — How To Create Intimacy, Trust and Unshakeable Love — $9 simplifieduplifters.com/intimacy And most important — remember, you are extraordinary. — Ron "Simplified" Myers | Simplified Uplifters™

You sat in your own silence this week. Maybe something surfaced — a pattern, a story you have been carrying, a part of yourself you have not looked at in a while. Now what? Most people do one of two things: they keep it completely to themselves, and it creates new distance in the relationship. Or they share it all at once, and it overwhelms their partner. Neither of those is the answer. In this Marriage Builder Sunday episode, Ron "Simplified" Myers, uplifting life partner, author, and founder of Simplified Uplifters, introduces the third way — bringing what you found in your inner work home to your partner. Not as a burden. Not as a confession. As an invitation. One small, honest piece at a time. One practice. One week. A different kind of closeness. Ron "Simplified" Myers is your uplifting life partner, author, and founder of Simplified Uplifters™ who has studied human behavior since 1987.