"The Future is Female." But where does that leave our sons? In this conversation with George from The Tin Men, we examine the silent crisis facing men and boys, the institutional bias in our schools and courts, and why society seems to have lost its compassion for male suffering.👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

George, the creator behind The Tin Men, joins me for a critical look at how modern narratives are failing a generation of young men. From classrooms where boys are subjected to "misogyny training" and viewed as potential threats, to family courts that presume fathers are second-class parents, we explore how these systemic biases are destroying lives.

We discuss the devastating data on male suicide, the widening education gap, and why standing up for boys has become a revolutionary act.

In this episode:

✔️ The "War on Boys" in education: Why boys are falling behind

✔️ "Misogyny Training": How schools are teaching boys self-loathing

✔️ The "Violent Male" Myth and its impact on Family Court

✔️ Why society struggles to feel empathy for men

✔️ The link between relationship breakdown and male suicide

✔️ Institutional bias: Is the system rigged against fathers?

✔️ How to protect your sons from toxic narratives

✔️ Why "The Future is Female" is a dangerous slogan

✔️ The importance of male advocates like The Tin Men

✔️ How we can build a future that values both sexes

👉 Find The Tin Men:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetinmen/

Blog: https://thetinmen.blog/

💬 Let me know in the comments: Do you think schools and society are biased against boys? What changes have you noticed?

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I'm joined by two therapists from my practice, Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts, for the second episode of our monthly series exploring how to restore sacred connection in long-term relationships.👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

When intimacy becomes mechanical or disappears entirely, couples lose more than just sex, they lose sacred space together. We discuss how to move beyond "getting the deed done" and rediscover intimacy as a profound, connected experience that honours both partners.

👉 Book a session with Zac: https://laurahow.com/therapists-zac-fine/

👉 Book a session with Marijke: https://laurahow.com/therapists-marijke-roberts/

In this episode, we discuss:

✔️ Why sacred intimacy matters more than mechanical sex

✔️ Creating liminal space—ritual moments outside everyday life

✔️ Moving from "I want sex" to "I want connection with you"

✔️ Simple practices: eye contact, attuned breathing, mindful touch

✔️ The "Kings and Queens" exercise for asking and receiving

✔️ How porn culture has replaced sacred sexuality with performance

✔️ Responsive desire and why women often need different pathways to arousal

✔️ Attachment wounds that block intimacy and how to heal them

✔️ Turning conflict into curiosity when one partner withdraws

✔️ Why recovery is slow, human-paced work, not a quick fix

We'll be recording this podcast monthly, and we'd love to hear from you.

👉 Leave your questions in the comments for the next episode.

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⌚️ Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: Welcome to Love and Cherish Podcast

0:23 - Why Men Want Enthusiastic Partners: The Deep Need to Feel Wanted

1:57 - Creating Sacred Spaces for Intimacy: Moving Beyond Mechanical Sex

6:22 - Practical Connection Exercises: Eye Contact, Breathing, and Touch

10:48 - Learning to Listen to Your Body Instead of External Advice

13:56 - Kings and Queens Exercise: Taking Turns Asking for What You Want

16:32 - Getting Curious About Resistance: Why Intimacy Feels Hard

19:29 - Personal Story: Understanding Shame and Childhood Wounds in Relationships

24:26 - Attachment Theory and Healing: Moving Toward Secure Relationships

26:05 - Closing Thoughts: Embracing the Slow Process of Growth

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📌 Hashtags:

#SacredIntimacy #SexlessMarriage #IntimacyInMarriage #MakingLove #ResponsiveDesire #LiminalSpace #AttachmentHealing #MarriageTherapy #LoveAndCherishPodcast #ConnectionOverSex #MindfulIntimacy

"Feminism has always been a force for good and equality." Is that really true? In this conversation with retired Professor Janice Fiamengo, we examine feminism's actual origins, its pervasive influence on modern relationships, and why so many men and women are waking up to a very different reality than what we've been told. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

Professor Janice Fiamengo, creator of The Fiamengo Files video series and author of Sons of Feminism, joins me for an unflinching look at how feminist ideology has shaped our attitudes toward men, marriage, and family life. From classrooms teaching children that men are the problem, to therapy rooms filled with women who've been taught to fear and distrust their husbands, we explore how these ideas have taken root and what the cost has been to both sexes.

This conversation challenges the narrative that feminism's only critics are those who hate women or want to deny them opportunities. Instead, we examine the historical record, question why certain perspectives have been suppressed, and ask what happens to societies that tell men they don't matter.

In this episode:

✔️ Why feminism was never really about equality (the historical evidence)

✔️ How anti-male messaging appears everywhere (schools, therapy, media)

✔️ The victim mentality and why it's so appealing (and so destructive)

✔️ What happens when women lose faith in men

✔️ The natural order of family life and why it matters

✔️ How to recognize feminist ideology in your own thinking

✔️ Why restoring faith between the sexes is essential

✔️ The good news: men don't actually want to harm women

✔️ What a life centered on family and gratitude actually looks like

✔️ Why psychological problems shouldn't be blamed on an entire sex

👉 Find Janice Fiamengo:

• The Fiamengo Files (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@StudioBrule

• Substack: https://fiamengofile.substack.com/

• Book: Sons of Feminism: https://amzn.to/3Zf2DBZ

💬 Let me know in the comments: Has feminist ideology affected your view of men or marriage? What's your experience been?

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📌 Hashtags

#Feminism #MarriageAdvice #MensIssues #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #JaniceFiamengo #MarriageCounselling #IntimacyInMarriage #LauraHow #FiamengoFiles #TraditionalMarriage #FamilyLife

Michele Weiner-Davis joins me for a conversation about sexless marriages, desire differences, resentment, and how couples can rebuild intimacy after betrayal. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

Michele is a therapist and bestselling author known for her work with sexless marriages, infidelity recovery, and long-term relationship repair. We talk about why sex is never just sex for many people, how shutdown and withdrawal slowly erode closeness, and why so many couples wait too long to ask for help.

This conversation offers practical, compassionate guidance for men and women who feel stuck, lonely, or unsure how to reconnect again.

In this episode we explore:

✔ What “sex-starved marriage” really means

✔ Why long-term sexlessness damages connection and trust

✔ The silent expectations low-desire partners often hold

✔ When anger and withdrawal take over the relationship

✔ Why feelings cannot be the only guide in intimacy

✔ Responsive vs spontaneous desire, especially for women

✔ Why communication style matters more than frequency

✔ Ways to approach the conversation with more success

✔ How to support healing after infidelity

✔ Why hope is possible even after years of shutdown

We would love to hear from you.

👉 Leave your questions in the comments for future episodes.

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🔗 Michele Weiner-Davis Books

Sex Starved Marriage → https://amzn.to/49xZiUA

Healing from Infidelity → https://amzn.to/491pAi1

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🔗 Connect with Michele Weiner-Davis

Website → https://www.divorcebusting.com/

TEDx Talk → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep2MAx95m20

YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@DivorceBusting1

Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/micheleweinerdavis

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00:00 Introduction

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📌 Hashtags

#SexlessMarriage #InfidelityRecovery #MarriageCounselling #ResponsiveDesire #SexStarvedMarriage #RelationshipTherapy #IntimacyInMarriage #MarriagePodcast #AffairRecovery #MicheleWeinerDavis

I’m joined by two therapists from my practice, Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts. This informal conversation marks the start of a new monthly series where we speak openly about marriage, intimacy, sexlessness, consent, and the growing tension many couples feel between men and women. 👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

We talk honestly about what happens when sex disappears from a long-term relationship, why this causes deep distress for many people, and how fear, withdrawal, resentment, and cultural messaging pulls couples apart.

👉 Book a session with Zac: https://laurahow.com/therapists-zac-fine/

👉 Book a session with Marijke: https://laurahow.com/therapists-marijke-roberts/

In this episode, we discuss:

✔️ Why long-term sexlessness is a serious relational issue

✔️ Consent, fear, and confusion around initiating sex in marriage

✔️ How power struggles and withdrawal develop over time

✔️ Why sex often means reassurance, grounding, and connection for men

✔️ Responsive desire, willingness, and curiosity in long-term intimacy

✔️ How couples can get stuck, and what helps them soften again

✔️ Why healing is possible, even when patterns run deep

We’ll be recording this podcast monthly, and we’d love to hear from you.

👉 Leave your questions in the comments for the next episode.

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Sexless marriages, intimacy loss, emotional withdrawal, consent, attachment, and rebuilding connection in long-term relationships.

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⌚️ Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction

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📌 Hashtags:

#SexlessMarriage #MarriageTherapy #SexInMarriage #ConsentInRelationships #IntimacyInMarriage #GenderDivision #LongTermRelationships #marriagepodcast #AttachmentAndIntimacy #LoveAndCherishPodcast

Join me live on Friday, December 5th at 11am EST (4pm GMT) for a candid Q&A with @drpsychmom (Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten). We’ll be answering your live questions about: Love, sex, marriage, mental health, intimacy, and anything else you want to ask us.

ABOUT DR PSYCH MOM

Dr Samantha Whiten is a clinical psychologist in private practice, author, podcaster, wife, and mother.

Visit her group practice: https://bestlifebehavioralhealth.com

Email: info@bestlifebehavioralhealth.com

🎧 Podcast: The Dr Psych Mom Show

Connect with her:

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🕓 Set a reminder now and join us live!

Bring your questions, join the chat, and be part of a real conversation about sex, marriage, and mental health.

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