Separation anxiety and alone-time struggles are some of the most distressing challenges dog owners face, and yet the advice we’re often given can feel rushed, outdated, or even harmful.

In this episode of The Walk & Talk, we take a deep, science-led look at separation training for dogs, moving beyond quick fixes and ‘just leave them’ advice to explore what dogs actually need in order to feel safe when they’re alone.

Drawing on attachment theory, nervous system science, and over a decade of hands-on behaviour work, I unpack why independence doesn’t come from forced separation, but from secure attachment, emotional regulation, and thoughtful, gradual, intentional training.

Whether you’re raising a puppy, supporting a dog who panics when left alone, or navigating hyper-attachment to one specific person, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on beneath the behaviour, and how to train in a way that builds confidence rather than survival.

If you’ve ever worried that you’re ‘doing it wrong,’ or been told you’re just spoiling your dog too much, this episode is for you.

• Why forcing dogs to ‘get used to’ being alone often backfires - and what it teaches the nervous system instead
• How attachment science (John Bowlby & Mary Ainsworth) helps us understand separation anxiety and independence in dogs
• Why secure attachment is the foundation of confident independence, not the enemy of it
• The difference between dogs who fear being alone and dogs who are hyper-attached to their owner - and why this matters for training
• How to introduce separation in ways your dog chooses, using distance-based enrichment and emotional safety
• How desensitisation and counter-conditioning actually work for separation struggles
• How to prevent separation issues from puppyhood by prioritising regulation, safety, and connection

💻 Want to dive deeper into transforming your dog’s behaviour with science-backed strategies that actually work? Check out my digital training products, freebies and online courses at www.listendogtraining.com

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So many dog owners are stuck in a cycle of trying to wear their dog out - longer walks, more running, more stimulation - yet still living with dogs who feel fizzy, reactive, over-aroused, and hard work to coexist with!

In this episode of The Walk & Talk, we’re unpacking one of the most misunderstood concepts in modern dog training: regulation vs exertion.

You’ll learn why exhausting your dog doesn’t automatically create calm, how a dysregulated nervous system shows up as reactivity and ‘too much’ behaviour, and what actually helps dogs develop true emotional balance. This episode is a deep, science-backed reframe that will change how you think about exercise, enrichment, and everyday life with your dog - especially if you’re raising a sensitive, reactive, or high-energy dog.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything yet still struggling with overstimulation and chaos, this episode will bring clarity, relief, and a whole new way forward.

• Why ‘tiring your dog out’ often creates more reactivity, not less
• The difference between physical exhaustion and nervous system regulation
• How overstimulation shows up in behaviour - and why calm can’t be forced
• What regulating activities actually look like in real life
• How to blend exercise and regulation to meet your individual dog’s needs
• Why some high-energy dogs need less intensity, not more
• How daily lifestyle factors influence your dog’s ability to settle
• What calm really is - and how to help your dog learn it, rather than chase it

💻 Want to dive deeper into transforming your dog’s behaviour with science-backed strategies that actually work? Check out my digital training products, freebies and online courses at www.listendogtraining.com

📱 Let’s connect! Follow me on Instagram and TikTok → @listendogtraining

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What if dog training didn’t leave you feeling anxious, defeated, or like you’re constantly getting it wrong?

In this episode, I’m sharing something that sits at the very heart of my work as a dog trainer - not techniques, not quick fixes, but the emotional experience I want you to have with your dog.

Because how you feel about your dog directly shapes how you train, how your dog learns, and whether progress actually sticks.

We explore why pressure, perfectionism, and constant worry don’t create better behaviour… and what does. I’ll break down the science of learning, nervous system regulation, and engagement, and show you how shifting your mindset can transform both your training results and your relationship with your dog.

This episode is for you if you love your dog deeply, but sometimes feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or unsure whether you’re doing enough, and you just want training to feel lighter, more joyful, and more sustainable.

• Why behaviour change starts with emotion - for both dogs and owners
• What joy, confidence, and connection actually do to a dog’s brain and learning ability
• The difference between compliance and true engagement (and why it matters)
• How stress and pressure quietly sabotage training progress
• Why nervous system regulation is a missing piece in most training plans
• How to shift from judgement to curiosity when your dog struggles and what you’ll gain
• What realistic progress really looks like (and how to recognise it)
• How your mindset and self-talk directly influence your dog’s behaviour

💻 Want to dive deeper into transforming your dog’s behaviour with science-backed strategies that actually work? Check out my digital training products, freebies and online courses at www.listendogtraining.com

📱 Let’s connect! Follow me on Instagram and TikTok → @listendogtraining

🎧 If you found this episode helpful, I’d be so grateful if you left a review 🌟 or shared it with a fellow dog lover—it helps the podcast grow and helps more people train with confidence, clarity, and joy!