Episode 4: Let Them See You

This episode is a wrap-up — not just of the month, but of the mindset we’ve been sitting in together. Our January theme, Daring to Begin, wasn’t about perfection or confidence. It was about movement. About choosing to start even when fear, doubt, and discomfort try to keep us quiet.

In this conversation, we’re talking about one of the biggest reasons people hesitate to go after what they want: the fear of judgment and being perceived. The fear of what people might say. The fear of being misunderstood. The fear of getting it wrong in public.

But here’s the truth — people are going to talk whether you do it or you don’t. Whether you try or stay still. Whether you win, pivot, or pause. So the question becomes: why let the fear of being seen stop you from becoming who you’re meant to be?

This episode is about releasing the weight of other people’s opinions and remembering that your life isn’t a performance for approval. It’s about learning how to move forward even when you feel exposed. Even when your voice shakes. Even when you’re not sure how it will land.

As we close out this month, consider this your reminder that daring to begin doesn’t mean you won’t be judged — it means you decided that your growth matters more than staying small.

Community Update:

There’s an upcoming ULCC Community Cypher hosted by Upward Light Community Cypher on January 31 from 2:00–5:00 PM. This event is a space for creativity, connection, and community.

🎟 Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ulcc-community-cypher-tickets-1977564041282?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=wsa&aff=ebdsshwebmobile

Shared Steps Reminder:

In honor of Black History Month, we’ll be dedicating a special upcoming episode to giving flowers to Black women who have inspired us, guided us, and made space for us to grow. If there’s a Black woman you want to honor, email her name and why she inspires you to herpathherpace@gmail.com with the subject line: “Give Her Flowers.”

Letters Along the Way:

If you want to share your story, a lesson you’re learning, or ask for advice, email lettersalongtheway@gmail.com. Your words may be featured in a future episode.

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Make sure you tune in next week for our next conversation. And until then, remember to pause, breathe, and take a beat.

Always give yourself grace.