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Episode Summary: Part three (and finale) of our three-part foundational assessment series! This episode focuses on preparedness, legacy planning, and being ready for the unexpected. Sam and Cole tackle the uncomfortable but critical topics most dads avoid.

THE 5 ASSESSMENT QUESTIONS 1. How prepared are you for the unexpected death of you and/or your partner? 2. If you lost your job today, could you make it 3-6 months covering expenses? 3. How prepared are you to cover your family for a week in case of emergency? 4. Have you effectively communicated or memorialized the values you want to pass on to your kids? 5. How prepared are you to assist aging parents?

In this assessment episode, Sam and Cole tackle: * Estate planning basics—wills, trusts, guardianship appointments (and why foster care is a real risk without them) * Life insurance for young families and why it matters * The 72-hour rule: food, water, shelter, and basic emergency supplies * Why your kids will get a counterfeit identity from the world if you don't give them the real one * Multi-generational living and caring for aging parents * How to actually document your family values before it's too late

Sam gets brutally honest about the costs of raising kids in 2025, the housing market being "hosed," and why his neighbor's 30-year-old paid-off vehicle beats a new SUV. Cole shares insights on instilling values in kids, the danger of chasing external things for happiness, and why one in four adults is estranged from family members.

Whether you're completely unprepared (many of us are) or already have some boxes checked, this episode gives you clear next steps to protect your family and leave a legacy worth passing on.

Sam offers to answer DMs about estate planning specifics, and both hosts emphasize that while these topics are uncomfortable, they're absolutely critical to get sorted out this year.

Looking ahead: More actionable content throughout 2026, plus potential in-person gathering.

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Episode Summary: Part two of our three-part foundational assessment series! This episode focuses on emotional communication and self-reflection—skills that most men weren't taught growing up, but are absolutely critical for being an effective father and husband.

Sam and Cole walk you through six essential questions to assess your emotional health and capability. This is about developing real skills that prevent blind spots, divorce, and disconnection from your kids. If you can physically protect your family but can't emotionally connect with them, you're missing half the job.

THE 6 CRITICAL ASSESSMENT QUESTIONS: 1. How present are you in the moment without seeking distraction? 2. How much emotional control do you have on a daily basis? 3. Can you identify when someone is communicating with you emotionally? 4. How comfortable are you with self-reflection? 5. How emotionally complete do you feel with your friends and family? 6. What are your energy levels throughout the day? (emotional component)

In this assessment episode, Sam and Cole tackle: * Why unresolved grief and emotional pain keep you stuck in the past or anxious about the future * How to recognize when your kid (or wife) is having an emotional experience vs. a problem-solving moment * The massive blind spot most men have: intellectualizing everything instead of just listening * Why self-reflection and self-disclosure build trust and prevent isolation * Phone usage as a distraction from uncomfortable emotions and present-moment awareness * How incomplete relationships create constant triggers and reactivity * The connection between physical energy and unresolved emotional baggage

Whether you're completely new to these topics or already doing the work, this episode gives you clear diagnostic questions to identify blind spots and areas for growth in 2026.

Cole's professional expertise in grief recovery shines through, while Sam models what it looks like to learn these skills in real-time. This is actionable content—not just another podcast to consume and move on from.

More assessment episodes coming soon. Part three covers additional foundational categories for fatherhood.

Referenced in this episode: Episode 6 - Emotional Communication deep dive

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Episode Summary: Kicking off 2026 with the first episode in our three-part assessment series! This episode focuses on the physical fundamentals every father needs to have locked down—not the sexy 20%, but the core 80% that actually moves the needle.

THE 6 CRITICAL ASSESSMENT QUESTIONS:

1. Are you routinely doing resistance training?

2. What percentage of your meals are centered around protein?

3. How are your energy levels throughout the day until you fall asleep?

4. Can you get through the week without relying on drugs or alcohol?

5. If you had to physically defend your family, how confident would you be?

6. How physically present are you with your kids on a weekly basis?

In this assessment episode, Sam and Cole tackle: * Why resistance training is non-negotiable and how to scale from 1-5 * The protein-centered approach to nutrition that cuts through all the diet noise * Energy levels as a key indicator of overall health (caffeine, carbs, and circadian rhythm) * Real talk on sobriety—why zero drugs and alcohol might be the best option for fathers * Physical capability and your role as your family's security detail * Phone usage destroying your presence with your kids and how to fix it * Why all these fundamentals work together as a system Sam and Cole get honest about their own struggles—Cole's holiday carb binge, both of their phone usage challenges, and why they're between 3-4 on several metrics themselves.

They emphasize this is assessment, not judgment, and starting with just ONE area can cascade into improvements across all the others.

More assessment episodes coming soon covering other foundational categories for fatherhood. Looking ahead to 2026 with practical content on implementing real change in your life as a father and man.