Most people make their worst decisions when they are the most overwhelmed. Not because they are bad decision makers. Because they are missing a system. In this episode Kendra Tamika walks through the full PAUSE Method, the five-step leadership framework from her book Pause. Clear. Lead., using her own real pivot this week as the running example. Then she connects it to something bigger: why she is building her channel and her next food brand launch completely publicly starting June first, and why the fear of being seen in the middle of the process is the exact reason to do it anyway. Two ideas. One honest conversation. Something you can use tonight.

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Something big is coming and it starts six days from now. In this episode Kendra Tamika gets honest about the week that did not go as planned, what her body asked for and why she listened, and what that pivot actually taught her about building something real. She also introduces The 100 Method Challenge launching June first, one hundred videos, one hundred days, one goal, and gives the first hints about a new business launch happening publicly and simultaneously. If you have ever felt like you were waiting for the right moment to start, this one is for you. The moment does not arrive. You build it.

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The physical books arrived from Remember Her Publishing and Kendra Tamika opened them on camera because that moment deserved to be witnessed. In this episode she unboxes the full catalog including She Who Commands: Where the Deep Begins, then walks through every step she took to publish her titles as a solo creator with no agent and no traditional publisher. From manuscript to ISBN to KDP to IngramSpark to ACX to Goodreads. The complete self publishing roadmap from someone who actually did it.

Find all books at rememberherpublishing.com. She Who Commands: Where the Deep Begins is available on Amazon now.

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Welcome to the Layered Love Universe.
This is the official theme song for the Layered Love Universe a world built for magical beings, creators, and women who show up in every version of themselves. The nurturer. The healer. The builder. The leader. The teacher.

Layered Love Universe.
Written by Kendra Tamika.


The Layered Love Universe is home to Layered Love Gourmet, Remember Her Publishing, The 100 Method, and the She Is All of Them skit series a content world built on purpose and layered with intention.

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Seven episodes in and the Layered Love Universe is just getting started. In this final episode of the launch series, Kendra Tamika talks about She Who Commands, her three-book fantasy series following protagonist Tamdra Bell, a woman carrying Siren, Airis, and Witch bloodlines in contemporary New York City. She also breaks down the August 2026 vision for Remember Her Publishing and what it looks like when a woman finally stops shrinking and starts living the full version of her life out loud. This is not the end. This is the beginning.

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When you understand something, the best thing you can do is pass it on. In this episode, Kendra Tamika talks about why she homeschools, the Life Made Daily curriculum she built for families who want rich and intentional learning, and the Self-Publishing From Scratch YouTube series she created so other women can do exactly what she did. The Teacher does not hoard what she knows. She builds the ladder and reaches back.

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Great leadership does not come from leaving yourself at the door. In this episode, Kendra Tamika breaks down her journey from pastry chef to certified Scrum Master, the PAUSE Method and CLEAR Framework at the center of her leadership work, and why the most effective leaders are the ones who show up as whole human beings. This one is for every woman who leads at work, at home, and everywhere in between.

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Building something from nothing costs more than money. It costs certainty. In this episode, Kendra Tamika talks about the real story behind Layered Love Gourmet, what she learned from losing her first food business during COVID, and why the rebuild is better than anything she made before. She also breaks down The 100 Method, the framework she created for anyone who wants to build something real without waiting for perfect conditions.

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