In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Vic, who reached out on Instagram with a question I couldn't stop thinking about: why do some men make incredible friends — and then fall completely apart the moment things turn romantic?

We get into why men with options refuse to go all in, and why Vic's litmus test for whether a guy actually likes her is devastatingly simple.

We discuss:

- The friendship that turned romantic — and how quickly he became a different person entirely

- Why men with options resist committing (and why that fear of missing out is costing them)

- Good Time Charlies: why the most fun guy in the room may be the last one to settle down

- What it means when a man dumps all his emotional trauma on you within the first hour of a date

- Why not asking questions is a sign that a guy only wants one thing

- The taxi light theory and the avocado theory

Vic also shares the bar approach that actually works on her (hint: it involves a stain on a shirt).

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In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Dana, a self-described recovering people pleaser who went from losing herself completely in relationships to building a life so full that it's hard to find a partner who is a value add.

We get into how she went from boy crazy to briefly hating men — and why this mentality was holding her back, what she learned when she stopped morphing herself into whoever she thought a guy wanted her to be, and the moment she pushed a guy away mid-kiss and told him exactly why.

We discuss:

- Going on good dates with bad men vs bad dates with good men

- How a fancy resort trip fooled her into thinking there was real chemistry

- "I wasn't attracting the same type of man — I was accepting the same type of behavior"

- Setting boundaries to explain how she wants to be treated

- The thing many men are getting wrong on the first date.

Dana also shares the line that stuck with me: "I used to fear abandonment from men. Now I fear abandonment from myself."

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In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Keighley, who recently went through a breakup--with someone she still works with.

We discuss:- The difference between how men and women process a breakup — and why women feel a bigger void

- Why she won't sleep with someone until they're officially her boyfriend

- How to make women feel safe

- The slow burn: how she ended up falling for someone she never would have considered

- The single biggest first date mistake men make

- The friend group blacklist — and how your reputation follows you in a small community

Keighley also shares what it's actually like when your ex is dancing with someone else two feet away from you, why she once reverse-catfished herself on Hinge, and what a man reveals about himself when he says "my mom never hugged me" within the first two minutes of a date.

This conversation is honest, funny, and one of the more unfiltered takes on modern dating we've had on the show.

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