In this episode, Paul and Francois explore the intentional shift from a life of accumulation to a life of distribution. They discuss why moving beyond the endless chase for "more" is critical for building a life of meaning and significance, not just for those who come after us, but for ourselves, right now.

This isn't about waiting until you retire. This is about living a life that aligns with the person you want to be remembered as.

In this discussion, you will explore:

• The powerful mental exercise of writing your own eulogy.
• The crucial difference between an inheritance and a true legacy.
• Moving from an "accumulation" mindset to a "distribution" mindset.
• The concept of Micro vs. Macro legacies and why both are valuable.
• Asking the tough question: "When is enough, enough?" to avoid the trap of the rat race.

Reflection: What is one value or principle you hope to pass on to the people closest to you? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

This is not a typical parenting guide. It is a raw, multi-generational exploration of what it means to be a present and impactful father in the modern world. It tackles the tough questions around why we have children and how to consciously build a legacy that echoes in their lives.

In this episode, you will discover:

• Why the decision to have children is becoming more complex due to societal and economic pressures.
• The five timeless lessons for intentional fatherhood, including why you must let your children struggle and learn their own lessons.
• The critical importance of never neglecting your relationship with your wife for the sake of your children.
• Why children are more resilient than you think and "don't break that easily," even when you make mistakes.
• The crucial difference between being physically present and being mentally and emotionally present for your kids.
• How Paul's perspective on fatherhood has evolved, leading him to a place where his adult children are now two of his best friends.

What is the most powerful lesson your father ever taught you, either through his words or his actions? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

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Which comes first: the motivation or the action? The confidence or the success? So often, we feel stuck in patterns we can't see, waiting for the right feeling before we make a change.

This Intentional Masterclass uses the age-old "chicken or the egg" riddle to decode the powerful, invisible feedback loops that run our lives. Paul Kempff and Francois de Wet explore how these cycles can become downward spirals of stress and inaction or, with deliberate intervention, upward spirals of growth and fulfillment.

Listen to this episode to learn how to identify the true starting point for change in any area of your life, empowering you to move from being a passive participant to the active designer of your future.

Show Notes:

In this thought-provoking masterclass, Paul Kempff and his co-host, Francois de Wet, explore the concept of "circular causality" using the "chicken or the egg" riddle as a powerful metaphor for personal growth. They move beyond a simple answer to investigate the interconnected feedback loops in our lives that determine our happiness, success, and well-being. By understanding how these loops work, you can identify where to intervene to intentionally break negative cycles and create positive, upward spirals.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

• The Riddle's Scientific Answer: While the conversation is largely philosophical, you'll learn the definitive scientific answer: the egg came first. A genetic mutation occurred inside an egg laid by a "chicken-like" animal, which resulted in the first true chicken hatching from it.
• The Power of Seeing Loops: The main goal is to shift your perspective beyond simple cause-and-effect and instead embrace the interconnectedness of feedback loops that are all around us.
• How to Create Upward Spirals: Learn how identifying the "egg" (the starting point) in any loop gives you the leverage to deliberately change a downward spiral into a positive one.

Key Feedback Loops Explored.

1. Happiness & Relationships.
2. Mindset & Happiness.
3. Motivation & Action.
4. Positive Thinking & Positive Outcomes.
5. Stress & Sleep.
6. Success & Confidence.
7. Financial Health & Spending Habits.

Mentioned in this Episode:

• The Harvard Study on Adult Development found that good relationships are the key determinant of happiness.
• The book Why We Sleep.
• Robin Sharma's The 5 AM Club.
• The Huberman Lab podcast.

What gives someone that captivating 'presence'? Is it an innate gift, or something anyone can develop? Good news: Presence is absolutely a skill you can master.

In Episode 4 of the Intentional Masterclass, Paul Kempff and Francois explore the powerful concept of presence. We move beyond first impressions to uncover how genuine presence – the kind that commands respect and connection – is built through intention and practice. It's not about faking it forever, but about authentically developing the skills to embody the confident, impactful person you aspire to be.

Reflection: What's one small, practical step you can take this week to consciously practice and develop your own authentic presence? Share your thoughts below!

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In this Intentional Masterclass, we'll discuss the difference between healthy ambition and unhealthy competitiveness. Learn how to live more intentionally and develop healthy habits for self-improvement.

Join the conversation! Do you think competitiveness is a strength or a weakness? Let us know in the comments!

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📢Are You Spending Your 90,000 Work Hours Intentionally?

Your career takes up 90,000 hours of your life—but are you truly fulfilled? In IWPK Masterclass #2, Paul Kempff and Francois dive into the power of intentional career choices and how to align your work with your values, strengths, and long-term goals.

If you're feeling stuck, disengaged, or unfulfilled in your job, this episode is for you!

In This Episode, We Cover:

The Sunday Dread Test – A simple way to assess your job satisfaction

Job-Hopping vs. Career Longevity – Why depth in your work matters

The secret to finding joy and fulfillment in your career

How employee engagement boosts productivity by 21%

The biggest mindset shift to create success on your terms

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The Intentionality Masterclass: Friendship dives deep into the art of cultivating meaningful, intentional friendships. Co-hosted by Francois de Wet, this episode explores the transformative power of giving over receiving in relationships, the importance of vulnerability, and how shared traditions and memories can create unshakable bonds. Whether you’re looking to strengthen existing friendships or build new ones, this episode offers practical insights and strategies to make your connections more intentional and impactful.

For over 70 episodes, Paul Kempff has championed the power of engineering a more intentional life. But what happens when the very pursuit of that ideal leads to burnout?

In this vulnerable and personal episode, Paul confronts a flaw in the podcast's original premise: the expectation of 100% perfection is not sustainable. He introduces a concept he calls "Intentional Fatigue" —that feeling of exhaustion, demotivation, and failure when you inevitably slip up on your discipline. It's the moment your mind says "keep going," but your body says, "I cannot do it anymore".

Paul argues the problem isn't intentionality itself; it's the expectation of perfection. This creates a "Discipline Paradox": the harder you try to control everything, the faster you lose control over the few things that matter most.

The solution? We must shift from "universal control" to "intentional focus". Paul offers five practical solutions to build a more sustainable, compassionate, and effective intentional life.

💡 Key Solutions from This Episode:

1. Stop Chasing Perfection Perfection is debilitating. If everything is a priority, nothing is. Instead, practice intentional prioritizing. Identify your "life non-negotiables" (e.g., a positive mindset) that you always protect. Then, create a "secondary intentional list" (e.g., exercise, diet) where you allow yourself "intentional grace" and the room to slip up now and then.
2. Practice Self-Compassion You are allowed to be a work in progress. Stop the debilitating self-criticism when you miss a goal and be careful who you measure yourself against. Self-compassion isn't self-indulgence; it's the wisdom to treat yourself as you would a struggling friend, preserving the mental energy you need to get back on track tomorrow.
3. Find the Fun The process of continuous improvement can be a tiring, boring grind. To avoid burnout, you must intentionally schedule interim rewards that re-energize you. Bringing intentional fun into your life helps you handle the boring-but-necessary parts of discipline, making your goals easier and more enjoyable to achieve.
4. Seek a Witness to Your Life Paul shares a powerful quote from the movie Shall We Dance?: "We need a witness to our lives". An accountability partner—like a spouse or close friend—is a "witness" who keeps you accountable, disciplined, and intentional. This support system is an undervalued element that can be the difference between success and failure.
5. Shift from Quantity to Quality It's easy to get caught in the chase for "more"—more money, more hours, more success. But this focus on quantity can be empty. Be careful of reaching a point where "enough is never enough". True intentionality is also having the wisdom to define your finish line and shift your focus from quantity (more work) to quality (more time with family, more creative pursuits, more life-enriching travel).

📚 Tip of the Week

Paul recommends Morgan Housel's new book, The Art of Spending Money. While the book offers great advice on using money wisely , Paul argues there is a more important art to master: the art of spending your time. Time is a more valuable and finite commodity than money. He leaves listeners with a thought exercise: If time were your only currency, would you continue to spend it the way you currently do?