“Fake it till you make it” can sound like grit, but for a lot of leaders it quietly becomes a lifestyle of hiding, overfunctioning, and running on fumes. I sit down with Kurt Bush, a certified IFS practitioner, trauma coach, and co-founder of Brimstone Coaching Group, to name the real costs high performers rarely admit: the pressure to look strong, the fear of asking for help, and the slow drift into survival mode that feels like success from the outside.

We get practical about the inner critic, including when that voice is actually useful feedback and when it crosses the line into shame that makes you avoid, withdraw, and stop growing. Kurt also reframes success in a way every entrepreneur and corporate leader can use: measure your inputs, not just outcomes you can’t fully control. That shift makes it easier to spot burnout signs early, protect your limits, and build rhythms of rest and reflection that keep your leadership sustainable.

We also unpack why self-awareness is so rare in “go, go, go” work culture and what authentic leadership really looks like. Spoiler: it is not impulsively saying whatever you feel and calling it authenticity; it is aligning your leadership with who and how you want to be, then choosing that version of yourself under pressure. If you’ve ever wanted to quit being “the adult in the room,” this conversation will hit home.

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A doctor advised two teenage parents to “put him away.” They refused, and that choice shaped an entire family’s understanding of dignity, disability, and what it really means to be human. We sit down with award-winning author Dr. Stuart D. Jones to talk about his memoir *For the Love of Stephen: The Story of a Boy Who Was Never Broken* and the brother who changed his life.

Stephen grew up in the 1950s with an intellectual disability at a time when special education and disability resources were scarce and stigma was loud. We trace what it looked like for a family to practice radical love in public: pushing doors open so Stephen could be part of Boy Scouts, school, church, and everyday community life, even when people responded with cruelty. Along the way, we unpack the painful reality of abuse and exploitation, and the startling way Stephen kept choosing kindness, friendship, and forgiveness.

We also challenge a modern buzzword: inclusion. When does inclusivity become performative, and what does true belonging require from the people “inside the door”? Dr. Jones offers a clear framework for shifting perspectives, breaking down common misconceptions about developmental disabilities, the subtle harm of pity, and why simple, genuine kindness is often the most powerful starting point.

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The trophy, the title, the million-dollar milestone, the Oscar, the Super Bowl ring, why do so many high achievers reach the summit and still feel a hole inside? We sit down with transformation coach and former celebrity trainer Jon Paul Crimi to name the lie that quietly drives burnout: “When I get the thing, then I’ll be happy.”

We dig into the deeper script many of us carry, “I’m not enough,” and how that belief keeps your nervous system locked in survival mode. Jon Paul shares what he sees across CEOs, elite athletes, and people rebuilding their lives after addiction: real change requires doing the work you’ve been avoiding, showing up when you don’t feel like it, and staying willing to adjust instead of repeating the same patterns. We also talk about “failing forward,” using setbacks as data, and redefining success as the number of people you help, not the amount of applause you collect.

The conversation gets real about fame, identity, and recovery, including a story about Matthew Perry and the painful reality that achievement cannot fix what’s happening internally. We cover warning signs that someone may be spiraling, how intervention can save a life, and how to stay present with someone who feels trapped in shame. John Paul also explains his transformational letter practice and breathwork approach for stress, anxiety, and nervous system regulation, plus where to find his weekly class at breathewithjp.com.

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Time does not slow down for denial, and Jay Setchell has lived that lesson in the most extreme ways. After multiple near-death experiences, paralysis, and 73 surgeries, Jay joins us with a message that is both raw and practical: life moves at the same speed every day, but your awareness of it can change everything.

We talk about how surviving the unimaginable can either trap you in survival mode or push you into a deeper kind of responsibility. Jay connects his resilience mindset to growing up on a working farm, to the Marine Corps, and to a faith-driven commitment to help other people. He shares what it is like to wake up in real pain, get moving anyway, and refuse to build a life around “woe is me.” Along the way, we dig into why earned progress feels sweeter than instant results, and why consistent practice is what separates people who change from people who only hope.

Jay’s core principle is blunt: “If it is to be, it is up to me.” We break down what that looks like day to day, including his advice to dream big, take small steps, and keep going when your circumstances feel out of control. If you are searching for motivation, mental toughness, veteran perspective, overcoming adversity, or a real-world blueprint for personal responsibility, this conversation delivers.

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You can be disciplined, ambitious, and still be stuck, not because you lack effort, but because you’re repeating patterns you’ve never slowed down long enough to see. We sit down with Chris Natzke, life and leadership coach, keynote speaker, Amazon number one best-selling author, and eighth-degree black belt, to get practical about what breakthrough performance actually requires when motivation fades and life gets loud.

We start with the foundation: awareness. Chris explains why limitations creep in quietly and how “slowing down” becomes a high-performance move, not a soft concept. From there, we confront the high achiever trap, the belief that you’re not good enough, and why chasing approval can cap your growth. We also talk coaching ethics around adversity: when to support, when to challenge, and how obstacles can become the springboard to your next level.

Then we turn it into tools you can use today. Chris shares daily habits for a champion mindset, including self-discipline, habit stacking, and scheduling what matters. He breaks down “conscious persistence” so you stop getting better at the wrong behaviors, and he gives five power questions that bring you back to clarity in hard moments. Finally, we land on his three Cs of breakthrough: clarify your vision, create a plan, and take consistent action, plus how to plan for obstacles before they derail you.

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Welcome back to Inspiration Station — the space where clarity meets conviction, and everyday people step into their edge.

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Tired of pretending unshakable equals unbreakable? We go straight at three stubborn myths that keep men exhausted, isolated, and misunderstood—then trade them for a better blueprint: feel fully, show up consistently, and stand shoulder to shoulder with brothers who tell you the truth. Subscribe, share this with a father, husband, brother, or son who needs it, and leave a review to help more men find their footing.

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He didn’t start podcasting to inspire anybody. Javier Malave started because he was furious, hurting, and ready to argue with God. After a major neurological health scare left him dealing with neuropathy and a new daily reality, he launched a show called The Intellectual Sasquatch with one goal: deconstruct faith and prove God didn’t exist. What happened next surprised him. The deeper he researched, the more his own life started getting reconstructed.

We talk through Javier’s Brooklyn roots, the pull of street life, and how creativity became a way out and a way forward. From faith-based podcasting to pop culture conversations about comics, anime, movies, and literature, he builds spaces where people can speak honestly and still feel welcome. He also shares how embracing AI tools unlocked a new level of content creation, graphic art, and even music production, turning ideas in his head into real assets, revenue, and a growing creative business.

The heart of the conversation lands on mental health. Javier gets real about how dark it can get, why therapy helped him, and why faith communities don’t need to be afraid of professional support. His through-line across every project is simple: “Your voice matters. Period.” If you’ve been stuck, scared, or convinced you missed your window, this is a practical reminder that the first step is usually the hardest, and it’s still the one that changes everything.

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Welcome back to Inspiration Station — the space where clarity meets conviction, and everyday people step into their edge.

This episode is more than a listen. It's an invitation.

If you've been searching for a community where authenticity isn't just a buzzword — where real people show up with real conversations, real growth, and real support — then what I'm about to share is for you.

📲 Support the Show

If this episode added value to your day, your week, or your journey — help us reach more people who need it.

▶️ Subscribe on YouTube: youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu 🎧 Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: They Call Me Mista Yu on Apple Podcasts

Leave a rating, drop a comment, and share this with someone in your circle who needs a little push toward their edge. Every share helps this message go further.

Until next time — stay sharp, stay grounded, and keep living on the Everyday Edge.

— Mista Yu

Outrage is loud. Real love is costly. We dig into why so many of us feel our care thinning at the edges and what it takes to rebuild a love that holds under pressure. From highways to checkout lines to family gatherings, you can spot the chill: words that once meant something now land like air. Your stories and reflections power this community—what costly way will you love this week?

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