For nearly two decades, Reality Steve (Steve Carbone) has been one of reality TV’s most influential insiders, breaking stories, sharing spoilers, and changing the way fans follow their favorite shows.

In this episode of In My Hometown, Jamie Stein and Pascal sit down with Reality Steve for a wide-ranging conversation about the current state of reality television. They discuss Bachelor Nation, Taylor Frankie Paul’s new dating series, Love Island, America’s Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, and where reality TV is headed next.

They also explore the future of The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, Bachelor in Paradise, and The Golden Bachelor, why networks may be overlooking the powerful 50+ audience, and how the reality TV landscape has evolved over the past two decades.

Whether you’re a longtime Bachelor Nation fan or simply love behind-the-scenes stories from the world of reality television, this conversation offers an insider’s perspective on the biggest shows, the biggest headlines, and what viewers can expect next.

In this episode:

• Reality Steve’s journey from blogger to reality TV insider
• The future of The Bachelor franchise
• Is The Bachelorette really coming back?
• Taylor Frankie Paul’s new reality dating show
• Why the 50+ audience is reality TV’s biggest missed opportunity
• Love Island, America’s Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, and today’s hottest reality TV trends
• Behind-the-scenes stories from nearly 20 years covering reality television

In My Hometown is hosted by Jamie Stein and Pascal and features honest, unfiltered conversations about reality TV, relationships, life after 50, reinvention, and the stories shaping today’s culture.

What do men really think about dating after 50?

In this special episode, Jamie Stein puts co-host Pascal in the hot seat for an unfiltered conversation about love, relationships, attraction, confidence, and his infamous “French standards.”

Drawing from questions submitted by our community—and a few of Jamie’s own—Pascal shares his candid opinions on first impressions, chemistry, red flags, modern dating, and the controversial belief that men gain power with age while women lose it in the dating world.

Whether you agree with him or completely disagree, you’ll get a deeper look at the man behind the fan-favorite persona from The Golden Bachelorette and plenty to debate along the way.

This episode is funny, honest, occasionally provocative, and exactly the kind of conversation that makes In My Hometown what it is.

If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, and review—it helps us reach more listeners and continue bringing you real conversations about life, love, and what’s next after 50.

What if the thing preventing you from attracting the love—and the life—you want isn’t timing, luck, or even chemistry?

What if it’s confidence?

In this episode, Jamie and Pascal sit down with dating strategist, confidence expert, matchmaker, and host of The Charisma Quotient podcast, Kimmy Seltzer, for a conversation about dating, attraction, confidence, and finding love after 50.

Kimmy shares her belief that confidence isn’t just an inside job—it also works from the outside in. From the way we present ourselves to the energy we bring into a room, she explains how confidence and charisma can influence the relationships we attract and the opportunities we create.

Together, they discuss dating after divorce, starting over in midlife, the challenges many accomplished women face in today’s dating world, and practical ways to become more magnetic, approachable, and authentic.

Whether you’re looking for love, rebuilding your confidence, or simply curious about the connection between attraction and self-image, this episode offers a fresh perspective on what it really takes to create meaningful connection.

In This Episode:

• Why finding love after 50 can feel so difficult
• Confidence, attraction, and the “charisma quotient”
• The concept of outside-in confidence
• Dating after divorce and major life transitions
• Why great women often struggle in dating
• How to become more approachable and authentic
• Practical tips for attracting the relationships you want

If you’ve ever wondered whether confidence—not chemistry—might be the missing piece, this conversation is for you.