The summer comparison trap is one of the most diabolical things we do to ourselves, and it bites hardest when everyone else's summer looks better than ours. One minute you are scrolling through other people's summer escapades, the next your own summer feels insignificant, grey, and just not enough. This episode is about what is really going on in that moment, and the small shift that brings you home to the summer you are living.

This is not about where we are or are not going this year. It is about how fast a screen can lift us right out of our own life and place us in the middle of someone else's. And the longer we linger there, the more of our own summer slips by while we are looking the other way.

I share one simple question you can reach for the next time the scroll starts to sting, a piece of Mental Fitness that gently calls you back to your own life. And yes, there is a caftan involved. It makes more sense than it sounds. To me, this is where Self-Love begins, in coming home to the summer you are standing in and deciding to enjoy the hell out of it.

These summer episodes are short, honest, and this one made me laugh more than most. If comparison has been running off with your summer, join me to find a lighter way to hold it.

IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN

• How an ordinary scroll can talk you into believing your whole summer is a write-off
• The slightly absurd thing we all do the moment someone else's summer looks better
• What it truly costs us to go and live in someone else's summer instead of our own
• One simple question that gently calls you back when the scroll starts to sting
• Small, gloriously ridiculous ways to celebrate the summer you are actually in
• Why coming home to your own summer is something you do, not something you wait for

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