This is S1\E1\P1 Cora's Chronicles

Before you judge, before you scroll... meet Cora. A California mama navigating autism, ADHD, ABA therapy, and a son who will go to war for the underdog every single time. We talk villages, IEPs, therapy choices, and why raising a child with special needs ain't so different from raising any other kid. You just need a little more grace. And maybe 15 minutes alone in the bathroom.

This show was born from Emmanuel. A 15 year old Houston boy who eloped from Walmart, got picked up by HPD, and ended up in a detention center instead of home with his family. Our kids deserve better. So we're telling our stories. One family at a time.

This is special needs.

In this episode of Rae Unscripted, Cathi Rae discusses the complexities of autism and the misconceptions surrounding it. She shares personal experiences with her son Noah, addressing the common phrase 'they don't look autistic' and the challenges of public perception. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding and advocating for special needs families, while also reflecting on the unique experiences of individuals with autism. Cathi concludes with a heartfelt prayer and a call for greater awareness and understanding in the community.

To be a guest and share what special needs looks like in your home, Schedule a time that works for you!

Takeaways

• Cathi Rae holds space for families with special needs.
• The phrase 'they don't look autistic' is a common misconception.
• Public perception can be challenging for families with autistic children.
• Noah, Cathi's son, is a smart and perceptive child.
• Autism presents differently in each individual.
• There is no single 'look' to autism; it varies widely.
• Cathi emphasizes the importance of understanding over mere awareness.
• Families often face insensitive comments from the public.
• Cathi advocates for better support and understanding for special needs families.
• The conversation ends with a prayer for those in need.
• Breaking Down Autism Misconceptions
• The Reality of Autism: Beyond Appearances
• "They don't look autistic."
• "There is no look to autism."
• "Bless your heart."

Chapters

• 00:00Introduction to Special Needs Advocacy
• 02:15Addressing Misconceptions About Autism
• 12:06Personal Experiences with Autism and Society
• 16:41Closing Thoughts and Prayer

Tonight we’re sitting with Rosie Ibarra as she lets us into her family’s world. Her son Hector is an autistic adult with a child-like spirit, a big heart, and a growing desire for independence. Rosie shares what it looks like to support him as he steps into adulthood — meeting his needs with care while helping him stretch into more freedom at a pace that keeps him safe, seen, and respected.

This is real life in a special needs home — the shifts, the support, the love, and the ongoing work of building a life that fits the whole person.

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