In Episode 2 of You + Me = US, Sharon and Evan Curry dive into one of the most debated questions in relationships: Is marriage really 50/50? Or is that just a myth we’ve all been sold?
The Currys unpack what “50/50” actually looks like in real life—and why sometimes marriage feels more like 80/20, 60/40, or even 100/0 depending on the season. Sharon shares her perspective on emotional labor and the invisible responsibilities many spouses carry, while Evan speaks candidly about learning how to step up in ways that go beyond finances and traditional roles.
The conversation then shifts to emotional intelligence in marriage. Should men know when to approach their spouse when she’s moody—or give her space? Evan keeps it honest about the learning curve of reading the room, while Sharon explains what women often wish their husbands understood without having to spell it out. Together, they discuss timing, tone, and the power of discernment in communication.
Finally, they tackle a modern relationship trend that sparks strong opinions: Is it wise to be married but live in two separate homes? Is it a healthy solution for maintaining individuality, or does it create emotional distance? The Currys explore the pros, the risks, and whether physical separation strengthens or weakens the “US” in marriage.
As always, Sharon and Evan bring humor, transparency, and real-life experience to the table—reminding listeners that marriage isn’t about keeping score, it’s about staying committed to growth.
This episode challenges couples to rethink balance, emotional awareness, and what true partnership really means.
Because at the end of the day… it’s never 50/50. It’s You + Me = US. 💛

In the premiere episode of You + Me = US, hosts Evan and Sharon Curry open their hearts and take listeners back to where it all started. With honesty, humor, and a little Valentine’s Day nostalgia, they share the story of how they met, what drew them to each other, and the journey that led them to say “I do.”
The episode weaves through their early dating days — the butterflies, the uncertainty, and the defining moments that made them realize this was something real. With Valentine’s Day as a backdrop, Evan and Sharon reflect on what romance looked like then versus what love looks like now, years into marriage.
They don’t shy away from the real conversations either. From the highs of partnership and shared dreams to the lows that test commitment, they discuss the ups and downs of married life. They open up about disagreements, growth, forgiveness, and the daily choice to stay connected even when it’s hard.
A powerful part of the conversation centers on how each of them was raised to view marriage. They explore the examples they saw growing up — what they wanted to carry into their own relationship and what they had to unlearn. Their different perspectives shaped not only how they approached commitment but also how they navigate conflict and communication today.
The episode also dives into the beauty and complexity of blending families. Evan and Sharon candidly discuss the challenges of merging households, building trust with children, setting boundaries, and creating a unified front. They talk about patience, grace, and the intentional effort it takes to build a strong foundation for a blended family to thrive.
Episode one sets the tone for the podcast: real conversations about love, faith, family, and partnership — reminding listeners that while marriage isn’t always easy, when it’s built on understanding and teamwork, You + Me truly can equal US.