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2 Gay Dads

2 Gay Dads

By: 2 Gay Dad's Media
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Welcome to "2 Gay Dads" — the podcast where two dads, one daughter, and a whole lot of sass take on parenting, pop culture, politics, and the occasional PTA drama.

We’re just two gay dads raising a brilliant, curious, occasionally sticky little human in a world that’s still buffering on equality. Our family might not look like the default emoji, but we’ve got love, laughter, and a suspicious amount of glitter in every corner of our home.

Each week, we dive into the chaos of modern parenting — from navigating school picture day (why is there always syrup on her shirt?) to explaining why some people still think “two dads” is a plot twist. Spoiler: it’s not. It’s just Tuesday.

We’re here to share stories, spill tea, and remind everyone that families come in all shapes, sizes, and fabulousness levels.

Whether you're a parent, ally, or just here for the dad jokes and emotional breakthroughs, you’re welcome at our table — just watch out for the Legos.

2025 2 Gay Dad's Media
Episodes
  • One Day Down
    Feb 2 2026


    This week’s episode is equal parts tender and furious: after reflecting on the moving short The Dads and the difference between being an ally and a co‑conspirator, Jason and Nate unpack how their own childhoods shaped their parenting, why they strive for a balance of warmth and structure with little Lizzy, and the small, everyday moments—cheeky giggles under a blanket, painted nails, a teacher’s concern—that both heal and teach them; then their warmth turns to alarm as they expose a coordinated campaign and hundreds of state bills aimed at stripping rights and resources from LGBTQ families, reminding listeners why love, rage, and steadfast presence are all necessary to protect the life they’ve built.

    ACLU Anti LGBT Legislation Tracker: https://www.aclu.org/legislative-attacks-on-lgbtq-rights-2026?state=

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    57 mins
  • Brave Kids - Brave Parents
    Jan 26 2026

    This week on Two Gay Dads we sit down with Stephen Chukumba, co‑founder and advocacy/outreach coordinator of Rainbow in Black. Stephen shares his powerful origin story as an accidental advocate, frontline strategies for supporting Black trans and gender‑expansive youth, and how families — especially fathers and single parents — can show up as true co‑conspirators. We discuss community building, resources (including a dating/disclosure guide co‑authored with HRC), racial dimensions of anti‑trans attacks, the fight over trans athletes in the courts, and a moving family story about patience, boundaries, and eventual acceptance. Plus: This Week in Gay News — adoptions stalled, dangerous deportations to Iran, Iowa’s expanded “don’t say” push, and joyful trans mutual‑aid in Florida.

    Takeaways:

    • How to support Black trans youth and their families in culturally specific ways
    • Practical advocacy steps: local organizing, telling stories, contacting officials
    • Why patience, firm boundaries, and community outreach matter
    • Joyful resistance as a form of survival and organizing

    Actions:
    Subscribe, rate, and share — and if you’re moved by Stephen’s work, learn more about Rainbow in Black and ways to support local trans organizations and legal defenders (ACLU, Lambda Legal, local clinics).

    Hosts: Jason & Nathan
    Guest: Stephen Chukumba — Rainbow in Black

    Resources:

    www.rainbowinblack.org

    www.stephenchukumba.com

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • It's Time to Say Something
    Jan 19 2026

    Trigger warning: discussion of violence, immigration enforcement, trauma, and political repression.

    In this urgent, off-format episode of Two Gay Dads, Jason and Nate step outside their usual adoption and family topics to respond to the escalating crises they’ve witnessed — from Minneapolis where ICE actions coincided with the murder of Renee (Becca) Good, to nationwide targeting of educators and communities of color. A former law‑enforcement officer, Jason recounts what he saw on the ground, and Nate shares practical steps their family is taking to prepare (wills, apostilles, emergency funds, researching immigration options). They unpack signs of authoritarianism, why civil resistance matters, and concrete tactics and networks (including Freedom Trainers) that build collective power. They also recommend podcasts and resources listeners can use to stay informed and take action.

    This episode is a call to speak up, document injustice, protect your loved ones, and build the 3.5% movement of civic resistance. Listen, act, and share.

    Resources Mentioned:

    Freedom Trainers: https://freedomtrainers.net/

    Podcasts:

    Pod Save America

    Pod Save the World

    Strict Scrutiny

    The Ezra Klein Show

    Autocracy in America (The Atlantic)

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    44 mins
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