Episode Summary:

In this episode, family law attorney Patricia Sokolich shares insights from over 30 years of experience helping women navigate the challenges of divorce. Now offering private divorce coaching, she explains how coaching provides clarity, emotional support, and practical preparation before hiring an attorney. Patricia discusses the misconceptions about divorce, the importance of financial awareness, the role of domestic control in relationships, and how women can gain confidence and control through guided support.

Key Timestamps:

00:45 – What is a divorce coach and how can they help? 02:20 – Why Patricia transitioned from courtroom law to coaching 04:30 – Misconceptions about divorce and relying on friends’ experiences 07:15 – Managing expectations and the role of coaching in preparation 09:40 – Listening, empathy, and when to seek professional therapy 12:00 – Financial preparation and the “pre-divorce prep period” 15:10 – Addressing domestic control and ensuring safety before divorce 17:50 – Patricia’s experience supporting survivors of abuse 19:30 – Advice for women who feel stuck or scared before taking the next step

About the Show:

By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.