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126: [Inside the Mind] Matthew Caldaroni: Building Systems for Resilience, Certainty, and Confidence - When You Need Them Most

126: [Inside the Mind] Matthew Caldaroni: Building Systems for Resilience, Certainty, and Confidence - When You Need Them Most

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 Most golfers (and entrepreneurs) think resilience is willpower—grit, grind, hustle, "just dig deeper." And under pressure, that approach eventually snaps… In this episode, Matt Caldaroni, CEO and Co-Founder of Molliteum, a performance resilience company, explains why resilience isn't a personality trait—it's a system. We break down his three-part resilience framework (excitement, certainty, focus), why certainty beats confidence, how to build a pre-performance routine that actually transfers to the course, and why rest isn't laziness—it's how your nervous system locks in skill. In this episode, you'll learn: Why willpower fails when pressure spikes—and what to rely on insteadMatt's resilience framework: excitement, certainty, and focusThe difference between confidence and certainty (and why it matters)How to build certainty with process visualization + intentional repsWhy "flow state" is preparing to let go—not chasing a magic feelingHow elite performers detach self-worth from results using standardsA simple pre-performance system: breathe, clarify, watch film, visualize Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Matt Matt Caldaroni is the resilience coach athletes call when their mental game is costing them strokes. He's worked with elite performers across the NHL, NBA, NFL, and pro golf, helping them master pressure, build unshakable confidence, and finally bring their best game into competition. Matt is the CEO and Co-Founder of Molliteum, the performance resilience company trusted by athletes who want systems, not guesswork. He specializes in giving golfers the tools to stay calm, consistent, and locked in on every hole, no matter the stakes. Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery CallSubscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys NewsletterDownload my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Key Takeaways: Resilience isn't willpower—it's having a system you can fall back on when adversity hits.Flow state is "preparing to let go," and it starts in practice—not on game day.Confidence is the outcome; certainty creates courage, and courage produces results.Excitement is built from identity + vision + purpose—the "core hunger" system.Certainty requires skill mastery and situational mastery (what to do, when, and how).Most "practice-to-performance" gaps are missing specificity or intensity in practice.Rest and recovery aren't optional—they're how learning integrates into your nervous system. Key Quotes: "Resilience is having the ability to adapt.""You need to build systems to respond to pressure.""Visualizing the process to get the outcome—that works.""Focus is a cherry on top.""It goes certainty, courage, and then confidence.""The higher you go, the more mistakes you're going to make—and you've got to accept that.""Become that person." Time Stamps: 00:00: The Myth of Willpower in Resilience02:48: Building Systems for Success06:03: The Role of Excitement, Certainty, and Focus08:49: Understanding Flow State11:47: The Confidence-Courage-Certainty Connection14:37: Commitment and Core Values17:28: Detaching Self-Worth from Results20:26: Navigating Mistakes and Identity Spirals22:19: Building Competence and Focus23:33: Understanding and Managing Pressure25:50: Reconditioning and Behavior Change27:58: The Importance of Rest and Recovery31:41: Developing Resilience and Adaptability35:23: Transferring Skills Under Pressure38:22: Action Steps for High Performance45:41: Becoming That Person
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