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I SWEAR I'M REAL: Recovery-Based Discussion on the Transgender/Noncisgender Experience

I SWEAR I'M REAL: Recovery-Based Discussion on the Transgender/Noncisgender Experience

By: Alex Vaughan (They/Them/Theirs)
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I SWEAR I’M REAL with Coach Alex Vaughan (they/them) is a recovery-based podcast exploring the transgender and noncisgender experience through honesty, healing, and radical self-acceptance. Each episode dives into identity, trauma, and transformation, blending recovery wisdom with lived truth. For those told they’re “too much,” this show reminds you: you’re not too much—you’re real.Alex Vaughan (They/Them/Theirs) Social Sciences
Episodes
  • MAGA Are A Group of Domestic Abuse Survivors Who Don't Know It---YET
    Oct 16 2025

    In this raw and unflinching episode, we unpack the connections between trauma, manipulation, and political allegiance. We explore how patterns of control, gaslighting, and coercion—hallmarks of domestic abuse—can mirror the dynamics within extreme political movements. This episode is for anyone trying to understand the deep psychological hooks that keep people trapped in harmful systems, even when they don’t realize it. Expect honest conversations, critical reflections, and tools for recognizing trauma where it hides.


    Shout out @OutFrontMagazine for their support and partnership!

    www.outfrontmagazine.com



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    21 mins
  • There's No Contact With My Children's Other Parent: Here's How To Keep Moving
    Oct 10 2025

    When co-parenting doesn't just break down but communication with your child’s other parent is impossible due to tactics of coercive control and narcissistic abuse, the challenges are amplified—especially for parents supporting transgender children. In this episode, we explore practical strategies for maintaining stability, advocating for your child, and moving forward. Drawing on the insights of Dr. Ramani, a leading expert on narcissistic abuse, we discuss setting boundaries, managing emotional triggers, and navigating the unique complexities of identity, affirmation, and safety in families with transgender children. This episode offers compassionate guidance and real-world tools for resilience, recovery, clarity, and protecting both your well-being and your child’s.


    More on Alex's story: Holding Trans Hope Through Family Court

    Supported and Partnered with Out Front Magazine

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    38 mins
  • Meet Valentina Mendoza (she/her)!
    Sep 18 2025

    Valentina E. Mendoza, or Vale (VAH-Leh), is a Chicana, trans, neurodiverse attorney and grassroots candidate running for Congress in New Jersey’s 7th District. A former Wall Street lawyer who “traded in her white shoes” to build her own scrappy law practice, Vale fights for working people, economic mobility, and marginalized communities. Her campaign is rooted in economic justice, transparency, and joy, with a vision of tearing down systemic barriers and making sure everyone has a seat at the table.


    Find Vale Mendoza and more about her on Instagram and TikTok

    Donate to Vale's campaign: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/valentina-mendoza-1

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    1 hr and 5 mins
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