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What happens when a man enter a new chapter of life - redefining love, evolving a an artist, leaving a legacy through fatherhood, and finding strength after loss? In this episode, I sit down with Moosie Win for a raw and honest conversation about growth, relationships, purpose, and transformation.

At 40, he opens up about his perspective on dating and relationships, and what has changed, the importance of being with someone you can grow with, and how dating is different now that his son has left the nest and is in college.

We also go behind the music and discuss his latest single, "Lust." He breaks down some of the lyrics of the song and the inspiration behind those lyrics, and I challenge him on the meaning behind some lyrics that stood out to me. We also discuss how his real life shows up in his music and how personal experiences shape his artistry.

After 18 years as a Math teacher, he has pivoted in his career and has transitioned to being outside of the classroom while still in the Department of Education.

Fatherhood is another major part of this conversation as he reflects on watching his son complete his first year as a Division 1 athlete. He shares the lessons he intentionally passed down, how he balanced discipline with support, and the moment every parent faces - knowing when to guide and when to let go.

We close out the episode discussing grief, loss, and healing. Having experienced a profound loss, he shares how grief has changed his outlook on life, his relationships, and what truly matters.

This episode is a reminder that growth doesn't stop at any age - sometimes you biggest transformation happens when you're willing to let go, evolve, and step into who you're becoming!

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In this episode, I open up about the importance of traveling, the lost art of flirting, embracing a year of solitude, and the art of detachment.

Whether it’s a solo adventure, a girls’ getaway, or a baecation, travel has a way of revealing who you are when you’re removed from your everyday routine.

I also open up about my “solo year”—a season of solitude, self-discovery, and learning the difference between being alone and being lonely. We dive into the beauty of detachment, letting go of what no longer serves you, and accepting that what you want isn’t always what God wants for your life.

If you’ve been struggling to release control, move on from a situation, trust God’s timing, or embrace a season of singleness, this episode is for you.

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In today’s episode, we sit down with entrepreneur, author, creative, and tech professional La’China Barnes — also known as “sotechnicallyspeaking” on IG — for a raw conversation about reinvention, career pivots, identity, confidence, and what it really looks like to evolve in real time.

From writing books like:
📖 From College Girl to Stripper… I Mean Entrepreneur
📖 Fck It, I Got The Job: The Silver Lining in Going Backwards*
…to stepping into tech, project management, creative direction, and publicly navigating growth, La’China opens up about the pressure of starting over, imposter syndrome, dating while evolving, and learning how to work with her neurodivergent brain instead of against it.

We discuss:
✨ Reinventing yourself without shame
✨ Pivoting into tech as a Black woman
✨ ADHD & entrepreneurship
✨ “Going backwards” to move forward
✨ Building confidence publicly
✨ Dating during seasons of growth
✨ Healing, identity & standing on business
✨ Turning uncertainty into intention

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt behind, underestimated, or afraid to start over.

Because growth sounds beautiful… until you actually have to live through it.

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#BlackWomenInTech #CareerPivot #WomenInTech #Entrepreneurship #ADHD #Podcast #SelfGrowth #TechIndustry #CreativeDirection #ImposterSyndrome #CareerChange #BlackCreators

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