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Gurl Talk with Jenny Raven

Gurl Talk with Jenny Raven

By: Jenny Raven
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Get into bed with us as we talk all things we crossdressing gurlies adore. Dressing up, spending time enjoying ourselves, sometimes with others, and connecting with our wider community of lovely ladies. Slip into your favourite lingerie and let's get into it together. A podcast for crossdressers, by soomeone who LOVES to crossdress, covering the whole spectrum, queer, sissy, trans and anyone non heteronormative.

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Episodes
  • Ep 016 Suzy Whyte: Come Into My Closet

    Ep 016 Suzy Whyte: Come Into My Closet
    Mar 22 2026
    Hello gorgeous, and welcome back to Gurl Talk. I'm Jenny Raven, and I need to warn you, this one's going to get right under your skin. Have tissues nearby. And maybe a glass of something strong.My guest is the wonderful Susy Whyte, a trans crossdresser from Scotland who has been on one hell of a journey. Decades of hiding, purging, panicking, and pretending, and then, finally, letting the light in. If you've ever felt stuck between who the world expects you to be and who you really are, this conversation is for you.We start with our deliciously naughty quickfire questions, and then we go somewhere much deeper. Suzy talks about coming out to a colleague on a whim, the 700-person conference call where she introduced herself to the world, the "great purge" of 2015 when she believed Susie was dead forever, and the quiet, powerful act of therapy that changed everything.But here's what will stay with me. Suzy doesn't talk about coming out of the closet. She talks about inviting people in. Into her TARDIS, because, as she so perfectly puts it, it's bigger on the inside.This episode made me laugh, made me emotional, and reminded me exactly why I do this podcast. Somewhere out there, one of you gorgeous creatures is thinking: maybe it's my turn to let someone in too.Introduction & Letting People In (00:00:00) Susie reframes "coming out" as inviting others into her authentic self; Jenny introduces the episode and guest.Quick-Fire Personal Questions (00:01:11) Jenny asks Susie playful questions about fashion, preferences, and self-description.Living Dual Lives & Early Coming Out (00:03:05) Discussion of dual identities, generational context, and Susie’s initial steps integrating Susie into her life.Coming Out at Work and to Partner (00:04:06) Susie describes coming out at work, therapy, and the difficult experience of coming out to her partner.Vulnerability and Reactions to Coming Out (00:06:12) Susie shares the first time she revealed Susie to someone, the fear, and the positive response.Suppressing Identity & Relationship Dynamics (00:08:33) Susie recounts suppressing Susie, believing she was "cured," and the eventual return of her feminine side.Hiding from Ex-Partners (00:11:31) Susie discusses hiding her crossdressing from her ex-partner and the fear of being discovered.Societal Attitudes & Family Dynamics (00:13:12) Jenny and Susie reflect on societal misunderstanding, family acceptance, and the impact of identity on family relationships.Coming Out to Family & Work (00:15:20) Susie explains why she hasn’t come out to family, her religious background, and her public coming out at work.Workplace Experiences & Acceptance (00:17:55) Susie describes coming out to large groups at work, supportive reactions, and her first experiences presenting as Susie in the office.Navigating Work Identity & Presentation (00:19:37) Discussion about the disconnect between masculine work identity and feminine presentation, and finding authentic style.Clothing, Confidence, and Social Energy (00:22:51) Exploring how clothing choices affect confidence, personality, and the interplay of masculine and feminine energies.Positive and Challenging Work Experiences (00:25:18) Susie shares being dress-coded at work, reactions from colleagues, and playful moments with her presentation.Therapy Journey & Self-Acceptance (00:27:40) Susie details her therapy experience, the importance of finding the right therapist, and the challenge of self-acceptance.Cognitive Dissonance & Societal Norms (00:33:23) Jenny and Susie discuss internalized societal expectations, cognitive dissonance, and questioning ingrained beliefs.Why Now? The Timing of Self-Expression (00:34:08) Exploring why Susie’s identity emerged more fully in recent years, and the journey from sexual expression to authenticity.Support Networks & Online Communities (00:36:13) Susie talks about early online support, learning about presentation, and the evolution from secrecy to openness.Letting Go of Shame & Embracing Authenticity (00:38:37) Susie describes the emotional process of accepting herself and the desire to be seen and share her true self.Reflections on Aging & Living Authentically (00:39:29) Jenny reflects on the urgency of living authentically as time passes and the positive impact of inviting others in.Erotica, Sensuality, and Feminine Experience (00:40:55) Discussion about Jenny’s audiobooks, the erotic and sensual aspects of femininity, and how it influences relationships.Clothing, Confidence, and Community Impact (00:45:09) Susie shares how clothing choices boost confidence, online communities, and inspiring others to embrace themselves.Generational Change & Diversity (00:47:12) Jenny and Susie discuss the normalization of diversity, generational shifts, and the importance of representation.The Tardis Analogy & Embracing the Inner Self (00:48:24) Susie uses a sci-fi analogy to describe her inner world as expansive and inviting others in.Advice for Younger Self & ...
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    53 mins
  • Ep015 Madeline Thomas From Image Angel

    Ep015 Madeline Thomas From Image Angel
    Mar 16 2026

    Jenny Raven talks with Madeline Thomas, founder of Image Angel, about fighting image abuse online. After turning her own painful experience into purpose, Madeline is building technology that helps creators track and protect their images across the internet.


    00:00 The Dark Reality of Images Online (Podcast Introduction)

    00:44 Meet the Founder Fighting Image Abuse – Madeline Thomas

    01:13 The Shocking Truth About Your Photos on the Internet

    02:59 Free Speech vs Online Safety – Where Should the Line Be?

    05:59 How Image Angel Plans to Disrupt the Internet

    09:01 Why the Internet Needs Image Protection Now

    12:01 What Really Happens When You Share a Photo Online

    14:59 The Massive Scale of Image Theft & Misuse

    17:59 The Technology That Can Track Images Across the Internet

    20:59 Can Creators Finally Protect Their Work Online?

    24:00 The Laws Trying to Stop Image Abuse

    27:00 How Communities Can Help Fix the Internet

    30:01 The Emotional Toll of Image Abuse

    33:00 The Vision for a Safer Internet

    35:59 The One Thing Everyone Needs to Know About Online Images

    37:00 Final Thoughts – Protecting the Future of Digital Identity
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    39 mins
  • Ep014 Jenny Raven Uncovered: Interviewed By Helene Noire

    Ep014 Jenny Raven Uncovered: Interviewed By Helene Noire
    Mar 15 2026

    In this flirty and playful episode of "Guild Talk with Jenny Raven," Ellen Noire turns up the heat, interviewing the ever-alluring Jenny Raven about her sensual writing, Instagram escapades, and the art of erotica. The ladies giggle over naughty preferences, tease out the secrets of publishing steamy stories, and dive deep into the emotional and healing power of erotic self-expression. With a feminine touch, they celebrate queer identity, the thrill of being seen, and the freedom to explore desires, inviting listeners to embrace their own inner vixen and join Jenny’s deliciously naughty world.


    Introduction & Warm-Up Questions (00:00:04) Jenny introduces the episode, Ellen begins with playful, rapid-fire "naughty" questions to Jenny.

    Sensuality, Writing, and Fantasy Elements (00:03:41) Discussion of favorite erotic words, elements in fantasies, and preferred erotic media.

    Connection vs. Casual Encounters (00:05:34) Jenny and Ellen discuss threesomes, emotional connection, and the difference between real life and written erotica.

    Why Write Erotica? (00:07:06) Jenny explains her motivations for writing, the therapeutic aspect, and differences in erotic cultures (UK vs. US).

    Cultural Influences & Emotional Healing (00:09:05) Exploring how upbringing, culture, and personal wounds shape Jenny’s writing and the healing power of storytelling.

    Writing Style & Gaze in Erotica (00:15:12) Comparison of Jenny’s writing style to male and female perspectives, pacing, and sustaining erotic tension.

    Story Genesis & Character Development (00:17:59) Jenny describes how she starts stories, character-driven plots, and the importance of anticipation and setup.

    Sexuality in Society & Personal Experience (00:20:59) Discussion about societal denial of sexuality, provocative imagery, and personal anecdotes about navigating sexual triggers.

    Puberty, Shame, and the Birth of 'Aunty Jenny' (00:26:32) Jenny recounts puberty, lack of guidance, shame, and how her 'Aunty Jenny' persona emerged to fill that gap.

    Instagram, TikTok, and Social Media Challenges (00:29:33) Jenny details her experiences with social media bans, strategies for surviving on platforms, and the role of 'Aunty Jenny' online.

    Advice for Gender Exploration & Partner Communication (00:32:23) Jenny shares advice for those exploring gender identity, especially later in life, and navigating disclosure with partners.

    Labels, Identity, and Fluidity (00:35:18) Discussion on the usefulness and limitations of labels like trans, non-binary, and the importance of personal authenticity.

    Publishing Process: Kindle, Audiobooks, and Tools (00:38:34) Jenny outlines the practical steps for self-publishing erotica, including formatting, covers, and audiobook production.

    Finding an Audience & Social Media Marketing (00:46:04) How Jenny builds her audience, the importance of social media, and the economics of selling erotica.

    Privacy, Coming Out, and Exhibitionism (00:48:10) Navigating privacy as an erotica writer, coming out to friends, and the desire to be seen.

    Advice for Aspiring Erotica Writers (00:50:02) Jenny’s encouragement to new writers: just do it for enjoyment, not riches, and the personal fulfillment it brings.

    Living Authentically & Embracing the Unlived Life (00:52:36) Advice on embracing femininity or non-normative identities, the cost of an unlived life, and the journey to self-acceptance.

    Closing Reflections & Outro (00:58:11) Ellen praises Jenny’s honesty; Jenny wraps up, invites listeners to her website, and promotes her mailing list and stories.
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    1 hr and 1 min
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