Kelly Ruta is a private mindset advisor to high-achieving women leaders. She's the one people hire when strategy has solved everything it can, but they're still not where they want to be.
She spent 20 years as a clinical psychotherapist. And on her current business journey she has had to redefine her identity multiple times over while battling multiple chronic illnesses.
In this episode, AnnMarie sits down with her former coach, past client and friend of more than half a decade, for an honest conversation about what it actually took for Kelly to stay in the business game when it seemed like all the cards were stacked against her (hint: it started with admitting she was sick, vs fighting it).
Plus, they chat about the realities of discerning who gets your advice and when -- and why asking permission around this works on clients, friends, and adult sons alike.
They also get into the money stories they've both had to unlearn, what it really means to be a cycle-breaker and the emotional skillset Kelly believes defines the businesses that stand the test of time.
Dished in this episode:
- Kelly's perfect beach vacation day, delivered like a relaxing visualization so vivid you can smell the sunscreen and seasalt
- The three things that rocked Kelly's identity all at once in 2020, and the one that was hardest to accept
- What changed when Kelly stopped fighting being sick and let herself surrender to it instead
- The permission-based approach Kelly uses before giving feedback, whether it's to a client, a friend, or her own kids
- The money story Kelly had to unlearn to stay strong in the game as a business leader battling chronic illness
- Why Kelly thinks emotional agility matters more for businesses going forward than strategy ever will
Bottom line: You can survive almost any changing circumstances, your health, your income, your capacity, as long as you're willing to honor grief and lean into the core, rock-solid parts of who you are.
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Rewriting a safety blanket story of your own? AnnMarie's Life-Proof Business Leader audio series gets into the money story she had to unlearn too.
Resources mentioned:
- Life-Proof Business Leader (Free Audio Series)
- Kelly Ruta
About Today's Friend: Kelly Ruta is a private advisor to high-achieving women leaders and a former clinical psychotherapist of 20 years. She works with clients who are committed to making big moves and know that strategy alone can't get them there.
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