• Kidulting and Blind Boxes: How to Keep Fun Spending Inside Your Budget
    Oct 22 2026
    In today's episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet react to kidulting and the blind box craze, and share how to keep fun spending inside your budget.In This Episode✓ Kidulting, blind boxes, Funko Pops, and why a Honda Passport beat a Lexus✓ Why a budget line for fun beats a guilt trip✓ Initial jobless claims fall to 194,000 while continuing claims rise 25,000✓ What to check if your hours get cut, including partial benefits in some states✓ Biweekly mortgage payments and the one question to ask your lender✓ How to pay a 30-year mortgage like a 15✓ What skipping one year of $200-a-month saving costs by age 65✓ Quarterly taxes on a side gig, and extra W-4 withholding as a simpler path✓ Money move: find $25 for your emergency fundIf you've ever added a blind box to your cart and wondered whether it was worth it, this episode gives you a way to decide before you check out.ResourcesWatch live weekdays at 11:30 AM Eastern:https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/liveWin Our Christmas Bonus:https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/giveawayBook a call:https://www.ralphestepjr.com/scheduleYear-End Personal Tax Review with Ralph, $199:https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/yearendBe on the show:https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/stuckPrevious episode, Inherited IRA Rules: What the 10-Year Rule Means for Your Taxes:https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/inherited-ira-rules-1/Weekly jobless claims report (U.S. Department of Labor):https://www.dol.gov/ui/data.pdfEstimated taxes (IRS):https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/estimated-taxesTax Withholding Estimator (IRS):https://www.irs.gov/individuals/tax-withholding-estimatorFollow Becoming Financially ConfidentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/becomingfinanciallyconfidentFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1HpWqv8jp9/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingfinanciallyconfidentSkool Community: https://www.skool.com/becoming-financially-confident-7556Have a money question?Send it here:becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/voicemailCompanies MentionedHondaPrice HondaLexusToyotaMercedes-BenzRolexAppleAmazonMetaFunkoPop MartPokemonKmartStarbucksStripePayPalAmerican ExpressWhitman's
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Inherited IRA Rules: What the 10-Year Rule Means for Your Taxes
    Oct 21 2026

    In today's episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet explain what happens when you inherit a $48,000 traditional IRA, plus a fake bank fraud text, rising home insurance costs, and small business cash flow.

    In This Episode

    ✓ A fake fraud-alert text nearly gets Ralph's youngest son to call the scammers back

    ✓ Home insurance now costs more than property taxes in two-thirds of US counties

    ✓ 55% of small business owners say cash flow is their top problem

    ✓ Inheriting a $48,000 IRA: the 10-year rule and the tax bracket trap

    ✓ Self-employment tax: 15.3% on side hustle income and the four quarterly dates

    ✓ Which dollars to keep when you cut, and finding your first $25

    If you've ever stared at a bill or a text and wondered what to do next, today's episode gives you a place to start.

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    FTC on 2025 fraud losses:

    https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/press-releases/2026/03/ftc-testifies-joint-economic-committee-agencys-efforts-combat-fraud

    Home insurance vs. property taxes (Bloomberg Intelligence via Claims Journal):

    https://www.claimsjournal.com/news/national/2026/10/20/340815.htm

    Fora Financial 2026 Business Insights:

    https://www.forafinancial.com/business-insights/

    IRS Publication 590-B (inherited IRAs):

    https://www.irs.gov/publications/p590b

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    Companies Mentioned

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  • Target Date Funds Explained: The 401(k) Choice Most People Never Make
    Oct 20 2026

    In today’s episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet spend the whole show on 401(k)s, covering the fees nobody sends a bill for, the fund you may never have chosen, and the old accounts people leave behind.

    In This Episode

    ✓ How a one-point fee gap cuts a 401(k) balance by 28% in the Labor Department’s example

    ✓ Why two target date funds with the same year can cost very different amounts

    ✓ 31.9 million forgotten 401(k)s holding $2.13 trillion

    ✓ What fiduciary means and why it matters when you pick a fund

    ✓ One Good Question: Marcus’s water bill jumps from $75 to $210

    ✓ Money move: find your first $25 in cut week

    If you have never looked at what your 401(k) actually costs, this episode gives you a place to start.

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    Retirement Savings Lost and Found:

    https://lostandfound.dol.gov/

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    Companies Mentioned

    Vanguard

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    58 mins
  • The Viral $200 Social Security Bonus Isn’t Real, and Your 3.6% Raise Nets $68
    Oct 19 2026

    In today’s episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet break down what the 3.6% Social Security raise really nets after Medicare Part B, and why the viral $200 bonus isn’t real.

    In This Episode

    ✓ Social Security’s 3.6% raise, about $75 a month before Medicare Part B

    ✓ The viral $200 bonus that Congress never approved

    ✓ The Claiming Age Clarity Act and the new age labels

    ✓ High-yield savings near 4.2% vs. 0.01% at big banks

    ✓ Wall Street’s $32 billion week and why only 63% of adults can cover $400

    ✓ Community Mailbag: paying down a 27% card, a 0% balance transfer, and which bills come first after cut hours

    ✓ Money move: the $250 emergency fund challenge, starting with your first $25

    If your raise, your savings, or your credit card balance feels stuck, this episode shows where to start.

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    Check your Social Security account:

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    57 mins
  • BFC Weekly Recap: Surveillance Pricing, Credit Unions, Minimum Payments, and Debt Lawsuits
    Oct 17 2026

    In this week’s recap, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet revisit the week’s best money moves, from surveillance pricing and credit card minimum payments to why a credit union may be a better home for your savings.

    In This Episode

    ✓ Surveillance pricing and how to check your shopping preferences

    ✓ What to say when a promo rate expires

    ✓ Why the credit card minimum payment keeps you in debt

    ✓ Why you should always request a direct rollover

    ✓ How credit unions and banks differ, and what it means for savings and car loans

    ✓ How to size life insurance by the gap, not a rule of thumb

    ✓ What to do with a court summons or an accidental deposit

    ✓ Why six figures does not guarantee a mortgage

    ✓ How guest Tina paid off about $23,000 with a 401(k) loan

    If you’ve ever wondered whether your bank or your paperwork is costing you more than it should, this recap gives you plenty to check.

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    Companies Mentioned

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    Claude

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    17 mins
  • How a 40-Year Banker Paid Off $23,000 of Debt With a 401(k) Loan
    Oct 16 2026

    In today’s episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet sit down with retired banker Tina Poole and break down convenience store overcharging, AI bill negotiators, and the condo market.

    In This Episode

    ✓ A $3.99 pack of gum rang up at $4.99, and Circle K failed 35% of price checks

    ✓ AI bots now call your cable company and haggle your bill, but who wins when the bots talk to each other?

    ✓ A $260,000 Colorado condo, a $470 monthly HOA, and a buyer who says he feels trapped

    ✓ Tina Poole’s 40 years in banking, $23,000 of divorce debt, and the 401(k) loan that cleared it

    ✓ The Christmas club account, a 40-year savings habit that just paid Tina $650

    ✓ The Christmas bonus giveaway starts Monday, with a prize that grows up to $1,000

    ✓ Money move: check your life insurance and who your beneficiaries are

    If you’ve ever wondered whether the price you saw is the price you paid, this episode will make you look twice.

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    Companies Mentioned

    7-Eleven

    Circle K

    The Guardian

    Rocket Money

    Kira

    Verizon

    OpenTable

    Fannie Mae

    Freddie Mac

    KingSumo

    MBNA

    Bank of America

    Chase

    Amazon

    Apple

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • IRS Employees Snooped 86 Times, and 175 Taxpayers Were Never Told
    Oct 15 2026

    In today’s episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet explain how to calculate how much life insurance you need, and why Ralph’s own health nearly priced him out.

    In This Episode

    ✓ IRS employees snooped on taxpayer records 86 times

    ✓ Housing affordability at a 19-year low

    ✓ Why boomers’ $93 trillion may not reach their kids

    ✓ The DIME formula: debt, income, mortgage, education

    ✓ Term vs. whole life, and what a medical exam checks

    ✓ How losing 200 pounds changed Ralph’s rating

    If you’ve been putting off the life insurance conversation, this episode gives you a number to start with.

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    Companies Mentioned

    Zillow

    Ethos

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    Walmart

    Target

    Dunkin’

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    58 mins
  • Debt Collectors Are Suing More and Winning: Why You Should Never Ignore a Summons
    Oct 14 2026

    In today’s episode, Ralph Estep Jr. and Juliet focus on why debt collectors are suing more people and winning, and what to do the moment a summons arrives.

    In This Episode

    ✓ Debt collectors are suing more, and 3 in 4 cases end in a default judgment

    ✓ A $600 deposit from a former employer: whose money is it?

    ✓ Every $100 in minimum payments cuts thousands off what a lender will approve

    ✓ Side hustle pitfalls: separate accounts, a tax jar, real pricing, boundaries, and paperwork

    ✓ Roth vs. traditional IRA: pay tax now or pay it later

    ✓ Money move: check your beneficiaries

    If you’ve ever ignored an official-looking envelope, this episode gives you plenty to think about.

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    https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/quicken

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    https://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/lawdepot

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    Companies Mentioned

    Encore

    Portfolio Recovery Associates

    Chase

    MarketWatch

    Quicken Simplifi

    LawDepot

    KingSumo

    Tupperware

    Avon

    Google Meet

    Zillow

    Facebook

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