Lawrence Joss discusses the complexities of child development and attachment with Melanie Gill, an attachment specialist. They explore how parental influence shapes a child's brain development, the impact of disrupted attachment, and the long-term effects of cognitive dissonance and deception on children. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster compassion and healing within families.

Key Takeaways

• Understanding child development is crucial for parents.
• Attachment relationships are fundamental to brain growth.
• Disrupted attachment can lead to lifelong patterns.
• Children adapt to survive in dysfunctional environments.
• Cognitive dissonance creates confusion in children.
• Lying has neurological costs for children.
• Emotional regulation can be reversed in unhealthy dynamics.
• Compassion is key to healing transgenerational trauma.
• Community support is essential for healing.
• Education and understanding can lead to better parenting.

Chapters

0:00 - Opening: Why Kids Suddenly Change
2:31 - Community Welcome And Mission
3:17 - Framing The Science Of Attachment
4:16 - Healthy Vs Disrupted Attachment
6:00 - Survival Adaptations Become Patterns
8:29 - Cognitive Dissonance In Alienation
10:40 - The Neurological Cost Of Lying
12:23 - Reversed Emotional Regulation
14:05 - Compassion, Tools, And Next Steps

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Lawrence Joss explores the profound themes of mortality, parental alienation, and the emotional struggles that accompany them. He shares his personal journey through anxiety, recovery, and the fear of dying without reconciling with his children. The conversation delves into the importance of preparing for death, leaving a legacy, and the impact of community support in navigating these challenges. Joss emphasizes the need for proactive measures in parenting and the significance of sharing one's story with future generations.

Key Takeaways

• Am I gonna die before I get a relationship back with my kids?
• Death and grieving are monumental events.
• I thought I was there to stop drinking.
• I was in a white bed, in a white room.
• I was scared to die and I was sure I was going to die.
• I want them to see who I am in this moment.
• I never stopped parenting.
• Let's talk about this.
• I want to share some resources with my children now.
• This is a universal pain and suffering.

Chapters

00:00 - Facing the Unthinkable Question
02:00 - Panic, Addiction Recovery & Not Knowing What Was Happening
04:30 - Community as Lifeline & Learning I Couldn’t Do This Alone
06:45 - When the Body Holds Unresolved Grief
08:45 - Making Friends with Death & Understanding the Family System
10:45 - A Near-Death Medical Moment
13:30 - Parenting Without Access Over Decades
15:45 - Reclaiming Agency Through Legacy
18:30 - From Me to We: Community, Meaning & Continuing to Live Fully

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:
https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

In this insightful conversation, Lisa Cohen shares her 26-year journey through parental alienation, detailing the emotional turmoil, the challenges of navigating the court system, and the importance of community support. She reflects on her evolution from anger to acceptance, the role of service in her healing process, and the lessons learned along the way. Lisa emphasizes the need for self-care, resilience, and the hope that one day her children will find their way back to her. This discussion serves as a beacon of hope for those facing similar struggles, highlighting the importance of living a full life while navigating the complexities of family dynamics.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation can lead to deep emotional pain and anger.
• Community support is crucial for healing and resilience.
• Navigating the court system can be a long and arduous process.
• Self-care and living a fulfilling life are essential for parents in crisis.
• Hope exists, but it must be tempered with realism.
• Service to others can be a powerful tool for personal healing.
• It's important to embrace life and find joy amidst struggles.
• Children may not recognize their own challenges due to alienation.
• The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience.
• Every parent's experience with alienation is unique, but shared struggles can foster connection.

Chapters

00:00 - Navigating Parental Alienation: A Mother's Journey
02:43 - The Evolution of Pain: From Anger to Acceptance
05:58 - Finding Community: The Power of Support Groups
08:41 - The Long Road: Understanding the Court System
11:57 - Living with Hope: The Reality of Alienation
14:45 - Embracing Life: Finding Joy Amidst Struggles
17:46 - The Role of Service: Helping Others Heal
20:46 - Lessons Learned: Advice for Parents in Crisis
23:42 - The Importance of Self-Care: Living Fully
26:48 - Legacy and Hope: A Mother's Unwavering Love

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Connect with Lisa Cohen:
https://www.jump-parenting.org.uk

Please donate to support PAA programs:
https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com