Healing has started to feel like another form of pressure.

In this episode, Ana examines how healing culture became intertwined with hustle culture—absorbing the same values of productivity, achievement, visibility, and constant progress. What began as care slowly turned into a project: milestones to reach, breakthroughs to perform, insights to collect, and identities to achieve.

Through a trauma-informed and somatic lens, this episode explores why so many people now feel exhausted by healing, why rest no longer feels enough, and why integration has been replaced by endless “firsts.” Healing is reframed not as accumulation or self-optimization, but as containment, digestion, and staying with what has already been lived.

Ana discusses how achievement-based healing keeps the nervous system in vigilance, why trauma survivors and people conditioned to endure are especially impacted, and how cultural narratives around growth, resilience, and self-improvement quietly reinforce self-override rather than safety.

This episode offers a corrective orientation to healing—one that values integration over performance, completion over constant becoming, and embodiment over endless insight. It invites listeners to question whether exhaustion is a personal failure, or a sign that healing itself has been shaped by systems that do not allow arrival.

This conversation is for anyone who feels tired of “working on themselves,” confused by why healing hasn’t brought rest, or sensing that something essential has been lost in the chase to become better.

• (00:00:00) - How Healing Culture Turned Into Hustle Culture
• (00:02:11) - How healing culture became exhausting
• (00:04:28) - Healing Culture: The End of Movement
• (00:17:33) - Why You're Tired of Healing

In the wake of the school shooting in Canada that took the lives of fifteen children, Ana offers a moral reflection on grief, anger, leadership, and collective responsibility.

This is not news commentary. It is a call to conscience.

Ana speaks directly to the societal questions emerging after the Canada school shooting: What happens when children are no longer safe in schools? What does moral leadership look like when institutions fail? Why do some people say, “It didn’t happen here,” and how does that trauma response reduce proximity of threat and normalize what should never be normalized?

In this episode, Ana addresses:

• collective grief after a school shooting
• trauma responses and societal numbness
• leadership failure and civic responsibility
• the normalization of violence
• why children’s safety is a human rights issue
• how adults can respond without collapsing into despair

Ana also offers a closing prayer for the children, families, and communities affected — a grounding moment for those carrying grief, anger, and moral shock.

If you are feeling devastated, angry, morally unsettled, or disoriented after the school shooting in Canada, this episode offers clarity, conscience, and a space to grieve without becoming numb.

This is about grief without collapse.
Anger without chaos.
And refusing to normalize violence.

Ana also offers a closing prayer for the children, families, and communities affected — a grounding, somatic moment for those carrying grief, anger, and moral shock. This prayer is an invitation to hold sorrow without collapsing, to stay human in the face of violence, and to refuse normalization.

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About Ana Mael:

Ana Mael is a genocide survivor, somatic therapist, and author of The Trauma We Don’t Talk About. She is the founder of the Somatic Trauma Recovery Center and has dedicated her career to helping survivors reclaim their identity, dignity, and self-trust.

With decades of lived experience, Ana offers a unique, unapologetic approach to healing that combines trauma justice, somatic therapy, and spiritual integrity. She advocates for vulnerability, accountability, and collective healing to dismantle the systems that perpetuate oppression and harm.

Ana’s work provides a critical lens into the trauma of marginalized communities and offers a roadmap for healing that is both deeply personal and collectively transformative.

• (00:00:00) - Canada's response to the shooting
• (00:11:09) - A call for activism in the year 2020
• (00:15:12) - A Prayer for the Victims of the Terror

Some trauma doesn’t scream. It steps aside. It apologizes. It yields before anyone asks. It is invisible survival pattern where you give away space, voice, and presence just to stay safe. Once you see it, you’ll recognize it everywhere.

This is the trauma of women, refugees, racialized bodies, exiled and anyone taught that survival depends on becoming smaller.

In this episode, Ana Mael introduces Yielding Trauma, a term she coined to describe a rarely named trauma pattern that lives in the body after exile, displacement, chronic danger, and long-term survival under threat.

Yielding trauma is what happens when survival teaches a person to make themselves smaller before anyone asks—to yield space, time, voice, and presence as a way to stay safe. It shows up in how we walk, how we wait in lines, how we drive, how we over-serve, and how we apologize for existing. Often misread as politeness, humility, or passivity, yielding trauma is an embodied survival strategy rooted in war, forced migration, systemic oppression, gendered socialization, racism, disability, and chronic marginalization.

Through lived war experience, clinical insight, and somatic observation, Ana explores how yielding trauma forms, how it shapes posture, gait, nervous system responses, and misplaced rage, and why moments like road rage or being cut off in line can activate disproportionate reactions. These moments are not about the present incident—they are echoes of years spent yielding to survive.

This episode speaks directly to refugees, immigrants, women, BIPOC individuals, disabled bodies, survivors of abuse, and anyone who has learned to move through the world at an angle. It also offers therapists, clinicians, and educators a new framework for understanding behaviors often misunderstood in trauma recovery.

Yielding Trauma names what has long been felt but rarely spoken: the cost of survival when belonging was not guaranteed—and the slow, intentional work of reclaiming space, dignity, and presence.

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Ana Mael’s Unique Approach to Trauma Healing:

Ana Mael offers a trauma-informed, justice-centered approach to healing. As a somatic therapist and genocide survivor, Ana’s unique insights stem from lived experience. She doesn’t just teach healing in the traditional sense; she advocates for truth, accountability, and dignity as core components of trauma recovery.

Her work speaks to marginalized communities—those who have been forced to suppress their emotions and voices in the face of violence and oppression. She helps them reconnect with their authenticity and emotional sovereignty. Ana challenges harmful practices that disregard the systemic nature of trauma and promotes trauma justice as the important path to healing.

By weaving in somatic techniques, Ana empowers individuals to release the weight of their past and move toward personal empowerment.

Ana has unique ability to blend compassionate understanding of trauma with empowerment and advocacy for those who are often marginalized.

About Ana Mael:

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• (00:00:00) - There is a Trauma Response No One Teaches You to Name
• (00:01:03) - Yielding trauma: The body's
• (00:10:19) - Yielding Trauma: Its Moral Inversion
• (00:15:27) - Yielding Trauma and Road Rage
• (00:30:06) - Walking at an Angle: The Trauma