Episodes

  • Ep. 70: Evan Chokes 2: The Chokening
    Jun 13 2026

    Recognize the obscure Schitt's Creek reference? In this episode, I discuss:

    1. What I would love our (Eva and myself) condom rule to be.

    2. Sperm competition

    3. A play date that reminds me there are still things to experience for the first time in the lifestyle, even after 5 years.

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    36 mins
  • Ep. 69: Will Power
    May 23 2026

    What happens when you have a strict condom rule but find yourself in a hot tub with a woman begging you to break that rule? This is the second time in the last year that I have found myself in this sort of situation. In this episode I'll talk about having will power and staying honest to the rules established by you and your partner.

    *I also briefly defend my podcast from a negative review. If you aren't interested in hearing that, skip to 12:34.

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    39 mins
  • Ep. 68: Winding Down?
    Apr 25 2026

    After I recorded this episode, I listened to it and realized my allergies affected my voice more than I thought! Apologies for my grogginess!

    In this episode, I respond to a listener question about breaking the ice. Then, I talk about how several factors are making it seem like our time in the lifestyle is winding down.

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    34 mins
  • Ep. 67: St. Patty's Day O'rgy
    Apr 11 2026

    What happens when there are two couples you want to play with at the club? How do you choose? Instead, how about you just play with both? That's exactly what happened when Eva and I attended a St. Patrick's Day event at a club. We had a great time and I'll tell you all about it in this episode!

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    41 mins
  • Ep. 66: Happy Valen-times
    Mar 28 2026

    I have learned that going into an event with no expectations is often the best way to ensure I'll have fun. It was no exception on Valentines Day when Eva and I attended a club event, knowing full well ahead of time that we would not be playing with anyone that evening.

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    35 mins
  • Ep. 65: Reclaim Sex
    Mar 14 2026

    Something that continues to be an absolute favorite of both Eva and myself: reclaim sex. In this episode, I'll discuss why it has become such an enjoyable and dare I say necessary part of our lifestyle adventures.

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    34 mins
  • Ep. 64: An Enjoyable but Unusual Solo Adventure
    Feb 28 2026

    In this episode you'll hear about a solo adventure that was not only enjoyable, but unusual...at least for me. I'll tell you all about it and reinforce how respecting the dynamics of other couples is important in the lifestyle.

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    37 mins
  • Ep. 63: Baffled by a Back Out
    Feb 14 2026

    There are plenty of pet peeves I have but one related to the lifestyle is flaky couples. In this episode, I answer a few listener questions and then discuss a baffling situation involving a couple that suddenly changed their minds about meeting Eva and me for a play date.

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    32 mins