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Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace

Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace

By: Becky Kolb Estrangement and Relationship Coach
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Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace Podcast is hosted by me, Becky Kolb. I help Christian women find peace amid estrangement through practical teaching & biblical truth. navigate 💔estrangement.


Your heart is broken. You flip between guilt, shame and feelings of unworthiness.


You feel distant from God and wonder if He even hears your prayers anymore. I’ve been there and felt all of this.


You are a beautiful child of God, loved and accepted. You aren’t who your child or others may say you are. Guilt and shame keep you locked in a mental prison. There’s help!


Start the process toward healing now. 📲DOWNLOAD my FREE guide - 4 Steps to Discover Lasting Peace Amid Estrangement at: 📲www.beckykolb.com/guide

My estrangement story began with a divorce and remarriage and some decisions around that. The guilt and shame was overwhelming as most of my family didn't speak to me for several years. You can read my journey with estrangement and the peace I found at https://www.beckykolb.com/meet-becky

I discovered the #1 step toward healing broken relationships and the barrier that kept me from it. You don’t have to make that same mistake.

My relationship with God was almost non-existent and I wondered if He had rejected me too. But what I discovered was Him standing with arms wide open waiting for me to turn around.

I learned that you can't force reconciliation. Any attempt to change another person is fruitless. The only control you and I have is ourselves and my podcast and coaching focus is on WHOLENESS in your heart.


I offer free no pressure, no obligation discovery calls to see if coaching is right for you. It's not a sales pitch. If that's something you seek, navigate to www.beckykolb.com/work-with-becky and let's have a conversation.

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Episodes
  • 75: The Joy of Forgiveness
    Jun 23 2026

    Send me a text…what do struggle with most in estrangement

    Joy and forgiveness don’t belong in the same sentence. Or do they? Estrangement brings such a host of emotions. Sadness, anger, resentment, disappointment and many more. How is joy even possible when your heart is so heavy?

    Today I’ll share with you the joy of forgiveness and how it can set your heart free – even amid estrangement. You don’t have to reconcile or receive an apology to forgive and have joy.

    Joy is an acronym for something that I’ll share next. Stay with me and let’s explore this together.

    Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/75.

    Becky Kolb helps women with estranged relationships find lasting peace and the ability to move forward from guilt & shame, learn the process of forgiveness, rediscover God and what he says about you, develop boundaries and non-negotiables for healthy relationships. And the result is living your passion and purpose with peace and losing the weight of anger and bitterness!

    Contact Becky at www.beckykolb.com/contact

    Download the free guide to work through Finding Peace Amid Estrangement at www.beckykolb.com/guide

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    9 mins
  • 74: Trusting God During Estrangement
    Jun 17 2026

    Send me a text…what do struggle with most in estrangement

    Trusting God during estrangement is essential to your mental health. However, it’s one of the hardest things to do.

    This child whom you’ve reared, nourished, protected and loved has chosen to walk away from you and your heart is broken. How could this happen? Every mother makes mistakes parenting her children. I made them. My mother made them. You will too.

    Prayer is the cry of your heart as you plead with God to soften hearts and reconcile the hurtful words and actions that have created the distance between you. What do you do when God doesn’t answer? When He seems distant too? That’s what today’s episode is all about. Thanks for joining me.

    Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/74.

    Becky Kolb helps women with estranged relationships find lasting peace and the ability to move forward from guilt & shame, learn the process of forgiveness, rediscover God and what he says about you, develop boundaries and non-negotiables for healthy relationships. And the result is living your passion and purpose with peace and losing the weight of anger and bitterness!

    Contact Becky at www.beckykolb.com/contact

    Download the free guide to work through Finding Peace Amid Estrangement at www.beckykolb.com/guide

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    9 mins
  • 73: 3 Reasons Estranged Kids Stay Silent
    Jun 10 2026

    Send me a text…what do struggle with most in estrangement

    While every family story is different, I’ve discovered three reasons estranged kids stay silent. If you’ve been searching for answers and hearing crickets, you are not alone.

    As a mother your heart breaks when your child refuses to talk with you. The disruption in your family is overwhelming and may extend even to your grandkids. You long to know why and wonder how you can fix the problem so everything can get back to normal.

    These questions took a toll on my heart until I took a hard look at the three reasons I’ll share with you today. And once you understand, you can begin to shift your perspective. Furthermore, your behavior and expectations will change creating an open door for reconciliation. Thanks for joining me today.

    Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/73.

    Becky Kolb helps women with estranged relationships find lasting peace and the ability to move forward from guilt & shame, learn the process of forgiveness, rediscover God and what he says about you, develop boundaries and non-negotiables for healthy relationships. And the result is living your passion and purpose with peace and losing the weight of anger and bitterness!

    Contact Becky at www.beckykolb.com/contact

    Download the free guide to work through Finding Peace Amid Estrangement at www.beckykolb.com/guide

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    12 mins
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