Curious how wedding planners are actually using AI behind the scenes—and where they draw the line so creativity, connection, and trust stay human?

In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, hosts Alexandra Pare and Alison Golt are joined by fellow wedding planner, designer, and mom of four, Jessica Ashley. Following her standout panel appearance at the DMV Collective, Jessica dives deeper into how she's using AI as a tool—not a replacement—to build efficiencies in her business and reclaim time in her personal life.

From faster email response times to meeting transcriptions, proposal workflows, and visual communication, this conversation explores the practical, ethical, and emotional realities of working with AI in a relationship-driven industry like weddings. The result is a thoughtful, honest discussion about embracing technology while protecting what matters most: human connection.

What we'll talk about:

• AI works best as a junior assistant, not a creative director.
• Systems must come first—AI refines processes, it doesn't replace them.
• Faster response times can significantly improve client experience and bookings.
• Visual tools help bridge communication gaps between planners, clients, and vendors.
• Human connection, trust, and clarity remain irreplaceable in wedding planning.

Chapters:

[00:00] Welcome to Weddings Unscripted & meeting Jessica Ashley

[01:24] Jessica's journey and why AI entered her workflow

[02:04] Early experimentation with ChatGPT and learning by doing

[03:36] How planners can practically use AI day to day

[05:28] Building systems first, then layering in AI

[12:17] AI, SEO, and how couples are searching differently

[14:09] Jessica's background in weddings, interiors, and design

[21:13] Real-world use cases: meetings, notes, tasks, and follow-ups

[22:07] Permissions, sharing summaries, and client-facing clarity

[22:26] Visual tools, renderings, and communicating design ideas

[23:31] New tools, evolving platforms, and staying adaptable

[25:11] Why AI won't replace planners—and what it can support

[27:12] Human connection, trust, and putting phones down at weddings

[35:44] Response times, client expectations, and standing out

[40:22] Starting with AI thoughtfully & final reflections

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