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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief

End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief

By: Rev Annalouiza Armendariz & Rev Wakil David Matthews
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Death touches us all, and yet our culture rarely makes space to talk about it openly. Why is it so hard to have honest conversations about death, dying, and loss with the people we love? What do we do with grief when it inevitably arrives?


End of Life Conversations is a podcast dedicated to normalizing these essential conversations. Hosts Reverent Mother Annalouiza Armendariz and Reverend Wakil David Matthews — both seasoned hospice chaplains and end-of-life companions — invite experts and everyday voices alike: funeral directors, death doulas, poets, researchers, grief counselors, and people who've walked right up to the edge of life and returned. Together, they explore what it means to prepare for death, sit with loss, and grieve in ways that are as individual as we are.


And weekly, we share a conversation with our friend Sam Zemke about something that is currently speaking to us.


Whether you're supporting a loved one through a terminal illness, searching for the right words to start a difficult conversation, or simply curious about what a more death-positive life might look like, this podcast meets you where you are. No question is too strange. No path looks the same.


Subscribe, reach out, and join the conversation. Because the time to talk about it is now.


endoflifeconvo@gmail.com | endoflifeconvos.substack.com


We want to thank our excellent editor, Sam Zemkee. We also acknowledge that we live and work on unceded indigenous peoples' lands. We thank them for their generations of stewardship, which continues to this day, and honor them by doing all we can to create a sustainable planet and support the flourishing of all life, both human and more-than-human.

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Episodes
  • Hospice Patients Teach Us About Living & Dying in A Changing World w/ Mike Oppenheim & Coffin Talk

    Hospice Patients Teach Us About Living & Dying in A Changing World w/ Mike Oppenheim & Coffin Talk
    May 23 2026

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    What can hospice patients teach us about living well before we die?

    In this conversation, Mike Oppenheim, host of Coffin Talk, shares insights from hospice volunteering, conversations about death, and years spent exploring how mortality shapes the way we live.

    We discuss:

    - What hospice patients often realize near the end of life
    - Why Americans struggle to talk about death openly
    - How fear of dying affects relationships, grief, and caregiving
    - The emotional impact of hospice work and end-of-life care
    - How conversations about mortality can deepen meaning and connection
    - Practical ways to start talking about death with loved ones

    This episode is for anyone navigating grief, caregiving, aging, existential anxiety, or simply trying to live more honestly in an uncertain world.

    If you’ve ever wondered how to talk about death, how to support someone who is dying, or how mortality awareness can change your life, this conversation offers a grounded and compassionate place to begin.

    Mike's website
    Coffin Talk Podcast

    #deathanddying #hospicecare #griefsupport #mortality #coffintalk #mikeoppenheim #endoflife #deathpositive #griefandloss #caregiving

    Support the show

    This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

    Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

    You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

    And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

    We want to be transparent that we use AI tools to help us with titles, show notes, editing, and introductions.
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    51 mins
  • Weekly Dispatch: Prayers for Pulled Weeds - Learning from Invasives, Naturalization, and Ecological Change

    Weekly Dispatch: Prayers for Pulled Weeds - Learning from Invasives, Naturalization, and Ecological Change
    May 20 2026

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    What does it mean to grieve an invasive species? 🌿

    In this episode, we explore ecological grief, invasive plants, naturalization, climate change, and the emotional complexity of land stewardship. When we remove species from ecosystems, are we only managing landscapes, or are we also confronting deeper questions about belonging, survival, loss, and coexistence?

    Prayers for Pulled Weeds is a thoughtful conversation about biodiversity, conservation, death positivity, and the emotional realities of caring for land in a changing world. Together, we examine whether grief itself can become part of ethical stewardship.

    In this episode we consider:

    - Ecological grief and environmental loss
    - Native vs non-native species
    - Climate change and ecosystem shifts
    - Compassionate land stewardship
    - Emotional resilience and conservation
    - Nature, mortality, and interconnectedness

    If you’ve ever felt conflicted while removing a plant, mourning environmental change, or questioning humanity’s role in nature, this conversation is for you.

    Asher's Episode - Biodiversity Loss and The Role of Art as a Way to Cope with Ecological Despair.

    Crime Pays But Botany Doesn't:
    (https://www.facebook.com/cpbbd.videos)
    (https://www.instagram.com/crime_pays_but_botany_doesnt/)

    Sand Talk by Tyson Yunkaporta

    Fox Yarn with Tyson Yunkaporta and Rune Hjarno - Nordic Animism

    Earth Grief - Stephen Harrod Buhner

    Ministry for The Future - Kim Stanley Robinson

    #EcologicalGrief #InvasiveSpecies #ClimateGrief #EnvironmentalGrief #NaturePodcast #DeathPositive #Conservation #Biodiversity #ClimateChange #GriefAndLoss

    Support the show

    This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

    Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

    You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

    And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

    We want to be transparent that we use AI tools to help us with titles, show notes, editing, and introductions.
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    29 mins
  • What a Death Doula Actually Does — and Why Every Family Needs This Conversation | Nikki Smith the Death Doula

    What a Death Doula Actually Does — and Why Every Family Needs This Conversation | Nikki Smith the Death Doula
    May 16 2026

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    Death doula Nikki Smith joins us to talk about end-of-life planning, dying with dignity, and why the conversation your family keeps avoiding might be the most important one you ever have.

    In a culture that treats death as something to fear and avoid, Nikki's work as a death doula offers a different path — one grounded in presence, honesty, and love. She's guided hundreds of individuals and families through the final chapter, and in this episode she shares what that work actually looks like, what families wish they had done sooner, and how to start the conversation even when it feels impossible.

    Whether you're facing a loss right now, doing end-of-life planning for yourself, or simply want to be more prepared — this episode will leave you with practical steps and a lot more peace than you walked in with.

    What we cover:
    → What a death doula actually does (and how it differs from hospice)
    → How to start the end-of-life conversation with someone you love
    → How to plan for a good death — for yourself and your family

    Guest: Nikki Smith, Death Doula

    Nikki Smith (She/Her/Hers)

    Death Doula, Grief Coach, Podcaster
    https://www.nikkithedeathdoula.com
    Check out The Good Grief Society. Real talk, real support, zero B.S.

    #deathdoula #endoflifeplanning #deathpositive #grief #dyingwithdignity #consciousdying #gooddeath #deathpositivemovement #griefpodcast #deathcare

    Support the show

    This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

    Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

    You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

    And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

    We want to be transparent that we use AI tools to help us with titles, show notes, editing, and introductions.
    Show More Show Less
    32 mins
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