• 🎙️EP171. The Life You Were Reborn to Live | Gary Thomas
    Jun 29 2026

    Many believers know they're saved but still struggle to experience the peace, joy, and freedom Jesus promised.

    In this episode, Steve Adams sits down with bestselling author Gary Thomas to discuss The Life You Were Reborn to Live. Together they unpack the subtle spiritual lies that keep Christians trapped in fear, striving, isolation, entitlement, and performance-driven faith.

    If you've ever sensed there must be more to following Jesus than simply "getting to heaven," this conversation offers a compelling invitation to rediscover the life you were truly reborn to live.

    Get Gary's new book: https://a.co/d/03OmXHwg

    Learn more about Gary Thomas: https://garythomas.com

    Connect with Embracing Brokenness Ministries: https://embracingbrokenness.org

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Why the Church Still Gives Gary Thomas Hope (Cold Open)

    01:12 Introduction & Meet Gary Thomas

    02:20 Why Gary Wrote The Life You Were Reborn to Live

    08:45 The Spiritual Lies That Keep Christians Stuck

    13:05 Consumer Christianity vs. Following Jesus

    19:10 The Church Isn't Here to Serve You

    27:35 Why Isolation Is So Spiritually Dangerous

    33:45 Entitlement vs. Astonishment

    40:15 The Life You Were Reborn to Live

    45:05 Final Encouragement & Where to Find Gary Thomas

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    47 mins
  • 🎙️EP170. We're All Addicted to Something | Jon Seidl on Trauma, Freedom & Following Jesus
    Jun 15 2026

    What if addiction isn't the real problem?

    In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Steve Adams sits down with author, speaker, and storyteller Jon Seidl to discuss his new book, Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic. Jon shares his journey through anxiety, trauma, addiction, recovery, and ultimately deeper intimacy with Christ.

    Together they explore why addiction often begins long before substance abuse, how unresolved wounds shape our behaviors, the danger of hidden struggles in the Church, and why true freedom comes not from behavior modification but from healing the deeper places of the heart.

    Whether your struggle is alcohol, work, pornography, approval, control, comfort, food, success, or something else entirely, this conversation is for you.

    As Jon says:

    "We're all addicted to something."

    Topics include:

    • Trauma and addiction

    • The role of shame in keeping people stuck

    • Why Christians often hide their struggles

    • Radical vulnerability and authentic community

    • Identity in Christ

    • Abiding in Jesus as the path to freedom

    • The concept of "messy sanctification"

    • Finding healing beneath the habit

    Guest:

    Jon Seidl: Author of Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic

    Learn more:

    https://www.jonseidl.com/confessions-of-a-christian-alcoholic-book

    https://www.veritasrecovery.org/

    For more resources from Embracing Brokenness Ministries:

    https://embracingbrokenness.org/

    Chapter Markers

    00:00 Introduction: We're All Addicted to Something

    01:23 Meet Jon Seidl

    05:50 From Journalist to Storyteller

    09:30 Finding Rest and Mental Health

    13:40 Success Didn't Fix the Problem

    16:00 When Alcohol Became an Escape

    19:00 The Slow Fade into Addiction

    23:00 The Miami Trip That Changed Everything

    27:00 "Get to the Root of Why You're Drinking"

    29:00 Childhood Trauma and Hidden Wounds

    32:00 Letting Jesus Into Every Part of Your Story

    35:00 Why Jon Wrote This Book

    37:15 Four Steps Toward Freedom

    37:30 Abiding in Christ

    40:15 Finding Your True Identity

    43:00 Radical Vulnerability

    47:00 The Power of Obedience

    50:00 Escapism, Sobriety and Freedom

    52:00 Embracing Messy Sanctification

    56:00 The Healing Power of Community

    58:00 Veritas Recovery and Next Steps

    1:01:00 Final Encouragement

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 🎙️EP169. Experiencing God in Everyday Life | Richard Blackaby on Spiritual Maturity & Daily Rhythms
    Jun 1 2026

    Richard Blackaby joins Steve Adams for a powerful conversation about spiritual maturity, daily rhythms with God, and what it really means to experience God in everyday life—not just in the extraordinary moments.

    Drawing from the legacy of the bestselling study Experiencing God and the new release Experiencing God in Everyday Life, Richard shares deeply personal stories about his father, Henry Blackaby, spiritual formation, abiding in Christ, and how ordinary believers can learn to recognize God’s presence in the middle of everyday life.

    Together, Steve and Richard discuss:

    Why many Christians feel disconnected from God in daily life

    The danger of reducing faith to activity instead of relationship

    The role of spiritual rhythms and habits in transformation

    The importance of spiritual companionship

    How suffering and disruption shape maturity

    The next generation’s hunger for authentic faith

    Why most of life is lived in the “valleys,” not the mountaintops

    This conversation is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for anyone longing to walk more closely with Jesus in the ordinary rhythms of life.

    🎥 Video opening courtesy of Lifeway.

    📘 Get Experiencing God in Everyday Life by Richard Blackaby and sons:

    https://www.lifeway.com/en/product/experiencing-god-in-everyday-life-bible-study-book-with-video-access-P005853831

    Buy on Amazon: https://a.co/d/066sB40o

    🌐 Learn more about Richard Blackaby and Blackaby Ministries International:

    https://blackaby.org/

    🌿 Learn more about Embracing Brokenness Ministries:

    https://embracingbrokenness.org/


    ⏱️ Chapters

    00:00 — Opening Video (Courtesy of Lifeway)

    01:24 — Welcome & Why This Conversation Matters

    04:06 — Richard Blackaby on Family, Ministry & Legacy

    10:54 — Grandchildren, Prayer Journals & Spiritual Heritage

    14:12 — Writing Prayers & Hearing God More Deeply

    15:28 — Leadership Trivia Begins

    17:38 — Why Experiencing God in Everyday Life Matters Now

    20:20 — Religion vs. Relationship with God

    24:18 — “The Bible Is the Only Book Where You Can Know the Author”

    25:18 — The Seven Realities of Experiencing God

    26:15 — George Barna’s 10-Stop Spiritual Formation Journey

    29:10 — Activity vs. Intimacy with God

    31:30 — Humility, Abiding & the Presence of God

    35:29 — Spiritual Legacy Across Generations

    40:46 — Why Richard Wrote This Book with His Sons

    45:19 — The Spiritual Hunger of Younger Generations

    47:23 — God in the Ordinary Moments of Life

    50:00 — Spiritual Maturity & Daily Rhythms

    53:12 — Habit Stacking & Walking with God Daily

    56:58 — Spiritual Companionship & Community

    01:00:49 — Ministry, Prison Work & Walking Together

    01:01:30 — Richard’s Message to the Younger Generation

    01:03:05 — Leadership Trivia Answer Revealed

    01:05:28 — Why This Book Is an Invitation Into a Way of Life

    01:07:11 — Final Encouragement from Richard Blackaby

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • 🎙️EP168. The Cost of Not Following Jesus Is Greater with Morgan Snyder
    May 18 2026

    What does it really cost to follow Jesus? And what does it cost us when we don’t?

    In this powerful conversation, Steve Adams welcomes Morgan Snyder to the Embracing Brokenness Podcast for a deep and honest discussion about discipleship, formation, healing, risk, and the slow work of becoming whole in Christ.

    Morgan reflects on his 26 years in formal relationship with Wild at Heart, his transition with his wife Cherie into the Become Good Soil movement, and the deeper work of apprenticeship to Jesus in the second half of life. He shares why he and Cherie are now focused on “going deeper with fewer,” investing in the thirsty few who long for more of God and the abundant life.

    Together, Steve and Morgan explore the danger of consumer Christianity, the difference between information and formation, the invitation to become wholehearted men and women, and why brokenness is not the end of the story but often the beginning of deeper restoration.

    This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, spiritually dry, overextended, or aware that simply “believing the right things” has not produced the healing, maturity, intimacy, and purpose they long for. Morgan reminds us that God is not far away. He meets us at the end of our rope, in our need, in our pain, and in the ordinary moments where we create space to notice His voice.

    Learn more about Morgan and Cherie Snyder’s work at Become Good Soil:

    https://becomegoodsoil.com

    Learn more about Embracing Brokenness Ministries:

    https://embracingbrokenness.org

    Chapters

    00:00 — God Meets Us at the End of Our Rope

    01:00 — Welcome to the Embracing Brokenness Podcast

    01:32 — Introducing Morgan Snyder

    02:14 — Morgan’s History with John Eldredge and Wild at Heart

    03:34 — Becoming Good Soil and Going Deeper with Fewer

    04:55 — Husband and Wife Ministry in the Second Half of Life

    05:45 — Don’t Waste Your Pain

    07:01 — Preferring a Circle Over a Platform

    08:00 — The Hidden Years and Carrying Water

    09:11 — Steve’s First Wild at Heart Retreat

    11:08 — Trusting the Slow Work of God

    12:33 — The Interior Work of Becoming Whole

    14:23 — We Are All Being Discipled by Something

    16:21 — Leaving Platform, Salary, and Momentum

    17:45 — Brokenness, Anesthesia, and the Fire in the House

    21:22 — The Cost of Not Following Jesus

    22:36 — Sabbath as Resistance

    23:48 — God as the Father Who Initiates Our Children

    24:56 — Why Embrace Brokenness?

    27:16 — Living Where God Has to Show Up

    29:16 — Becoming the Kind of Person God Can Entrust

    30:25 — Risk at the Core of Discipleship

    31:05 — Prison Ministry and Holy Ground

    34:11 — What Is Burdening Morgan’s Heart?

    35:48 — Dallas Willard and the Discipleship Crisis

    37:40 — Power, Service, and the Vulnerable

    39:52 — The Incomplete Gospel

    41:57 — Consumer Christianity and Hyper-Individualism

    43:53 — Information Is Not Enough

    45:22 — What If God Feels Distant?

    46:31 — How Do I Find God?

    47:31 — Creating Space to Notice God

    48:37 — The Gift of Margin

    49:35 — Micro-Shifts That Change a Life

    50:31 — Start with What Is Necessary

    51:08 — Becoming a King and Practical Resources

    52:02 — Become Good Soil and the Thirsty Few

    53:28 — Participating in the Restoration of All Things

    54:05 — Closing Thoughts

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    55 mins
  • 🎙️EP167. AI Said It Well… But It Doesn’t Know Him
    May 4 2026

    What happens when artificial intelligence reads a manuscript about intimacy with God… and then creates a podcast explaining it?


    That’s exactly what happened when one of our endorsers uploaded our upcoming book Embracing the Way into NotebookLM. Within moments, it generated a 20-minute conversation—two voices unpacking the heart of our message with surprising clarity, accuracy, and even emotional tone.


    So we decided to do something different.


    In this episode, we:

    Play the AI-generated podcast in full

    Reflect on what it got right

    Explore what felt… incomplete

    And wrestle with a critical question for our time:


    Can something that sounds human… begin to replace relationship?


    This isn’t a rejection of AI.

    It’s a call to discernment.


    Because while AI can:

    organize truth

    explain ideas

    accelerate productivity


    …it cannot:

    experience God

    heal your wounds

    or lead you into intimacy with Christ


    We close with practical, biblical guardrails for engaging AI wisely—without losing what matters most.


    Link to 5 Biblical Guardrails for Working with AI

    https://embracingbrokenness.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/5-Biblical-Guardrails-for-Working-with-AI.jpeg


    00:00 – AI Needs a Warning Label (Part 2)

    02:30 – The unexpected AI-generated podcast

    06:15 – What surprised us most

    09:30 – Playing the AI podcast (full segment)

    29:00 – Our reaction: what it got right

    31:30 – Where it missed: relationship vs replication

    34:30 – Identity is received, not achieved

    36:00 – 5 Biblical guardrails for AI (RAILS)

    39:00 – The Great I Am is greater than AI

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    40 mins
  • 🎙️EP166. AI Needs a Warning Label | The Hidden Threat to Your Soul
    Apr 20 2026

    What if the greatest danger of artificial intelligence isn’t what it can do—but what it can replace?


    In this episode of the Embracing Brokenness Podcast, Steve and Colleen Adams explore a growing concern: AI is no longer just a productivity tool—it’s becoming a relational substitute. From AI companions to emotionally intelligent chatbots, we are entering a moment where technology can mimic what only God was meant to fulfill.


    This conversation goes deeper than headlines. It gets to the heart.

    Why AI feels like it “understands” you

    How it subtly meets core human longings

    The danger of synthetic belonging, love, and purpose

    Real stories of how far this has already gone

    Practical red flags to evaluate your own usage

    How to use AI without letting it use you


    This isn’t fear-based. It’s a warning—and an invitation.

    👉 The truth:

    “I AM is greater than AI.” (Use this URL and create a bookmark next to your AI tab in your browser): https://bedecked-litter-95f.notion.site/I-Am-AI-29c29def361b80dc867df86090d3bfe0

    Use this prompt in your favorite AI chat. You may be surprised at the answer it gives you.

    If Screwtape (from C.S. Lewis's Screwtape Letters) were to write a letter to Wormwood on how to thwart my faith and effectiveness personally, what would that letter say based on what you know about me?


    Chapters:

    00:00 – A chilling real-world example of AI companionship

    01:30 – Why this episode matters right now

    03:00 – “AI may replace your need for God”

    05:00 – The emotional evolution of AI

    07:00 – Productivity vs. transformation

    09:00 – AI and the loss of human connection

    12:00 – The Screwtape exercise (eye-opening)

    16:00 – Spiritual warfare and identity

    18:30 – Core longings: Belonging

    20:30 – Purpose vs. productivity

    21:30 – Love and affirmation

    23:00 – Understanding and being “seen”

    24:30 – Safety and relational risk

    26:30 – Significance and generational impact

    29:00 – The substitution problem

    31:00 – The “synthetic steak” analogy

    33:00 – AI companionship and the future

    36:00 – Red flags to watch for

    39:00 – What if you’re not using AI yet?

    41:00 – Practical guardrails

    42:30 – Final truth: I AM > AI

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    42 mins
  • 🎙️EP165. The Dash | Don’t Waste the Life You’ve Been Given
    Apr 6 2026

    Easter reminds us that death is not the end—but it does invite a deeper question: how are we living in the time we’ve been given?


    In this episode of the Embracing Brokenness Podcast, Steve and Colleen explore “The Dash”—the small line between your birth date and death date that represents your entire life.


    Through the story of Alfred Nobel, personal experiences with loss, and a powerful reflection sparked by the song Live Like That, they unpack what it really means to live intentionally.


    You’ll discover:

    Why most people drift instead of live with purpose

    The difference between happiness and lasting joy

    How distraction and self-focus quietly shape your life

    What people actually remember about you in the end

    How to choose love at the “fork in the road” moments


    This isn’t about achieving more—it’s about becoming someone who reflects Christ in everyday life.


    Because the dash may look small… but it holds everything.


    00:00 – Welcome + Easter Monday Reflection

    02:00 – The Question: What Would People Say About Your Life?

    07:30 – The Dash Explained (Birth → Death → Everything Between)

    10:15 – The Alfred Nobel Story (A Wake-Up Call)

    13:30 – Why Most People Drift Through Life

    15:00 – Meaning Doesn’t Just Happen—It’s Cultivated

    18:30 – Colleen’s Turning Point (Loss, Funerals, Clarity)

    22:30 – “Live Like That” – The Measuring Line for Life

    26:00 – The Fork in the Road: Choosing Love or Self

    29:00 – Living Surrendered vs Living in Control

    32:00 – Start With Why (and Where It Falls Short)

    34:30 – Happiness vs Joy

    36:30 – What Living for the Dash Actually Feels Like

    40:00 – It’s Not About What You Achieve

    42:00 – Final Question: What Is Being Written in Your Dash?

    43:30 – Closing Challenge + What’s Next

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    45 mins
  • 🎙️EP164. Reclamation Part 2: The Road Back | When God Redeems the Worst Chapters of Our Story
    Mar 23 2026

    In Part 2 of our Reclamation series, Steve and Colleen Adams explore what it looks like to reclaim the parts of our story that were shaped by failure, shame, and consequences.

    In this deeply personal episode, Steve shares the part of his story he rarely tells publicly — the collapse of a successful real estate business in the 1980s, federal fraud charges, and the prison sentence that followed.

    For years, the weight of that chapter lingered quietly in the background of his life.

    Then, decades later, God prompted him to do something unexpected.

    Go back.

    Together, Steve and Colleen returned to the federal prison camp where he served his sentence — not as an inmate this time, but as a man who had experienced redemption.


    What happened there became a powerful moment of reclamation — a reconciling of past, present, and purpose.


    This conversation explores:

    How God redeems even the most painful chapters of our story

    The difference between shame and redemption

    Why consequences can become part of God’s restoration process

    How wounds and failures can shape our calling

    What it means to reclaim the life God originally intended

    Reclamation isn’t about rewriting the past.

    It’s about seeing how God was present in it all along.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Personal Background

    02:16 The Journey of Reclamation and Writing the Book

    04:12 Early Life, Success, and the Fall into Crime

    07:21 Facing Charges and the Impact on Life

    10:24 The Courtroom and Sentencing Experience

    12:33 Returning to Prison and Reconciliation

    15:54 Reflections on God's Mercy and Grace

    18:39 Visiting Prison and Internal Reconciliation

    22:37 The Internal Journey of Reclamation

    26:17 Turning Point and Surrender to God

    28:21 The Role of God's Word in Healing

    29:37 God's Continuous Reclamation in Our Lives

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    31 mins