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EPISODE 20! This week on Dopamine and Detours, we’re giving a real-life update. We talk pregnancy progress, what “marriage night” at church was like, and why we made the decision to fire our OB and wrap it up with a completely unhinged Reddit story that had us questioning everything.

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This week we share a pregnancy update, talk about finally needing new pants, and catch up on the TV shows we’ve been watching. Ashley puts Jordan in the hot seat with questions about their relationship, and they wrap things up with a couple wild Reddit stories to close out the episode.

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The gender is revealed, the engine lights are on, and Karen Mode is activated. From pregnancy hormones and public meltdowns to funny cry stories and unhinged Reddit chaos — this episode has it all.

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This episode covers first-trimester exhaustion, IVF injection trauma, and niche New Year’s resolutions. We also unpack a Reddit story that turned private relationship details into public tea.

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This episode is a little bit of everything. We share an update on our most recent transfer, talk about how Angel Tree shopping went, and break down some of the most common IVF questions and misconceptions we keep hearing. Then we switch gears and read a completely unhinged Reddit story with a twist you truly won’t see coming.

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In this episode of Dopamine and Detours, we walk through our embryo transfer day, the nerves, the emotions, and the absolute drama of trying to keep a full bladder without fully losing our minds. Then, as always, we spiral straight into TikTok worm holes and ridiculous Reddit stories because… coping.

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This week we’re kicking off our Angel Tree giving and raising money to get the kids exactly what they want for Christmas. If you’d like to help, you can donate on Venmo at

@ashley-harbart or @jordan_flores0624

Don't forget to grab McDonalds french fries Friday November 21st and send us a pic to help support us during our IVF transfer.

We also talk about an awkward friend situation we somehow got stuck in the middle of, give a quick IVF update, and read a couple of wild Reddit dilemmas. It’s a short, sweet, chaotic little episode and we loved it. 🎄💛

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In this week’s episode, we sit down with Brandi, who opens up for the first time about her story. One that’s equal parts heartbreaking and inspiring. She shares how surviving cancer as a baby left her with lifelong side effects, and how a single canon event in her teens triggered an eating disorder that eventually spiraled into addiction, harder drugs, and jail time.

What follows is an honest look at the long, painful road to recovery the kind of healing that strips you down to nothing before rebuilding you into who you were always meant to be. Brandi’s story is proof that even at rock bottom, it’s never too late to start again and that the same person who once struggled to survive can become an incredible mom, a kind soul, and a light for others.

Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide, eating disorders, drug use, and trauma. Please listen with care.