Episodes

  • Navigating Family Boundaries: Grief, Politics, and Advocacy
    Jan 7 2026


    In this special episode of "Don't IEP Alone," Lisa Lightner shares her personal journey of setting boundaries with family amid political and social divides, especially as a special needs parent and advocate. She discusses the grief of lost relationships, the importance of protecting your energy, and how the disability community can find support and understanding—even when it means creating your own village. An honest conversation about family, advocacy, and staying strong when facing adversity.


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    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    The IEP process never gets easier. YOU get better.
    How? With specific action steps and training.
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    29 mins
  • New Year, Fresh IEP Data: How to Track Progress and Advocate Effectively
    Jan 6 2026

    In this episode of Don't IEP Alone, host Lisa Lightner shares actionable tips for parents on IEP data collection after the holiday break. Learn how to track skills at home, compare school reports, and use documentation to advocate for your child’s needs. Plus, discover new IEP toolkits and resources to start your year empowered!



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    🧰 IEP Meeting Toolkit: https://dontiepalone.com/iep-meeting-preparation-toolkit/

    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: https://access.dontiepalone.com/dont-iep-alone-sale/

    ⚠️More on IEP Progress Monitoring: https://adayinourshoes.com/how-to-monitor-iep-progress-for-parents/

    🎯 Free IEP Goal Tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/

    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com

    Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    Instagram: @DontIEPalone

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

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    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

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    15 mins
  • They Used a REED to Skip Testing? Yeah, Let’s Talk About That…
    Dec 2 2025


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    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

    📚 Preorder my book

    🧰 IEP Toolkit for Parents
    💻 Online Advocacy Training

    👉 Ask an Advocate your IEP Question

    How to Write IEP Present Levels




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    10 mins
  • They Don’t Have to Train You...Unless You Ask. 🙄
    Nov 19 2025

    No, the School Isn’t Going to Offer Training (Unless You Demand It)


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    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 https://dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-advocacy-training/

    ⚠️More on IEP Progress Monitoring: https://adayinourshoes.com/how-to-monitor-iep-progress-for-parents/

    🎯 Free IEP Goal Tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/

    Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    Instagram: @DontIEPalone


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    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

    📚 Preorder my book

    🧰 IEP Toolkit for Parents
    💻 Online Advocacy Training

    👉 Ask an Advocate your IEP Question

    How to Write IEP Present Levels




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    9 mins
  • The School Suspended Your Child. Now What?
    Nov 18 2025

    How to Prepare for an IEP Manifestation Determination Hearing at School.



    🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/

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    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

    📚 Preorder my book

    🧰 IEP Toolkit for Parents
    💻 Online Advocacy Training

    👉 Ask an Advocate your IEP Question

    How to Write IEP Present Levels




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    13 mins
  • What am I doing differently as an advocate right now? Lemme tell you...
    Nov 4 2025

    Times are different, and challenging. Here's what I'm doing a little bit differently.

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

    📚 Preorder my book

    🧰 IEP Toolkit for Parents
    💻 Online Advocacy Training

    👉 Ask an Advocate your IEP Question

    How to Write IEP Present Levels




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    23 mins
  • 12 Tips for Special Education Parent-Teacher Conferences
    Oct 28 2025

    Welcome to "Don't IEP Alone," the podcast that provides support and guidance for parents navigating the world of Individualized Education Programs.

    In today's episode, we'll be sharing 12 valuable tips for special education parent-teacher conferences during IEP season. Whether you're a seasoned veteran or new to this journey, these insights will help you approach these important meetings with confidence and clarity. From setting expectations and communication strategies to addressing concerns and understanding your rights, we've got you covered. So grab a pen and paper, and let's dive into these essential tips to ensure you make the most of your parent-teacher conferences.

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

    📚 Preorder my book

    🧰 IEP Toolkit for Parents
    💻 Online Advocacy Training

    👉 Ask an Advocate your IEP Question

    How to Write IEP Present Levels




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    40 mins
  • As Jerry Springer would say-- take care of yourselves, and each other.
    Oct 22 2025

    When one door closes, another opens.

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

    📚 Preorder my book

    🧰 IEP Toolkit for Parents
    💻 Online Advocacy Training

    👉 Ask an Advocate your IEP Question

    How to Write IEP Present Levels




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    16 mins