Episodes

  • Why "Gotcha!" is not an effective advocacy strategy.
    Feb 13 2026

    You can be right.

    You can even prove you’re right.

    That doesn’t mean you’ll get what your child needs.

    Read instead of listen: Why “Gotcha” Doesn’t Win IEP Meetings.

    related content: Is My Child Receiving FAPE? What It Actually Looks Like in Real Life.

    Take the online special education advocacy training (what DOES win IEP meetings!)

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

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    12 mins
  • Avoiding the February IEP Freakout: Proactive Tips for Parents
    Jan 13 2026

    In this episode of Don't IEP Alone, Lisa Lightner shares why February can be a stressful month for IEP parents, what causes the annual "February freakout," and proactive steps you can take now to better advocate for your child. Get essential advice on IEP renewals, kindergarten and transition webinars, progress monitoring, and how to avoid last-minute panic as spring approaches. All the tools and resources you need are in the show notes!



    🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/

    ℹ️ IEP Present Levels for Teachers: https://dontiepalone.com/sale-iep-present-levels/

    🧰 IEP Meeting Toolkit: https://dontiepalone.com/iep-meeting-preparation-toolkit/

    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: https://access.dontiepalone.com/dont-iep-alone-sale/

    ⚠️More on IEP Progress Monitoring: https://adayinourshoes.com/how-to-monitor-iep-progress-for-parents/

    🎯 Free IEP Goal Tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/

    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com

    Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    Instagram: @DontIEPalone


    Free Webinar: Middle & High School IEPs https://dontiepalone.com/free-webinar-middle-high-school-ieps/

    Free Webinar: The Preschool to Kindergarten IEP Transition: https://dontiepalone.com/free-webinar-kindergarten-iep-transition/

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

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    15 mins
  • Navigating Family Boundaries: Grief, Politics, and Advocacy
    Jan 7 2026


    In this special episode of "Don't IEP Alone," Lisa Lightner shares her personal journey of setting boundaries with family amid political and social divides, especially as a special needs parent and advocate. She discusses the grief of lost relationships, the importance of protecting your energy, and how the disability community can find support and understanding—even when it means creating your own village. An honest conversation about family, advocacy, and staying strong when facing adversity.


    🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/

    ℹ️ IEP Present Levels for Teachers: https://dontiepalone.com/sale-iep-present-levels/

    🧰 IEP Meeting Toolkit: https://dontiepalone.com/iep-meeting-preparation-toolkit/

    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: https://access.dontiepalone.com/dont-iep-alone-sale/

    ⚠️More on IEP Progress Monitoring: https://adayinourshoes.com/how-to-monitor-iep-progress-for-parents/

    🎯 Free IEP Goal Tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/

    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com

    Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    Instagram: @DontIEPalone

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    The IEP process never gets easier. YOU get better.
    How? With specific action steps and training.
    Visit ADayInOurShoes.org for more information.

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


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    29 mins
  • New Year, Fresh IEP Data: How to Track Progress and Advocate Effectively
    Jan 6 2026

    In this episode of Don't IEP Alone, host Lisa Lightner shares actionable tips for parents on IEP data collection after the holiday break. Learn how to track skills at home, compare school reports, and use documentation to advocate for your child’s needs. Plus, discover new IEP toolkits and resources to start your year empowered!



    🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/

    ℹ️ IEP Present Levels for Teachers: https://dontiepalone.com/sale-iep-present-levels/

    🧰 IEP Meeting Toolkit: https://dontiepalone.com/iep-meeting-preparation-toolkit/

    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: https://access.dontiepalone.com/dont-iep-alone-sale/

    ⚠️More on IEP Progress Monitoring: https://adayinourshoes.com/how-to-monitor-iep-progress-for-parents/

    🎯 Free IEP Goal Tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/

    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com

    Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    Instagram: @DontIEPalone

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

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    15 mins
  • They Used a REED to Skip Testing? Yeah, Let’s Talk About That…
    Dec 2 2025


    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Every question is answered by an advocate--Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com


    🔴 IEP Transition Workshop Series: adayinourshoes.com/iep-transition-workshops/


    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-...


    ⚠️More on IEP Transition Planning: adayinourshoes.com/iep-transition/


    🎯 Free IEP Binder for Parents: adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/


    Your IEP Playbook: https://adayinourshoes/book/

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

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    10 mins
  • They Don’t Have to Train You...Unless You Ask. 🙄
    Nov 19 2025

    No, the School Isn’t Going to Offer Training (Unless You Demand It)


    🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/

    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 https://dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-advocacy-training/

    ⚠️More on IEP Progress Monitoring: https://adayinourshoes.com/how-to-monitor-iep-progress-for-parents/

    🎯 Free IEP Goal Tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/

    Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    Instagram: @DontIEPalone


    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com

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    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

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    9 mins
  • The School Suspended Your Child. Now What?
    Nov 18 2025

    How to Prepare for an IEP Manifestation Determination Hearing at School.



    🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/

    🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 https://dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-advocacy-training/

    ⚠️More on FAPE: https://adayinourshoes.com/fape/

    🎯 Free IEP Binder for Parents: https://adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/

    https://Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEP

    https://Instagram.com/DontIEPalone

    🧑🏼‍🤝‍🧑🏼 Every question is answered by an advocate--Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

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    13 mins
  • What am I doing differently as an advocate right now? Lemme tell you...
    Nov 4 2025

    Times are different, and challenging. Here's what I'm doing a little bit differently.

    Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate

    Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!

    Support the show


    Other ways I can help you with IEPs:

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    23 mins